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InTonguesslut -> Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 8:29:20 AM)

You know they say a woman when pregnant blooms and becomes more attractive to the opposite sex!! Well is it possible that a woman getting in a happy relationship, becoming owned can have the same effect?
 
I had a bit of a rocky start to my present relationship but things have improved and i'm extremely happy, content and settled. I decided a couple of days ago to return the keys of my collar to Sir and to relinquish all rights of release and everything to him.
 
Since then every time i go out i have been getting wolf whistles, beeps of horns, winks, phone numbers, been checked out and in general admired. This is not normal for me, i mean don't get me wrong i get chatted up etc but not to the extent i have been over the last couple of days.
 
Am i all of a sudden omitting some sexual confidence, me confidence kind of thing that men find attractive or something?
 
Oh i hasten to aadd i haven't changed my style of dress other than my collar, i haven't been stepping out naked, haven't changed my hair, my makeup. Nope no changes at all other than i have an ipod on all the time i may be wiggling to. Ah that may be it wiggling and gyrating to music as i walk lol [:D]
 
 



ApathyRomance -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 8:31:58 AM)

I think you answered it yourself.  If you're feeling confident, it'll show, and other people will pick up on it ;)



DesFIP -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 10:20:49 AM)

Happiness shows. People want to be with happy people, you being happy means others are attracted to you.



apple2 -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 11:21:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

You know they say a woman when pregnant blooms and becomes more attractive to the opposite sex!! Well is it possible that a woman getting in a happy relationship, becoming owned can have the same effect?
 
I had a bit of a rocky start to my present relationship but things have improved and i'm extremely happy, content and settled. I decided a couple of days ago to return the keys of my collar to Sir and to relinquish all rights of release and everything to him.
 
Since then every time i go out i have been getting wolf whistles, beeps of horns, winks, phone numbers, been checked out and in general admired. This is not normal for me, i mean don't get me wrong i get chatted up etc but not to the extent i have been over the last couple of days.
 
Am i all of a sudden omitting some sexual confidence, me confidence kind of thing that men find attractive or something?
 
Oh i hasten to aadd i haven't changed my style of dress other than my collar, i haven't been stepping out naked, haven't changed my hair, my makeup. Nope no changes at all other than i have an ipod on all the time i may be wiggling to. Ah that may be it wiggling and gyrating to music as i walk lol [:D]
 
 


With the same principle:

After a heavy scene I can walk down the street for a couple of days and more women than usual smile at me. It's attitude, energy, confidence, and perhaps even elevated pheromones. Those things all can elevate by coming into a good relationship. For about three years I experienced it during our courtship, collaring, and wedding.

Not uncommon at all.



GotSteel -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 12:07:04 PM)

A girl can get quite glowy just from good sex, new love would do it or maybe you just have a really sexy collar [;)]
So...what do you have for a collar? It might be relevant to the discussion.



InTonguesslave -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 12:54:19 PM)

[:)]  i think that when a beautiful woman is walking with her head high and a big smile shining from the inside out people are going to notice her. [sm=wave.gif]xxxxxhugs



sirsholly -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 1:32:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

[:)]  i think that when a beautiful woman is walking with her head high and a big smile shining from the inside out people are going to notice her. [sm=wave.gif]xxxxxhugs
any woman is beautiful when they do this [:)]



dueno -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 2:24:23 PM)

Relaxed confidence and a happy nature is a huge turn-on for me, probably for many others...



zenny -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 2:29:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

You know they say a woman when pregnant blooms and becomes more attractive to the opposite sex!! Well is it possible that a woman getting in a happy relationship, becoming owned can have the same effect?
 
I had a bit of a rocky start to my present relationship but things have improved and i'm extremely happy, content and settled. I decided a couple of days ago to return the keys of my collar to Sir and to relinquish all rights of release and everything to him.
 
Since then every time i go out i have been getting wolf whistles, beeps of horns, winks, phone numbers, been checked out and in general admired. This is not normal for me, i mean don't get me wrong i get chatted up etc but not to the extent i have been over the last couple of days.
 
Am i all of a sudden omitting some sexual confidence, me confidence kind of thing that men find attractive or something?
 
Oh i hasten to aadd i haven't changed my style of dress other than my collar, i haven't been stepping out naked, haven't changed my hair, my makeup. Nope no changes at all other than i have an ipod on all the time i may be wiggling to. Ah that may be it wiggling and gyrating to music as i walk lol [:D]
 
 


I would wonder how obvious your collar is.

Also, a simple psychological principle is that when you are depressed/sad you remember negative things and will gloss over the positive. The opposite it true when happy/not depressed.



Lashra -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 2:48:38 PM)

It is your confidence coming through and that is very attractive to both sexes. I've noticed the same thing when I am involved in a happy relationship and other aspects of my life are going well, that men suddenly seem to take more of an interest in me.

Glad things are going well.

~Lashra



InTonguesslave -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 6:57:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

[:)]  i think that when a beautiful woman is walking with her head high and a big smile shining from the inside out people are going to notice her. [sm=wave.gif]xxxxxhugs
any woman is beautiful when they do this [:)]



true [:)]



lovingpet -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 7:32:17 PM)

It is all these wonderful things and more drawing folks to you.  I know that an engagement ring was enough to draw men out of the woodwork.  It was kind of irritating because they didn't have the slightest interest until after I was already spoken for.  Happiness, confidence, and a tranquil spirit go a long way in drawing people to you.  I want a pic of that lovely collar!!!  Congratulations on your recent happiness!

lovingpet



antipode -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 7:33:34 PM)

quote:

Since then every time i go out i have been getting wolf whistles


It happens. Enjoy.



PommeDeMonSang -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/20/2009 7:54:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

You know they say a woman when pregnant blooms and becomes more attractive to the opposite sex!! Well is it possible that a woman getting in a happy relationship, becoming owned can have the same effect?
 
I had a bit of a rocky start to my present relationship but things have improved and i'm extremely happy, content and settled. I decided a couple of days ago to return the keys of my collar to Sir and to relinquish all rights of release and everything to him.
 
Since then every time i go out i have been getting wolf whistles, beeps of horns, winks, phone numbers, been checked out and in general admired. This is not normal for me, i mean don't get me wrong i get chatted up etc but not to the extent i have been over the last couple of days.
 
Am i all of a sudden omitting some sexual confidence, me confidence kind of thing that men find attractive or something?
 
Oh i hasten to aadd i haven't changed my style of dress other than my collar, i haven't been stepping out naked, haven't changed my hair, my makeup. Nope no changes at all other than i have an ipod on all the time i may be wiggling to. Ah that may be it wiggling and gyrating to music as i walk lol [:D]
 
 


well you are probably running into lots of people that know and or are curious of your collar i know i have that same thing. i also know that when you are happy and owned as i am i walk prouder and well i can seem to see when someone is happy the emit that all in how they act walk and talk.

so its just that your confident and happy and well as long as you dont give in to them giving you all these complemetns trying to get you in their bed you will be fine and keep smiling and being the good slave you are :D



InTonguesslut -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/21/2009 3:35:19 PM)

quote:

I would wonder how obvious your collar is.


Its a pretty dog choker chain, 3 chains connected together. It just looks like i'm wearing an every day choker chain like a lot of women do. Of course the padlock at the back may give it away except my hair covers it.



cjan -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/21/2009 4:36:48 PM)

Misst, do you also find packs of mutts following you down the street ? If so, you may need to freshen that gash a bit. If not, it's prolly as others have said...your happiness and new attitude. [;)]



InTonguesslut -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/21/2009 4:47:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

Misst, do you also find packs of mutts following you down the street ? If so, you may need to freshen that gash a bit. If not, it's prolly as others have said...your happiness and new attitude. [;)]


*grins*
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo lol. [:)]



DavanKael -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/21/2009 8:29:10 PM)

Confidence is a great attention-getter.  Sounds like you're rockin' it.  :>
  Davan



GoddessTeaze -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/22/2009 2:32:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

You know they say a woman when pregnant blooms and becomes more attractive to the opposite sex!! Well is it possible that a woman getting in a happy relationship, becoming owned can have the same effect?



I'm happy you've opened your eyes !

Enjoy [:D]

I wish you enough

GoddezzT`



marysdream -> RE: Blind to this before or has it changed? (3/22/2009 8:24:15 AM)

hi glad you are happy..i hope this is real time?
ree!



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