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red0violence -> Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 11:40:25 AM)

Whats up everyone:

I was curious because I know most us here are different in someway, and pursue that difference with vigor/vitality.  What do you think is the greatest piece of a free life...not free from responsibility, but free to be, and live freely.

Like James Dean or Alan Watts, or the Buddha?




Lockit -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 11:59:49 AM)

I believe that finding that peace and freedom, comes from within, rather than from something, someone, or some belief system.  Finding a comfort in who you are... finding out who you are and accepting and liking and respecting that person and then going from there... brings that personal freedom to live as you are, be who you are and not worry about how anyone else views you in a deeper sense of it all.  Most care to some degree what people think or in general society's expectations... but when you are at peace with yourself... it doesn't matter... no one can shake your personal foundation.




LaTigresse -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 12:18:43 PM)

I agree with Lockit 100%. I am the key to my own freedom. If I am not comfortable with myself, I will be locked in my own prison. No one has the key but me.




DesFIP -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 3:11:33 PM)

"I could be bounded in a nutshell, and count myself a king of infinite space, were it not that I have bad dreams". — Hamlet
Shakespeare, as always, rules.




sophia37 -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 6:33:51 PM)

Being debt free is really a big part of being stress free. Seriously. Hard to live ones passion when life revolves around struggling to provide for the basics. Many people have been caught up by wanting way too much of everything. Way too much of everything is most definitely not free. Try and keep your life simple. Want little. Laugh much. Gather and keep friends. 




cpK69 -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 7:04:19 PM)

Truth.
 
Kim




YoursMistress -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 7:16:53 PM)

I would second Miss Lockit's sentiments also.  Being free is all about you.  I have found that even in the worst of my times, I can find all sorts of things to be grateful for.  When I can focus on living in a state of gratitude, life gets really easy and fun. 

As a sub, I want to be able to feel joyous and free, so that the gift of my submission that I give is one of great value to my Mistress (sigh, if only). 

yours




Vanityfull -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 8:26:58 PM)

imbracing individuality and love, getting rid of any hate you have in life. and not having to see you ex's. =)




LaTigresse -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 8:30:28 PM)

But I enjoy seeing my ex's!!

Seriously, I think that finding the joy in the moment, not regreting yesterday, not thinking that tomorrow is the day that xxxx will happen and I will be happy.......just enjoying now, for what it is, whatever it is. Regardless of bills, work, life's shit.

That is my joy and freedom.




TaoWoman -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 9:17:39 PM)

Know Thyself~




vincent63 -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 9:23:14 PM)

and this, dear people, is exactly what im struggling with right now




TaoWoman -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 9:35:07 PM)

vincent,

It is a beautiful journey [:)]





chiaThePet -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/20/2009 9:39:54 PM)


When you hand the bank teller a note during a robbery, make sure it is legible.

Confucius ( maybe)

chia* (the pet)




LadyEllen -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/21/2009 5:35:54 AM)

Try this, "If" you like
 
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And-which is more-you'll be a Man, my son!

(or Woman, of course)

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FullCircle -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/21/2009 5:42:00 AM)

Doing the things you like to do the majority of the time.
 
Need it be any more complicated than that? Also if you don't have huge financial resources then find something cheap and fun.




pahunkboy -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/21/2009 6:16:27 AM)

Welcome.

Being, doing, stop to smell the roses. 

Life should not be a mad rush to get to the other side of the venue.  But each moment owned and savored by you/me.






CatdeMedici -> RE: Whats the key to free life? (3/21/2009 6:30:46 AM)

I am free, I always have been and I always will be. I make My own rules,  I make My own decisions, I make My own mistakes, I accept the consequences of My actions.
 
I realize in the grand scheme of things, I make less of an impression than the hair on a gnats butt--I don't care.
 
I don't look to the mass majority to define Me, guide Me, dress Me.
 
I don't look to others for My happiness--
 
for if I did, that would be the greatest of prisons.




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