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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/15/2009 5:38:03 PM   
swan70


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For me--the trick was the neck.  SMALL neck so that my sphincter muscle could close was the important part. 

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/16/2009 5:54:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

I just want to thank you for a great thread title.
What a way to wake up on a Sunday morning.



 your welcome <G> i would like to thank everyone for their suggestions.......i really don't want a repeat of that any time
soon. Walk before you can run is what i'm hearing  try new things at home first.........much safer. i'm still giggling over it,
(insert nervous laughter)  and thankful i didn't feel the need to dive into a rack of clothes to hide

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/17/2009 1:51:44 PM   
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Hello,

The problem with buttplugs is that they build up pressure, even if you can't noticed it, your bowels move from time to time, and even if your bowels are stool free, they will have some gas, so your bowels moves, gas moves out, but it's trapped because of the plug, pressure builds and eventually your plug will go out, if you hold it with a strap, or rope work (a nice one here: http://www.vimeo.com/2326094) pressure will make it uncomfortable after a while...

To fix this what you can do is to drill a hole all long your butt plug, with this the gas can escape and you will be able to wear it for as long as you want, if making a hole in your butt plug is too difficult or impossible, you can buy ones that already have them: http://www.extremerestraints.com/rectal-dilator-kit_277.html you may still need a strap or similar to keep it in place, but it will be much better!

Good luck!

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/17/2009 2:01:38 PM   
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Can't believe no one said it yet......

Polygrip?

Steel

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/17/2009 4:48:37 PM   
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Naaaah, Locktite!

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/17/2009 5:10:07 PM   
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thornhappy,

WE HAVE GOT TO PLAY TOGETHER SOME TIME!!!

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/17/2009 7:25:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thornhappy

Naaaah, Locktite!


DOH!!!!! somebody beat me to it.

Seriously though, instead of gluing, taping, stapling, getting a fist sized plug, etc... just get a harness, there a whole bunch made for this purpose. As for drilling the hole, that seems unnecessary, probably impossible in a number of materials and potentially messy to wear. You should be able to expel gas around the plug just fine, nothing about it is creating an air tight seal. As for the condom, that's great for safe toy sex and has the benefit of quick clean up. However if your the only one using the plug and it's made of a NONPOROUS material then the condom isn't necessary. Good luck and as has already been said you may want to try things at home before going out in public.....unless being publicly shamed is your thing.

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/18/2009 12:41:43 PM   
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There are numerous butt plug harness's available on the web.  Most can be worn under clothing.  My first Mistress required me to wear a butt plug 24/7 from the start of our relationship.. 

The one I selected was a medium plug, rubber over a silicone core with a nice thin flat base so it did not show under clothing.  For a harness I used a strapon harness (thong type) worked very nicely to keep the plug in place.

A pantie girdle will also do the trick as well.  The trick is to select a true butt plug.  These are narrow at the base not more than an inch thick so your sphincter muscles close on the taper once the plug is inserted.

At first it is an ajustment, you do get used to it after awhile.  Mine kept me in a constantly heightened erotic state.  I never forgot for a moment that I was totally owned and controlled by my Mistress.

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/18/2009 2:21:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: housemouseinoz

Good afternoon all  i have a question for all those that have been there before me.
my Sir works away (away for 2 weeks at a time), then he's home for close to a week.
Well he set me a task today, he gave me some cash and told me to go and buy some
clothes more to his liking, and the second part to the task was to wear a butt plug
while i was out buying clothes.

when playing he always puts a condom over it (likes to keep the toys clean), so i did
the same today when i put it in. However while i'm in the store browsing at clothes,
i could feel it coming out, i was wearing a dress and a g-string, i knew there was no
way the g-string was going to hold it, i tried to discreetly get it back in place, but alas
there was not hope of that happening, and if i did it any differently i was going to start
drawing attention to myself. Then i felt it slip all the way out.......managed to catch it
in between my legs and hold it..........i grabbed some items of clothing and made a
bee line for the change rooms......LOL..........oh god i'm so glad it didn't fall on the floor.

So my question is, how on earth do you get them to stay where they are supposed to
stay, was my error.....putting a condom on it.......and as such making it slippery?
What a fantastic embarassing moment, but sadly not one i could share with my vanilla
friends


mouse,

yes the problem was the condom, your rim muscles cannot constrict on a plug that is covered. Just go without it and then wash the hell out of it for when he wants you to suck on it.

CP

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/18/2009 3:33:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Can't believe no one said it yet......

Polygrip?

Steel


Steel.........LOL.......perfect answer........i myself prefer cable ties........hmmm a harness made of cable ties.........not nearly
as nice as soft rope though .....but something to think about <G>

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/18/2009 3:38:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince


mouse,

yes the problem was the condom, your rim muscles cannot constrict on a plug that is covered. Just go without it and then wash the hell out of it for when he wants you to suck on it.

CP


Thank you CP  i'm thinking i will give that a try (but at home this time), not into public humiliation, not unless i'm carrying a shovel so i can dig
a hole for myself . I'm the only one that uses the plug, it's a silicone one, so easy to wash and keep clean. Sir got a huge laugh out of my
experience.......really there was nothing else we could do but laugh  a priceless moment.

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/18/2009 3:55:12 PM   
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hmmm can't believe this was not brought up.

learn how to tie a crotch rope can't find a link at the moment but its as simple as it sounds.

this will not only hold it in but will add for some fun stimulation if you tie knots in the front as well.

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/20/2009 4:05:43 PM   
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Try a larger Butt Plug. Or what I do sometimes, I wear my Dance Belt (Thing Like Supporter for Male Ballet Dancers). It is nice and Tight, giving me a nice Wedgie.  LMCLAO

Or how about a Butt Plug Harness? Leather is always FUN to use. I made my own from Red Vinyl and Velcro. Works pretty good. They kept mine from falling out. I almost lost one on a train to work one day, and then did the above things. Works great !!

Good Luck ! sub balletbob


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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/20/2009 6:41:05 PM   
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I believe a harness is Your safest way to keep it in. ...I lost a plug    [luckily it was during a scene]. My top had me on all fours with an inflatable plug in with it pumped up as far as I could take....Something made me sneeze....the plug was ejected and traveled 10-12 ft before touching the ground! Only a harness could have contained it! My Top ended up ROFL!! Glad it wasn't out in public....Scotty

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/21/2009 1:08:24 AM   
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Thanks for the laugh!! I had the same trouble of keeping in the butt plug and always feel I am walking extremely funny when its in because the entire time I am trying to keep it in.  Good luck with finding the solution. :)

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/21/2009 9:15:38 AM   
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swallow it.

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/22/2009 4:08:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

swallow it.


LOL Cat.......that's one option, but i'll be back next week asking the same question after it's made it's way through and
come out the other end (again)......LOL, at least it wouldn't be in the middle of a store (well one would hope not), more
than likely a toilet somewhere

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/22/2009 4:10:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bubblesoffun

Thanks for the laugh!! I had the same trouble of keeping in the butt plug and always feel I am walking extremely funny when its in because the entire time I am trying to keep it in.  Good luck with finding the solution. :)


Ahhhh yes.......I'm familiar with the awkward walk........and the paranoia that goes with it......LOL

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/22/2009 4:14:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BalletBob

Try a larger Butt Plug. Or what I do sometimes, I wear my Dance Belt (Thing Like Supporter for Male Ballet Dancers). It is nice and Tight, giving me a nice Wedgie.  LMCLAO

Or how about a Butt Plug Harness? Leather is always FUN to use. I made my own from Red Vinyl and Velcro. Works pretty good. They kept mine from falling out. I almost lost one on a train to work one day, and then did the above things. Works great !!

Good Luck ! sub balletbob



The thought of bigger makes me squirm with discomfort..........sometimes i'm not as big a pain slut as Sir thinks i am (kinda selective......pain slut) <G> I'm liking the idea of ropes and belts more and more

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RE: The secret to keeping a butt plug in place? - 3/22/2009 4:17:54 AM   
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I believe a harness is Your safest way to keep it in. ...I lost a plug    [luckily it was during a scene]. My top had me on all fours with an inflatable plug in with it pumped up as far as I could take....Something made me sneeze....the plug was ejected and traveled 10-12 ft before touching the ground! Only a harness could have contained it! My Top ended up ROFL!! Glad it wasn't out in public....Scotty


LOL Scotty that is soooo funny........that's the vision i had when Steel and Thorn said to use polygrip and locktite, that when it finally worked it's way loose it would shoot out a great speed and people would be ducking as it shot around the store

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