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RE: Brats - 3/16/2009 5:44:22 PM

kallisto

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I've always thought of the term "bratty" as being negative. I'm not into being a brat. Being teasing, playful, and as InTonguesslave said "provocative" and having fun is one thing. Doing or saying things to "get into trouble" are manipulative to me.

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RE: Brats - 3/16/2009 6:00:57 PM

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I've always considered brat in the nice sense of the world- playful in a humerous and acceptable way. I've been called a brat by a few people and it has never been said in a negative sense.

Other words like annoying, being an ass, irritating are far more descriptive when trying to describe someone who is acting out in a negative way (in my opinion anyway).

But no, I've never acted out in this way to get a spanking. I guess part of this is never been in a regular enough dynamic where this would work. I'm certainly not saying I wouldn't act like a brat (in an acceptable way, of course) to add some humour to a scene.

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RE: Brats - 3/16/2009 6:21:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sir Daddy

By my context, I thought I was pretty clearly referring to the type of playfully provocative behavior that would result in FUNishment.

Hi SD - I enjoy playfully bratty subs myself and have had it misinterpted on other threads. Personally I enjoy the playfulness. Some seem to view it as the sub not being submissive. However, any that I have been with have always been submissive. I find this happens more with a masochist sub and it is all in fun and it works for me. Some are way too serious about everything, life is short have fun at what you love.

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RE: Brats - 3/16/2009 7:18:22 PM

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There is, in My world, a decided difference between being a 'fun brat' and being insubordinate. It feels different, I respond differently.
Insubordination meets with punishment.. there is no joy in her pain at that point.
The fun brat leads to laughter, fun, and often, amazingly good scenes, and / or amazingly good sex.
Then again, I don't get pissed off easily, and she doesn't seem to cross the line between "fun" and "bad" very often.

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RE: Brats - 3/17/2009 5:49:18 AM

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(brāt'ē)
adj. brat·ti·er, brat·ti·est
Characteristic of or being a brat; ill-mannered.
brat'ti·ness n.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
Copyright © 2006 by Houghton Mifflin Company.
Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.

bratty

adjective

(used of an ill-mannered child) impolitely unruly The above dictionary definition is how I've always interpreted the term, but I see that others use it in a more positive and playful way.

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RE: Brats - 3/17/2009 7:43:53 AM

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if i need a spanking i just ask for one. Once i asked Master and he said sweetheart it will be my pleasure to give you a spanking. I try very hard not to be a brat(in the bad way) i have to admit sometimes i am rarely though. I tease more then be bratty though.

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RE: Brats - 3/17/2009 7:45:41 AM

littlewonder

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I think if I acted like a brat I'd be getting a wholehelluvalot more than a spanking and it wouldn't be enjoyable at all.

I find brats annoying as hell personally.

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RE: Brats - 3/17/2009 8:00:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sir Daddy

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

being playful and provocative is different though to acting up and behaving badly.

Thank you. I naturally default to the less offensive interpretation of what I read. Several who commented in this thread obviously default to the negative - choosing to interpret "bratty" in the worst possible way. By my context, I thought I was pretty clearly referring to the type of playfully provocative behavior that would result in FUNishment.

If nothing else, I've learned a bit about some of my fellow posters.

Happy spanking, everyone. =)

imo there is no positive connotation to the term "brat." while i do understand that some Dominants accept and encourage a certain degree of bratty behavior, while others accept none whatsoever, i still view the entire concept of "acting out" or being disrespectful in any manner as completely contrary to the idea of submission and submissiveness. of course, this is coming from one who is not involved in a dynamic which includes "funishment."

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RE: Brats - 3/17/2009 11:35:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: SirJ40

There is, in My world, a decided difference between being a 'fun brat' and being insubordinate. It feels different, I respond differently.
Insubordination meets with punishment.. there is no joy in her pain at that point.
The fun brat leads to laughter, fun, and often, amazingly good scenes, and / or amazingly good sex.
Then again, I don't get pissed off easily, and she doesn't seem to cross the line between "fun" and "bad" very often.

My princess never crosses that line. It's always fun and giggly just plain precious.

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RE: Brats - 3/18/2009 11:28:49 PM

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Personally, i think there's a world of difference between being bratty and being playful.

Bratty is, in its own way, kind of like topping from the bottom. It says "hey, look at me and do something about it now!" Which kind of defies the point of being there for His/Her enjoyment. Bratty (to me) implies more malicious behavior.

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RE: Brats - 3/18/2009 11:31:15 PM

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LOL - that wasn't supposed to happen! my apologies.

so, in closing......

If i wanted a spanking, i'd drop down on all fours and beg for it... that normally works.

Except in the grocery store.

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RE: Brats - 3/18/2009 11:41:54 PM

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Absolutely not! He pays plenty of attention to me, and if I felt I needed His attention I'd simply say I was missing Him. He is incredibly good to me so there's no reason to act that way. And above all.... He dislikes it very much! I learned that very early on in our relationship.

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RE: Brats - 3/19/2009 12:14:46 PM

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He likes it, sometimes. And I'm all about giving him what he likes. :P

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