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Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:31:14 PM   
sirhardenthick


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Status: offline 		Awesome, I think I've found where I belong. Now I know the feeling to find a lifestyle that truely fits one's heart and soul. From what I've read so far this title fits who I really am...WOW. Now I know what everyone here gets excited about.


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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:42:37 PM   
Knite064


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Status: offline 		you been talking to a burning bush

Seriously...welcome to the forum and im glad you ve found ..well whatever you ve found really

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:44:53 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Well AWESOME!!!

Now, I have to say, the name........it's not doing much for me.

And...........wtf is HOH???

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:46:43 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		head of household, like takeninhand.com stuff

And another one who says you may want to reconsider the screen name. If you really want more than just sex in a d/s relationship, then a name that makes subs giggle and think of you as a HNG is not the way to go.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:47:02 PM   
LadyPact


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ETA, Des just types faster than Me.  LOL.


< Message edited by LadyPact -- 3/22/2009 5:48:03 PM >

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:47:41 PM   
crouchingtigress


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From: Maui
Status: offline 		Welcome, It is an amazing feeling to find this....I know what you are feeling....may it last forever!

Also- search the threads on Dom or sub frenzy...and allow those that have been before you to be your teachers....there are some pretty big pitfalls and giant rose colored glasses that are crazy common in this life...and it would be really cool for you to have an awareness of those, because they could save embarrassment and heartbreak in the future.

I think a fellow name stephann wrote something on his profile a while ago as an intro to new folks that was really worth wile and maybe some other folks can post things here that they found helpful too when they were new...

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:48:02 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Head of Household.  It's got more of a sense of a domestic discipline "vanilla" relationship than a BDSM relationship.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:50:25 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Thank you! I was clueless.

(probably still am.......but that's a different thread.......)

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 5:54:29 PM   
Caillin


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Status: offline 		Welcome. I'm confused though. Are you thrilled that you have found CollarMe, or BDSM?

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 6:02:34 PM   
sirhardenthick


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Status: offline 		Caillin, I am well familiar with CM. I am controlling and mostly Dom, although ropes, masks and such dont do me much. Now the verbal discipline, telling and having someone listen as to what to do and how to do it is what I like. What to wear, spankings and disciplinary measures dealt out in poper measures.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 6:20:00 PM   
sirhardenthick


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Status: offline 		Let's see pick the "right screen name" make "1,000's of posts" and "copy a cleaver saying I've read somewhere else as my sig". Got it thanks.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 6:39:18 PM   
ModeratorEleven


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Status: offline 		OK folks, enough.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 7:39:11 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		OP, a straight reason as to why you should care about your screen name. First, your profile says you are a switch, your screen name makes people believe you are dominant. Mostly we don't look at profiles just go by posts, including names. So people are going to consistently be confused by what you say when it doesn't match your name.

Hopefully you are in a committed relationship, because if you are seeking, then your screen name will turn people off. Most women won't even read an email from someone with a sex focused screen name, we will just delete it unread and click the block sender box. If you are seeking a partner, then getting your mail blocked unread is not the way to accomplish your goal.

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/22/2009 8:22:31 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		LOL Cut the guy a break... Although I must say the name does nothing for me either! LOL How about something more... well... or is less suggestive a better description? LOL

Anyway, welcome to the boards and really I know I felt the same way when I found this... Home at last!

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/23/2009 10:21:32 AM   
apiercedkitty


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Status: offline 		Being in the medical field, i immediately thought "hard of hearing" lol. Then slapped my forehead when i heard the "real" meaning...

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/23/2009 1:14:07 PM   
princesstiara


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Status: offline 		You are not alone there! I thought it meant Hard of Hearing too!!  LOL!! I was just going to post similar reply when I reads yours! Great minds eh?

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/23/2009 5:13:08 PM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		Ok that's great, but is there something you wanted to ask or expected us to do?
 
Besides wish you well?

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/23/2009 5:19:36 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I wish you well in your journey and much happiness as you venture through the various things of WIITWD.  It really is nice when you finally find a place that makes you feel like you are "home."

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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/24/2009 9:04:37 AM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Head of Household.  It's got more of a sense of a domestic discipline "vanilla" relationship than a BDSM relationship.

--SirTuffEnuffToOverStuff



Head of Household OR Head of Home, may indeed sound more 1950's vanillish but it is also both correct and most applicable to some kink lifestyles such as 1950's Lifestyles, the Victorian Period Lifestyle and the Gorean Lifestyles as well as other usually M/s dynamics which revolve about a home and the Dominant is HoH.

Just a small thought..


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RE: Could it be? HOH - 3/26/2009 6:39:22 AM   
redwoodgirl


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quote:

Hopefully you are in a committed relationship, because if you are seeking, then your screen name will turn people off. Most women won't even read an email from someone with a sex focused screen name, we will just delete it unread and click the block sender box. If you are seeking a partner, then getting your mail blocked unread is not the way to accomplish your goal.




well, he was, but he threw me away, so i guess we'll see if he changes his screen name again.

~a very sad Domahpet

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