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BethFletcher -> is service innate or learned? (3/21/2009 9:35:28 AM)


Profiles are so often full of what it is that a guy wants; although CM makes that easiest to supply. But really, when a profile includes a list of fetish likes and not one word about skills, do you think it's even worth time to write the guy?

It's the ME generation thinking, what I want, need, dream and nothing for another person. Now how do you search this place for the word service?




GreedyTop -> RE: is service innate or learned? (3/21/2009 9:39:22 AM)

ok, confused here.. the title asks one question, the post asks another... 




weldedcollar -> RE: is service innate or learned? (3/21/2009 3:15:58 PM)

Dear BethFletcher,
As a submissive male, who up till the age of  30 years old,
i had never been seen as submissive male, nor before had a Dominant Girlfriend,
For some reason at 30 years of age, i picked up a Fem Domme magazine
initially for the cover photo of a Striking Woman in Black Leather ..
What i found inside, were stories of Female Domination of men.
it kindled a spark, which quickly became a flame.
i wondered to myself,   why ? 
i remembered back to my single digit day's as a young sprout,
remembering movies of  men in space, and with spacecraft in trouble having to
land on a alien planet , where Woman ruled, the astronauts were taken prisoner .
tied up, held against thier will,  The Woman tried to rehabilate the astronauts to
their society .... Dumb ass astronauts escaped eventually  usually with the help of
a sympathetic Female of the society ...
i wanted to escape with the astronauts to.......  BUT.......
there was something within me.....  that wanted to stay ...... hmmmmmmmm
So my view is that genetics , and life experiences , and intelligence will make a male want to submit to Domme Female ...
Service and what that manifests, in a D/s relationship is taught by Domme to submissive...




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