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RE: emotion and crying - 1/26/2006 8:18:05 PM

Littlepita

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All i can say is i want to.
turn my walls into rubble.

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Me too!

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RE: emotion and crying - 1/26/2006 8:27:13 PM

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i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why

No I haven't. I go to such a wonderful, serene place during a scene, and just feel so complete. At the same time, I can descend far enough into subspace to make it difficult if not impossible to speak. I just become a bundle of nerve endings receiving and reveling in pain/pleasure, longing for the next stroke of the flogger, the next slap to my ass, the next drip of hot wax, the next sensation. So no tears of emotion or pain for me. This play satisfies a need deep within me that centers and calms me.

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RE: emotion and crying - 1/26/2006 10:16:20 PM

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Yes. I cry.

I have cried during intense fisting sessions, flogging and cropping sessions, rape-play scenes, cuttings, and single tail whippings. I also cried once during a topping scene that made me uncomfortable.

I usually feel very uncomfortable while crying, but I can't help it. My partner is very comforting and will ask me if I'm ready to stop. If I'm not, he'll continue. If I am, he'll stop and we'll cuddle. I usually cry during intense or orgasmic scenes, but I can't really explain why. Most of the time, it seems to be a stress relief or emotional relief.

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RE: emotion and crying - 1/26/2006 11:05:59 PM

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I usually feel very uncomfortable while crying, but I can't help it. My partner is very comforting and will ask me if I'm ready to stop. If I'm not, he'll continue. If I am, he'll stop and we'll cuddle. I usually cry during intense or orgasmic scenes, but I can't really explain why. Most of the time, it seems to be a stress relief or emotional relief.

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RE: emotion and crying - 1/29/2006 3:17:01 AM

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Add me to the I only cry for emotional hurt.
Physical Pain can be set aside, now if I could only do the same with Mental.

How well I understand this.....sigh

I always have had a hard time with the emotional. Tears were always a sign of weakness as far as i was concerned. Once the walls that i had built started to be torn down, I was overwhelmed with bundles of scrambled emotions that spilled out when I least expected. We have learned more about "me" thanks to His patience and guidance through these emotional spillages than I ever have to date. The understanding part is coming easy...the accepting of it....well, let's just say I'm working on it.

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RE: emotion and crying - 1/29/2006 8:38:19 AM

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I will cry from physical pain, not generally from high emotion. This is because I am more protective of the emotional core; I do not easily expose that to others. If I yell, scream, or cry in pain, well, that isn't so unusual as to attract much attention. I can allow myself that even if I shut down emotionally. However, I am gradually learning that with the Mistress it is safe to be vulnerable. Much of what she does in the day to day is designed to show me that she can be counted on when I show hurt. So with her, physical pain can trigger emotional catharsis, a cleansing feeling that goes way beyond the reaction to pain. It's something for which I am profoundly grateful.

And yes, it's very special to be held and cossetted by the Mistress, when that is what I need. I worry about her needs, but I love her for holding me.

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