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hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: What is more important in a Dom? (3/30/2009 5:32:22 AM)
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I refused to vote - the choices are way to shallow, and none of them mean a damn thing to me in the long run if Other, MUCH MORE IMPORTANT things/qualities are lacking in a person : intelligence, creativity, a sense of humor, a sense of perspective, integrity, honesty, loyalty.....
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so good looking is a strictly personal judgement call. (Besides which, looks fade - and if they're great looking but a completely self absorbed, shallow piece of shit otherwise - they aren't gonna look good for very long.)
Well versed in control and BDSM - eh, not so much so. Control isn't on my priority list, since I am absolutely uninterested in ds, and if he's Ingelligent and Honest I can TEACH him how to swing a flogger to my liking.
Well hung is useless unless he's intelligent enough to have learned what to do with it.... and if he's got good hands, a creative streak, and can breath through his ears he doesn't necessarily need to be "hung" at all. I can't keep him in bed All the time, so I'd damn well better be able to hold a conversation with him afterwards to.
Financially secure? I'm financially secure, I don't need someone in my life to be financially secure for me. If he has sufficient intelligence and creativity, financial security will eventually follow, and in the meantime make for a much happier life - not Easier, but definately Happier.
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