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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 3/23/2009 4:42:20 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		my pet (who is also my cuckold boyfriend) and i prefer the type of relationship we have sans the romance and love. don't get me wrong, i do love him but not in the context which i receive long winded poetry and such. he shows his love by being the obedient sissy pain slut and i show mine by bestowing all the pain, humiliation and degrading he can handle.

though distance keeps us apart (for now), we both have been creative in ways to serve me. he's assigned tasks and does what he's told to do in my emails to him. i don't see much of our relationship changing once we're together and married next year.

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 3/23/2009 6:29:49 AM   
MissJanice2


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Status: offline 		Owning a male slave is just like anything else in my opinion.  It has it good days, and it has it bad days.  It is not all about walking around in a cute outfit with a crop.  It is about the relationship itself, and that is when things get complicated.
 
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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 3/23/2009 7:48:33 AM   
GoodgirlFind


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Status: offline 		"and all for an affordable price" huh? Odd.... it sounds to me as if you have a chip on your shoulders against prodoms. Kewlnesss, this is beautiful... getting paid to do what you like is something to be ashamed of. Blech. I say more power to her for generating income doing what she loves.


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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/1/2009 10:14:44 PM   
naswitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissJanice2

Owning a male slave is just like anything else in my opinion.  It has it good days, and it has it bad days.  It is not all about walking around in a cute outfit with a crop.  It is about the relationship itself, and that is when things get complicated.
 
Best Wishes,
 
MJ


I agee with MJ that "owning" a man is like owning anything. The joy is laced with responsibility and as many have noted, the relationship is what it's about - so first it's about finding someone sincere and inline with your desires.
This is the year that happened for me and it happened right here on collarme. Believe me when I say that I'm pretty amazed after many, many false starts.
As my grandfather would often say about ownership, "It's not the initial cost, it's the upkeep.", so it is with any relationship.  
But I am just a humble (yeah, in some ways) gardener and that is why to me the relationship is the core and the kinky delight is tasty fruit that develops around that core.
The seed was planted, the bud has set and the bloom is a joy to behold, but it is the taste of the fruit that I work for and care about. He wears a training collar at this time and while we marvel at this point, it is work to adjust to one another knowing that it's what we want and we want it enough to work for it.

Either spring is in the air or I'm feeling April foolish tonight. Good luck OP.

One woman's reality may be another's wank material. Be sincere in your reality and your wank(ette?)ing.
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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/2/2009 12:03:32 AM   
khem


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ORIGINAL: slavekal"Imagine that you bought a slave... in real life. What would you do? Now, go ahead and do that".


Can we clone you?  Because seriously...

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/2/2009 4:33:00 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Despite everything dommes have said on this forum I'd still have a horrible feeling that if I said slavekal's line to a woman she'd just panic and reply, "Er, I don't know!"

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/2/2009 7:17:57 AM   
SomethingCatchy


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Despite everything dommes have said on this forum I'd still have a horrible feeling that if I said slavekal's line to a woman she'd just panic and reply, "Er, I don't know!"



But the possibilities are endless! How can a person just pull a random idea out of thin and and go with it?

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/2/2009 10:31:57 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Women do it when they're ouanquing, don't they? 

If nothing else springs to mind, she could always test his sincerity by telling him to jump.  Obviously the real SubMcCoy will ask 'how high?'

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/3/2009 8:29:53 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Despite everything dommes have said on this forum I'd still have a horrible feeling that if I said slavekal's line to a woman she'd just panic and reply, "Er, I don't know!"


I would not say that, darling one! 

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/3/2009 8:32:00 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


quote:

ORIGINAL: servantforuse

i think this might be a wanker. i havn't figured out yet if it is female or a male. My best guest would be that it is a male...


I thought wanker was an exclusively male term. Can females wank? Do we need a noun with a feminine aspect? Wankerre?


Wankette?


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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/4/2009 7:13:40 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		It's both a lot of pleasure and can be a stress reliever but it also is a lot of extra responsibility. Contrary to what your pop culture tells you, guys are complicated especially if you are doing this sort of thing 24/7. It is not something to jump into to or to be selfish about though as the dom you need to always be concerned with yourself first and foremost. It will be difficult journey but if you've both chosen wisely and are willing to work, it is a rewarding journey too.

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/10/2009 12:51:54 AM   
Wickad


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Bookmarked for later.

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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/10/2009 3:37:54 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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ORIGINAL: dominika


I want to know how does it feel to own a male slave? How does he make your life better?



Its just like anything else. You get out of it, what you put in.

He makes my life better by helping me live the life I was born for.

Maybe you are having trouble finding sincere men because most of them do want a loving, romantic, and sexual relationship, and a lot of them do want to live with their Domme. There seems to be no shortage of that kind of man here on CM.


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RE: Hello ladies. I want to ask you what is it like to ... - 4/11/2009 11:10:54 AM   
Goddess2002


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Status: offline 		Ah, I wish I had an answer...I'm currently evaluating a potential slave, but have yet to find one who's not of the do-me mentality or takes it seriously. Frustrating, indeed.

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