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CreativeDominant -> RE: don't be surprised reverse question please (3/23/2009 7:32:48 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
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ORIGINAL: pinkwind
i have never been given any reason to want to test my Master, his consistency feeds mine.
Are you sure your own cations are a direct result of something your Owner is or isn't doing? Could it be that you are just acting up badly, rather than testing?
I have behaved irresponsibly though. What I mean by that is that I have behaved with no thought for the consequences. I have striven with every fibre of my being to be as responsible as possible over the years. I fall and often blame the other. That is the main fault I have.
However I cannot be responsible for another person reacting and feeling I am testing them. Whenever that has happened I see it as a form of insecurity within the dominant. And I'm off. Insecurity in the one who has stated they are my Master leaves me feeling as if I am hangig from a sinely shredded rope instead of being manacled.
Because God forbid your Master act like a human being...be a human being...and be wrong once in awhile in THEIR perception of the situation?
Look at your two paragraphs above, princexx...on one hand you admit to behaving without thinking of the consequences, behaving irresponsibly. Is it possible that on those occasions, you HAVE tested your dominant without you even being aware of it? Is it possible that on those occasions your behavior has been such that even if it was not a test, it felt that way to your Master?
I don't do tests...on either side of the kneel. If you want to know whether or not I talk to others, then ask me. If you want to know if I am pursuing another, then ask me. If you want to know whether or not I have fun with others while not pursuing them seriously, then ask me. If you want to know what will cause me to punish you, ask me. But in all these cases, be prepared for the answers you get and be prepared to act in a mature manner, whether you like the answer or not. If you want to see if I am trustworthy, then live with me...pay attention to me...submit to me as you have stated you would...learn by noting that I don't assign tedious tasks and that I don't set a submissive up to fail (don't see the sense in either of those behaviors).
Now...having said all that, let me say this. If you choose to deliberately test me, then be mature enough to handle the consequences of it. If I have found out that you are testing me, then I may choose to do what LaT has done...leave you floundering and wondering what the hell happened for awhile or I may choose to punish. Worst consequence? I choose to leave or to dismiss. But remember...you asked for whatever consequence happens when you chose to test (challenge/manipulate/dominate...they are all very close to the word "test" here). If you want me to be responsible for my actions, then you be responsible for yours.
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