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justheather -> RE: If You HAD to Choose... (1/24/2006 7:42:32 AM)
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ORIGINAL: typesgirl
I'd choose A as well. I lived a long time before I discovered my sub-self and I think I could find other ways to satisfy that side of myself other than sex if I had to.
Maybe we should define terms here, because I took D/s to mean Dominance and Submission and not kinky sex. The kinky sex was offered with the vanilla relationship. What I understood the choice to be was: Love with no power exchange but some kink or Power exchange and kink without the love and commitment.
Neither choice is what i really want but i think that was the point, right?
To me D/s is not exclusively about sex. If I choose A and say well I can still have D/s because thats the nature of a good healthy relationship, thats not answering fairly. Thats like saying I will choose B and secretly experience love also without him knowing. In order for there to be D/s, there has to be a Dom and the framework of the question implies there is no Domming going on, just occasional topping in the bedroom.
So all you peeps who cheated, no fair!
(I realise I responded to more than one post here, sorry for the blanket heading)
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