If You Could Change ONE Thing???

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la90066 -> If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:30:24 AM)
Ok my fellow sluts, studs and stud-ettes, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? I'll kick things off... I wish a former bottom would have been more patient -- she was both too anxious to serve, then too quick to run. And if I'm being self-critical, I probably should have put my foot down more often when balancing what she wanted vs. what was best for her. [:)]

FTopinMichigan -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:35:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts and studs, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? Ahhhh, I guess I'll pass on this one! K<--neither "slut" OR "stud" [;)]

IceyOne -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:36:12 AM)
Well, I would have to speak of in terms of former only If I could have changed one thing in my first husband it would have been his quick temper. With my second husband, it would have been the opposite lol. Absolutly nothing got to him...he was so easy going and laid back, you never knew if he was upset about something.

Arpig -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:39:49 AM)
The only thing I would change about my present sub is her age, I wish she were my age, and that we had met when we were both her age. alas for all the years wasted without her.

la90066 -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:40:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts and studs, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? Ahhhh, I guess I'll pass on this one! K<--neither "slut" OR "stud" [;)] Fine... Stud-ette, then... [:D] hee hee hee

MHOO314 -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 10:42:50 AM)
Neither slut nor stud.

yun -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 11:25:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts, studs and stud-ettes, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? TIME! it's all about the time apart and there never being enough hours in the day to be able to find good quality time!

Slavebitch11 -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 12:43:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yun quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts, studs and stud-ettes, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? TIME! it's all about the time apart and there never being enough hours in the day to be able to find good quality time! I agree...not enough play time. Master makes up for it by sharing me or lending me out for training by Dom friends of his. Like your signature says; servant to many....Owned by one. C'est moi

MHOO314 -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 3:19:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts, studs and stud-ettes, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? I'll kick things off... I wish a former bottom would have been more patient -- she was both too anxious to serve, then too quick to run. And if I'm being self-critical, I probably should have put my foot down more often when balancing what she wanted vs. what was best for her. [:)] I would have changed nothing, for each time was a learning, each time was another step closer to the boy--

LadyCompassion -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 3:29:55 PM)
quote: if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? If I could change just one thing...I would change his levels of competence. I would make him a more competent and responsible person.

perverseangelic -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 6:19:17 PM)
I would make him crave day to day control more than he does. That is, I'd like him to take control more often.

yun -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 7:50:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 I would have changed nothing, for each time was a learning, each time was another step closer to the boy-- greetings Mistress Hathor; i agree with you completely there. for me, even if it hasn't worked out in the long run, it has either served to teach me more about myself or it has taught me more of what i need different the next time. i wouldn't ever deny myself the learning process that every person who comes into my life gives me. that is why i chose to change something that is an outside influence and not a specific characteristic or quality about him.

OscarHargraves -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/25/2006 11:40:08 PM)
I have a former Sub that set one hard limit that just created real problems for us. I still wish she would change that..........

UtopianRanger -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:05:43 PM)
quote: a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? Without a doubt.... Her self-esteem/attention-starved problem. - The Ranger

MistressOfGa -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:21:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: la90066 Ok my fellow sluts, studs and stud-ettes, if you could change just ONE thing about your current (or last) partner's kink self, what would it be -- a personality trait, certain limits, better at certain sexual/non-sexual things or ??? I'll kick things off... I wish a former bottom would have been more patient -- she was both too anxious to serve, then too quick to run. And if I'm being self-critical, I probably should have put my foot down more often when balancing what she wanted vs. what was best for her. [:)] His age. Other than that, he is perfect.

veronicaofML -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:35:22 PM)
i THOUGHT i just went through this...once before the holidays..... to change 1 thing....... to be born female

KittenWithaTwist -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:41:30 PM)
I wish he had more training with whips and needles. Of course, I wish we both had more time and inclination than we currently have.

Rayne58 -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:46:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig The only thing I would change about my present sub is her age, I wish she were my age, and that we had met when we were both her age. alas for all the years wasted without her. Ditto - I wish Master and I had met when He was still healthy (or healthier than He is now). Ten years ago would have been perfect, but alas the stars were not in the correct alignment then.....however we make up for the years missed out on as much as we can now.

MarksFantasyGirl -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 9:53:59 PM)
I wish that my Love would be a little more open minded in bed... a little more willing to try new, and maybe extreamely kinky things... He likes rutine.... that just doesn't work for me.... BTW, I'm not a slut.... I'm just extreamly popular!

Slipstreme -> RE: If You Could Change ONE Thing??? (1/26/2006 10:05:24 PM)
I wish me and my partner had the same hard limit. As it is, when he brings it up, I feel pressured to consider something that is way out of bounds.

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