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eyesopened -> RE: How do you know? (3/17/2009 4:45:20 AM)
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I may have just passed into the category of fossil, and I've had quite a bit of life experience that may or not be useful for you to consider.
Like everyone else has said there isn't any magic formula for knowing is anyone is "the one" and be prepared to welcome many "ones" into your life as adding threads makes a richer and more interesting tapestry.
That being said, what makes relationships work is having common goals. Those goals could be to have an available fuck buddy or to get married and have 3 children or hire someone with specific skills for the job, all relationships work best if the goals are in synch. If your goal were to have a life partner and the guy you meet has a goal of casual play, it really doesn't matter so much how much your tender bits tingle when you are with him or that you both like the same music. Goals can change and evolve within a relationship but again if the changed or evolved goals are not shared by the parties in the relationship, it tends to end the relationship.
Know what you want, where you want to go, at this moment in time and be prepared to communicate this. Be prepared to achieve larger goals through the series of smaller related goals. Learn patience. Maybe I'm too much of a fossil, but to me, any meal prepared in a microwave is not nearly as satisfying as the ones that took all day to prepare.
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