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Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 7:55:23 AM

sailorfrank

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This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

So hoping to get some answers here as I imagine there must be quite a few with everyone here. And have a nice week everyone!

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 7:57:05 AM

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quote:

Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

i did not "get into it" at all. I just followed my heart

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 8:18:37 AM

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It answered the questions I'd been asking myself.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 8:44:34 AM

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quote:

...Why did you become a Sub/Slave?...

in the context of an intimate relationship?

because pretending to be dominant made this slave physically/mentally ill...so she gave in to what came naturally, instead of trying to fight it and attempt to pretend to enjoy a vanilla relationship.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 8:57:44 AM

SteelofUtah

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Oh Quit lying beth you know you did it so you could say

"This slave IS the stripper Pole"

A Line like that require many well placed decisions........ And Shrink Wrap.

Missing you Guys!!!

Steel

**Edited because Fat Fingers aned Keyboards make for interesting Typos**

< Message edited by SteelofUtah -- 3/17/2009 8:58:26 AM >

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 8:59:37 AM

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Because someone came along who made it an attractive and beneficial prospect on many fronts.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:02:58 AM

ExKat

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Because that's how I'm wired, and living in a time when women are not expected to be subservient naturally made it so I had to go out and find a kinky relationship. Oh, and I like the spanking!

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:15:16 AM

Mercnbeth

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Oh Quit lying beth you know you did it so you could say

"This slave IS the stripper Pole"

A Line like that require many well placed decisions........ And Shrink Wrap.

Missing you Guys!!!

Steel

**Edited because Fat Fingers aned Keyboards make for interesting Typos**

HAR!!!!!

indeed, moments like that are like icing on cake!!!

(actually BEING a stripper pole is a fabulous experience...this slave highly recommends it!)

missing You & Your andi as well!!!

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:19:40 AM

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I didn't "become" it any more than people become heterosexual, or become homosexual, or become any other orientation. It just "is".

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:22:31 AM

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oops, wrong post :)

< Message edited by VelvetCruelty -- 3/17/2009 9:23:10 AM >

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:27:32 AM

crazyredhead1957

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i didn't become one, i've always been an "s" type in my heart. It's just that in the vanilla world i always got flack because of it, but now i can be myself.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:27:40 AM

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Life brought me here.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sailorfrank

Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:31:27 AM

Caillin

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It was something I had explored a little in many otherwise vanilla relationships. And then my Dom came along and offered me a whole new level. For me, it is a part of me, but not the whole of me. I'm still finding the balance that works for me.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 9:47:04 AM

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Like many others have said. I did not choose to be a sumbissive. I chose to accept that side of me instead of being miserable fighting it.

I am what I am because I have no choice but to follow the path my heart and mind demand.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:02:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sailorfrank

This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

A slow, gradual acceptance of myself culminating with the realization that not only do I need to be dominated in a relationship, I can't get enough of it!

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:04:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sailorfrank

This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

So hoping to get some answers here as I imagine there must be quite a few with everyone here. And have a nice week everyone!

Because I felt like it.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:09:14 AM

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Because it is the song my heart sings to me.
Because being the Big Bossy Bitch all the time was making me sad and crazy.
Because I cannot imagine NOT being his slave.
Because sitting at his feet and seeing him smile is all the reward I ever need.
Because this is what I was born to, this is what makes me happiest, most content, most secure.
Because I crave his control, more than I desire freedom.
Because he is my Master and I am his slave and there is nothing in this lifetime that can keep me from that.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:16:50 AM

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It wasn't so much becomming one as accepting that I am one. It is part of what makes me me.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:37:51 AM

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Someone asked me once how I became a buddhist. I said, I don't think anyone becomes a buddhist. You just wake up one day and realize you are one.

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RE: Why Sub or Slave? - 3/17/2009 10:38:59 AM

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I was plain and simply born this way

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