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housemouseinoz -> The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/13/2009 11:21:46 PM)
Good afternoon all [:)] i have a question for all those that have been there before me. my Sir works away (away for 2 weeks at a time), then he's home for close to a week. Well he set me a task today, he gave me some cash and told me to go and buy some clothes more to his liking, and the second part to the task was to wear a butt plug while i was out buying clothes. when playing he always puts a condom over it (likes to keep the toys clean), so i did the same today when i put it in. However while i'm in the store browsing at clothes, i could feel it coming out, i was wearing a dress and a g-string, i knew there was no way the g-string was going to hold it, i tried to discreetly get it back in place, but alas there was not hope of that happening, and if i did it any differently i was going to start drawing attention to myself. Then i felt it slip all the way out.......managed to catch it in between my legs and hold it..........i grabbed some items of clothing and made a bee line for the change rooms......LOL..........oh god i'm so glad it didn't fall on the floor. So my question is, how on earth do you get them to stay where they are supposed to stay, was my error.....putting a condom on it.......and as such making it slippery? What a fantastic embarassing moment, but sadly not one i could share with my vanilla friends [:D]

GreedyTop -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/13/2009 11:29:35 PM)
tight bikini panties

GrizzlyBear -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/13/2009 11:38:51 PM)
1. Use a bigger plug (my personal fave. If its big enough you will have to PULL to get it out) 2. Use a plug with a square shoulder and small neck. Of course it still has to be bg enough, but it makes it stay in better 3. Use an inflatable plug. Effective but you have that inflator to deal with... and some will push themselves out when inflated 4. Use a harness of some kind to put pressure on the bottom of the plug and keep it from sliding out. I made a locking leather harness for one of my subs just for this purpose, so she could wear a large plug/dildo with no shoulder to work or to bed. Or a crotch harness can easily be tied with rope. Possible added benefit of pressure on the clit. You could even use an elastic bandage, but it lacks the fetish aspect rope has.

Juliannadelion -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/13/2009 11:40:34 PM)
Is it too small? We use the ones that are tapered, then flare out and taper down again to a base that is supposed to keep it from getting stuck!!! Is the condom over lubricated for the task? They do make them unlubricated, so you could control how much lube to use to help keep it in place. [:D] Greedy's right - tight panties will help if it slips! Good luck! BTW - almost losing it in the store [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]

SirMIkeSD -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/13/2009 11:45:01 PM)
For the plug, I recommend one of these. My boy has not had the any trouble with these that he has had with others. http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D259.html Mike

GreedyTop -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:08:42 AM)
adores Mr. S They have some ASS KICKIN stuff in there!!

housemouseinoz -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:17:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Juliannadelion Is it too small? We use the ones that are tapered, then flare out and taper down again to a base that is supposed to keep it from getting stuck!!! Is the condom over lubricated for the task? They do make them unlubricated, so you could control how much lube to use to help keep it in place. [:D] Greedy's right - tight panties will help if it slips! Good luck! BTW - almost losing it in the store [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif] I don't think it's too small...........when i wear it......well it's kinda uncomfortable <G> I know it's there. The one you described sounds just like the one I use :-) I think the condom was over lubricated, sheesh......I didn't know they came unlubricated (dumb) [:)] but now I do I can seek out the unlubricated ones. So not a g-string? I know it's sooooo funny now.......but at the time........i was having a HUGE OH MY GOD i think this is going to be the most embarassing moment in my life.....blush [:)]...........wait till i tell Sir.........perhaps i'll ask him to hang up so he can laugh for 10 minutes then get back to me when he's able to talk again <G>

housemouseinoz -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:19:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop tight bikini panties Thanks Greedy, I'm willing to try pretty much anything rather than go through that again..........was so wishing i had worn jeans instead of a dress [:D]

housemouseinoz -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:22:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear 1. Use a bigger plug (my personal fave. If its big enough you will have to PULL to get it out) 2. Use a plug with a square shoulder and small neck. Of course it still has to be bg enough, but it makes it stay in better 3. Use an inflatable plug. Effective but you have that inflator to deal with... and some will push themselves out when inflated 4. Use a harness of some kind to put pressure on the bottom of the plug and keep it from sliding out. I made a locking leather harness for one of my subs just for this purpose, so she could wear a large plug/dildo with no shoulder to work or to bed. Or a crotch harness can easily be tied with rope. Possible added benefit of pressure on the clit. You could even use an elastic bandage, but it lacks the fetish aspect rope has. Thanks Grizzly Some great tips there, eeeek.....not sure i'm ready for anything bigger yet [:D] idea of a harness if good.........talk about a whole new learning curve........they have inflatable ones!!! Mmmmmmmm I love rope :-) yup elastic bandage just wouldn't be the same, then again i'm not really good with the rope........that is Sir's department [:D]

housemouseinoz -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:23:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD For the plug, I recommend one of these. My boy has not had the any trouble with these that he has had with others. http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D259.html Mike Thanks Mike, I love a good website [:D]

littlewonder -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 6:57:47 AM)
The only way I've found they stay in is to wear jeans or a harness of some kind. Otherwise even with the tightest panties and even a large plug I can still feel them slip.

pinkwind -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 7:24:45 AM)
i found there had to be a decent difference in the width of the plug itself and the neck of the thing, giving the sphincter muscles an easier time gripping, while the plug stayed snug behind them. The Mr S plug above, or one of similar proportions would work well, just make sure the neck is a lot slimmer than the plug, and that the neck has enough length to it to allow the plug to fit behind all the muscles happily. It worked for me, i hope it helps you.

ExKat -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 8:17:37 AM)
If the condom seems to be the problem, you might try actually tying the condom at the bottom of the toy. You could also buy a butt plug just for you so you don't need to use condoms, that may help it stay on. Tight panties is a good way to go, though.

crazyredhead1957 -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 10:02:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: housemouseinoz Good afternoon all [:)] i have a question for all those that have been there before me. my Sir works away (away for 2 weeks at a time), then he's home for close to a week. Well he set me a task today, he gave me some cash and told me to go and buy some clothes more to his liking, and the second part to the task was to wear a butt plug while i was out buying clothes. when playing he always puts a condom over it (likes to keep the toys clean), so i did the same today when i put it in. However while i'm in the store browsing at clothes, i could feel it coming out, i was wearing a dress and a g-string, i knew there was no way the g-string was going to hold it, i tried to discreetly get it back in place, but alas there was not hope of that happening, and if i did it any differently i was going to start drawing attention to myself. Then i felt it slip all the way out.......managed to catch it in between my legs and hold it..........i grabbed some items of clothing and made a bee line for the change rooms......LOL..........oh god i'm so glad it didn't fall on the floor. So my question is, how on earth do you get them to stay where they are supposed to stay, was my error.....putting a condom on it.......and as such making it slippery? What a fantastic embarassing moment, but sadly not one i could share with my vanilla friends [:D] OMG!!!! i almost died laughing!! Thank you, thank you!!! i sooooo needed that!

malloves69 -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:25:47 PM)
love mr s leathers lube ....great for fisting too [:)] mal

Lynnxz -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 12:47:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: malloves69 love mr s leathers lube ....great for fisting too [:)] mal Hehe... I have to ask mal... How do YOU keep a plug in?

malloves69 -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/14/2009 1:16:35 PM)
gotta be a bigger one Ms L [:)] those little ones do like to slide out i must say ...after almost of being fisted anally by my mistress for just about 4 years now [:)] she has opened me up some in that time frame [:)] bigger butt plugs feel better too ..kinda like hunny is it in yet ? smile ....with a smaller one ..have fun mal [:)]

Kana -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/15/2009 6:33:57 AM)
I just want to thank you for a great thread title. What a way to wake up on a Sunday morning.

azropedntied -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/15/2009 11:13:30 AM)
NASA spent multi millions on a pen that would write anywhere while in space , the Russian space program used a pencil and spent pennies . All i am sayin is do not over thing , something as simple as tape could work .The correct panties are a good suggestion .Yet practice walking around at home with your plu in before you go out and shop for better control too .

gauguin -> RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? (3/15/2009 1:52:49 PM)
The size definitely, and weight too. I have never had any problems with holding medium size (1.5'') rubber plug, even though I am able to push it out, after a while, when my sphincter loosens up. Large one, 2'' does not go anywhere, until pulled out. However couple of times I had to wear quite big metal plug and it always was a struggle to hold it for any longer then half an hour.

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