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atyourholyfeet -> c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 1:37:07 AM)
Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? I'm looking for your opinion on this issue !!

atyourholyfeet -> Is it normal ?????? (3/21/2009 3:41:05 AM)
Is it normal that a cuckold should be denied sex with his cuckoldress ? Please advise

GoddessTeaze -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 3:57:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atyourholyfeet Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? I'm looking for your opinion on this issue !! It depends on his Miss. She decides that, I know a couple that had sex before he introduced cuckolding to Her, and now he never may sex Her. his luck? LOL [:D] Each to their own. It's not one rule, different people different tastes. I wish you enough. GoddezzT`

LaMistressa -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 7:34:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atyourholyfeet Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? I'm looking for your opinion on this issue !! In your case, no.

CatdeMedici -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 7:38:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atyourholyfeet Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? I'm looking for your opinion on this issue !! If you have to ask, My bet would be, NO.

MistressEllen444 -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 7:39:32 AM)
By the standard understanding this arrangement includes marriage. IMO if the couple meet and move forward with this as a lifestyle choice and not something that has evolved from a different initial understanding, then there should be the physical act of sex once, to make sure everything is legal as far as the marriage end of things. (not a legal authority though, so this may be a misunderstanding on my part and a product of too many TV shows.) After that I agree with LaMistressa.

MadameMarque -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 7:58:20 AM)
Should. I believe that a dominant woman "should" do whatever she wants, with those whose pleasure and privilege it is, to let her. [Within the stated limits of relationship. All warranties apply, within the state of residence, etc.]

ShaktiSama -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 8:54:14 AM)
I can't answer the majority of questions which include the word "should" for anyone but myself. "Should" is a prescriptive word of moral judgment--not a descriptive term of often-observed reality. Whether a cuckold "should" be permitted sex with his mistress or not, many of them do. Others do not. Either way, those limits and needs are NOT decided by anyone outside the relationship. There is no Almighty Council of Femme Dommes which decides The Rules for Dominant Vaginas and imposes them on All Twue Dommes.

sfdrew -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 9:43:12 AM)
Denying sex to the cuck is also denying sex to the Mistress in most cases. Life isn't a porno movie, and there aren't suitable bulls knocking on the door every time Mistress is horny. Maybe other Mistresses get their transient satisfaction without the aid of a male partner, but mine doesn't. Sometimes She doesn't let me orgasm during sex, which may fall into a grey area. We love each other very much and so the value of cuckolding for U/us is emotional domination, rather than sexual domination. I'm sure there is a model cuckold couple out there somewhere, but I would be willing to bet that most couples make the rules up as they go along to suite them best.

YoursMistress -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 9:58:59 AM)
...tears up his partially-completed nomination for Miss ShaktiSama to the Almighty Council of Femme Dommes and walks away, disappointed...

ShaktiSama -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 12:59:27 PM)
Sorry to burst the bubble, YM. It's actually kinda weird sometimes how often people assume that there are some kind of universal "Rules" to deeply personal things like this. Or that a popular vote is really going to set the bar for any individual cuckoldress and her partner.

hairslave -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 7:10:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew Denying sex to the cuck is also denying sex to the Mistress in most cases. Life isn't a porno movie, and there aren't suitable bulls knocking on the door every time Mistress is horny. Maybe other Mistresses get their transient satisfaction without the aid of a male partner, but mine doesn't. Sometimes She doesn't let me orgasm during sex, which may fall into a grey area. We love each other very much and so the value of cuckolding for U/us is emotional domination, rather than sexual domination. I'm sure there is a model cuckold couple out there somewhere, but I would be willing to bet that most couples make the rules up as they go along to suite them best. A Cuckoldess doesn’t need to have a line of bills knocking at Her door in order to get sexual satisfaction. In most cases She is free to pursue other men on Her Owen time and terms wile, She requires the cuckold to remain in faithful compliance to Her and Her terms. And,... the cuck’s sexual satisfaction comes from seeing and knowing that She is completely satisfied on Her Owen terms, as his sexual release comes when and how She pleases.

sfdrew -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/21/2009 8:32:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hairslave quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew Denying sex to the cuck is also denying sex to the Mistress in most cases. Life isn't a porno movie, and there aren't suitable bulls knocking on the door every time Mistress is horny. Maybe other Mistresses get their transient satisfaction without the aid of a male partner, but mine doesn't. Sometimes She doesn't let me orgasm during sex, which may fall into a grey area. We love each other very much and so the value of cuckolding for U/us is emotional domination, rather than sexual domination. I'm sure there is a model cuckold couple out there somewhere, but I would be willing to bet that most couples make the rules up as they go along to suite them best. A Cuckoldess doesn’t need to have a line of bills knocking at Her door in order to get sexual satisfaction. In most cases She is free to pursue other men on Her Owen time and terms wile, She requires the cuckold to remain in faithful compliance to Her and Her terms. And,... the cuck’s sexual satisfaction comes from seeing and knowing that She is completely satisfied on Her Owen terms, as his sexual release comes when and how She pleases. Life rarely lives up to models and standards. Poorly regurgitating the cuckolding philosophy doesn't really make much a point at all. Just because She is free to "pursue other men" doesn't mean She is going to find any that suite Her. Of course most women can get laid anytime they want, but the idea is to find guys She wants to sleep with, not just any guy She can find drunken at the bar or off craigs list.

VanessaChaland -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 12:27:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew Life rarely lives up to models and standards. Poorly regurgitating the cuckolding philosophy doesn't really make much a point at all. Just because She is free to "pursue other men" doesn't mean She is going to find any that suite Her. Of course most women can get laid anytime they want, but the idea is to find guys She wants to sleep with, not just any guy She can find drunken at the bar or off craigs list. Well stated. When I run an ad looking for a new lover, I will usually go through about 150 e-mail replies for every guy I meet for coffee. For every guy I meet for coffee, usually 1 in 50 might get a second date which is where he gets to fuck me. :) In many years of cuckolding my husband, I have had three lovers. Only one of whom was invited by me back for a second date. And a third, fourth etc until he moved. I've been looking for a new Bull for almost 6 months now and have not found one that I will ask for a "second date".

MaamJay -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 1:36:09 AM)
As everyone's said, there's no "should" about it, each relationship is how you have negotiated it to be. However, most guys who contact Me with their desire of being My cuck (as I have Master whom they seem to regard as a bull), seem to feel they should NOT have sex with Me and would be shocked if I said I wanted it! As I can't see the point of keeping a cock and not using it Myself ... I'm not interested in what is generally presented to Me as cuckholding, not My thing! So if you want sex with your Mistress OP ... better find another arrangement. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

beeble -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 4:41:36 AM)
quote: sfdrew wrote: I'm sure there is a model cuckold couple out there somewhere, but I would be willing to bet that most couples make the rules up as they go along to suite them best. Amen. I don't understand where people get the idea that BDSM is all about rules. How do people let their relationships be governed by all this dogma? It's tragic. I grant that there are some over-arching rules, for want of a better word, of BDSM as a whole: consent is vital, you need to do X, Y and Z when tying somebody up or hitting them so they don't end up in hospital. But why do people keep inventing rules for other parts of BDSM? beeble.

slavekal -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 6:32:42 AM)
There are no SHOULDs, really. Mistress should do what she wants. Most of the time, anyway. Ms. Mlicious cuckolds me, but she still has sex with me. Actually, the whole scene gets her so turned on that she has sex with me more often when she is indulging in other men. After one of her dates, she can't get enough for a couple of days. Sometimes she comes home from fucking one guy, unlocks my chastity device, and fucks me too. If, on the other hand, she finds a guy bigger/better than me, and she decides that my only orgasms will be through the "Sharina Nicole"game (Check out my blog for details on that game), then so be it. I will submit to being a total cuckold.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 6:43:22 AM)
If I were a cuckoldress, and enjoyed sex with the cuck, yes, I would allow him sex with me... However, I'm not a cuckoldress, so will step away from your thread, with the following advice. Only your domina can answer this for you, because most dominas dominate to their specific rules/desires; so if you don't already have a cuckoldress, find one with the answer you like before committing to her. Good luck, M

Andalusite -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 11:33:39 AM)
I don't believe a Domme (or any woman, unless she has specifically negotiated otherwise), should feel she has to have sex with someone if she doesn't want to.

beeble -> RE: c: Do you believe that a cuckold should be allowed sex with his cuckoldress ? (3/22/2009 12:52:22 PM)
quote: Andalusite wrote: I don't believe a Domme (or any woman, unless she has specifically negotiated otherwise), should feel she has to have sex with someone if she doesn't want to. Sure, but this thread is about the exact opposite situation: whether a Domme should feel that she has to not have sex with somebody whom she might want to. beeble.

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