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littleone35 -> Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:11:25 AM)
The other day Master and i was talking and he said you are spoiled. I was a little surprised and even a little offended. When someone says you are spoiled it is usually not a good thing. I said what i am not spoiled what do you mean Master. He said i am the Dom and what i say is true you are spoiled. So i was totally confused i said in what way Master? He sold me you are spoiled by seeing me evey day do you think other Doms would do this? When he said that i had to admit he was right i think he has spoiled me for other Doms, but that is ok cause all i want is him. Are you spoiled by your Master in any way? What way does he sopil ypou? Matt's littleone

SteelofUtah -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:14:40 AM)
Does your Master really talk like that? "I am the Dom, and what I say is true, you are spoiled" Just Curious. Steel

kittinSol -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:23:44 AM)
If you are spoiled from seeing him so often, he is spoiled from seeing you, no?

FelineFae -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:26:59 AM)
" i am not spoiled, i am well taken care of," To us, being spoiled would more be to the tune of, "you threw a fit until you got what you wanted", and Master wouldn't allow that.

LaTigresse -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:29:11 AM)
What is spoiled to one person, isn't to another. Some people would look at my life and say I am spoiled rotten. Others would look at it and say the very opposite. It all depends upon the point of view of that person.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:30:15 AM)
if seeing Him every day is the definition of spoiled, then yes, this slave is spoiled. she doesn't see it as spoiling her "for other Doms"...but rather as enriching our relationship by being in physical contact with each other every day, as much as possible.

LadyPact -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:37:18 AM)
Every now and again, My husband will say the same thing. Not because of the negative context of the phrase directed at My personality, but more about the fact that I have two males in My life who have a vested interest in My happiness. It's not based on Me throwing a fit if I don't get what I want. They already see to that. Who wouldn't be a bit spoiled if they had two males taking care of them? It's really just good natured fun around here when that expression comes out.

Phoenixpower -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:38:36 AM)
for one person it might be spoiled...for someone else it might be the definition of clingy...I am someone who is not so good with too much contact...where I do enjoy to talk fairly often when I am on distance, I also need my space in a relationship and don't react that great of spending too much time time together and simply would react better to be on my own fairly often and just doing my tasks, so that we can just spend eg a few evening hours joyful together...so where your master might think that your are spoilt because he seems to have so much time for you...for someone else that could be too clingy...

littleone35 -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:41:14 AM)
FelineFae No i am not spoiled in the way i threw a fit till i got what i wanted Master would not stand for that. He just said he spoiles me cause we are together every day. Steel of Utah When he says thing like that he is teasing me. KittinSol you have a point Matt's littleone

FelineFae -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:44:06 AM)
i understand. i meant that we wouldn't view your situation as being spoiled.

agirl -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:44:28 AM)
Well, one definition of spoiled is * treat with great or excessive kindness.....so yes. He'd NEVER say something so horribly insensitive as do you think other doms would do this?* and I'd think less of him if he did. However often he sees me is HIS choice not mine. No-one's stood behind him with a cattleprod forcing him to. I'd rather he didn't come if I had to hear that kind of crass comment, frankly. agirl Edited to add......He was teasing. Oh well, ignore my post. Context is all.

FelineFae -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:52:04 AM)
now, on the other hand... i don't get to see Master everyday, or hear His voice. The sun that sets on Him, rises on me. i'm consciencely grateful for every moment i have with Him, because i never know what day it will be He'll come home and tell me He must go. there is a common view within the military of civilian relationships that never have to face this situation.

Maya2001 -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:53:32 AM)
negative meaning .3. To do harm to the character, nature, or attitude of by oversolicitude, overindulgence, or excessive praise. positive though usually referred to as "pampered" rather than spoiled which is the negative result of over pampering to treat with great kindness and give a great many special things to (a person)

sirsholly -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 8:57:28 AM)
quote: he spoiles me cause we are together every day. as are we...but i fail to see that as being spoiled. Happy, complete, together, a family, and lots of other good stuff...yes. But spoiled...hardly.

tamedspirit -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 9:14:03 AM)
i am guessing it His decision to see You every day? if so then He is guilty of spoiling you and so not your fault...

DesFIP -> RE: Spoiled (3/17/2009 9:50:59 AM)
I live with him. That doesn't make either of us spoiled. It means we are in a relationship that suits both of us. If he likes seeing you every day, and you like seeing him every day, it doesn't mean either one is spoiled. It means you are compatible in your level of contact. If you cook him dinner every night, then isn't he spoiled by you? Because if he wasn't seeing you every day, then he would have to cook his own dinner.

yesMaster247 -> RE: Spoiled (3/24/2009 5:26:41 PM)
Sadly i m spoiled. i get to see my Master everyday and sleep with him (not sex i mean sleep) with him every night. He also takes care of me by providing a home and our 2 dogs. Yes i m "spoiled"

groovychick67 -> RE: Spoiled (3/24/2009 5:43:27 PM)
I am completely spoiled and I tell Him that all the time. He takes such good care of me, meeting all my sexual, emotional and intellectual needs beyond anything I have ever known before. What He does for me makes me want to give Him anything He asks for.

LovingMistress45 -> RE: Spoiled (3/24/2009 9:48:52 PM)
I don't think spoiled is a bad thing. I think it can just mean well taken care of.

Blackwolf9 -> RE: Spoiled (3/25/2009 2:31:20 AM)
A non joking statement like that would definetly hurt my feelings....joking not as bad...am I spoiled (over indulged), I don't think so...am I spoiled (well taken care of and loved) most definetly. Even if I am spoiled, I always try to be greatful and return the love and care in full measure. While I don't get to see Master every day, I do see him frequently. As with agirl, Master chooses when to or not to visit me. When I don't see Master in person, I usually get a chance to talk to him on the phone, even if just for a short while.

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