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crazyredhead1957 -> RE: Naked (3/30/2009 4:53:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

What is it about being naked, do you prefer to be naked in your bdsm activities or clothed?
i prefer to start out clothed to whatever degree and become naked, however Sir tells me to do.

Do you like being seen unclothed by others ?
Only by Sir.  Believe it or not, i'm shy.

To me, I feel it is an expression of freedom, freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities, and perhaps a little exhibitionism.

Any thoughts ?
i love humiliation so, to me, it's very humiliating and exciting to have to take my clothes off for Him.....especially if He is still clothed, even when i know He will also get naked later on.  Those are my thoughts.





LovingMistress45 -> RE: Naked (3/30/2009 5:44:11 PM)

It depends on where I am and who I am with.  If I am scening in public I wear cloths but the sub is almost always naked.  However, if I get hot I will take off my top but keep my bra for support.  One on one I may be nude if it is with someone I am also sexual with. Although I do in someways like the power differential that occurs when I am clothed and the sub is naked.  Also I do play casually which does not equal casual sex for me, so in that setting I am likely to remain at least partly clothed.

However, I am not bothered by being nude and I don't need the lights off either. Actually I like them on.



subboi3382 -> RE: Naked (3/31/2009 11:06:11 PM)

for me it is freedom, natural and a some exhibitionism. On the bdsm side it is demeaning for you to be nude while the Doms (or whoever is clothed)



FelineFae -> RE: Naked (3/31/2009 11:14:26 PM)

i enjoy being nude in most activities where it is legal to do so, especially any thing that deals with bonding to Master and Pomme.
Nudity to me is equal to honesty.
i would like it if more people were comfortable nude, but to each their own.



WyldHrt -> RE: Naked (3/31/2009 11:38:41 PM)

Depends on where I am and who I am with. At home (in warmer weather), definitely naked unless cooking fried or deep fried anything, lol.

At parties thrown by friends of mine from here, where the guests are all kinky, the little see-throughish thing I'm wearing in my avatar or something similar. When hitting the hot tub at said parties, well... I've been informed that swimsuits are bad for the pool filters [:D], so naked. That took a little getting used to (pretty sure my face was tomato red the first time or two), but I rather enjoy it now. I also enjoy being in just "a little something" when the D types attending are fully clothed.

In private, with someone I trust, it's up to him. 



antipode -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 1:35:57 AM)

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freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities


I am always in my entirety, actually.



Focus50 -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 2:18:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin

What is it about being naked, do you prefer to be naked in your bdsm activities or clothed?

Do you like being seen unclothed by others ?

To me, I feel it is an expression of freedom, freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities, and perhaps a little exhibitionism.

Any thoughts ?

Such is the mostly warm climate here, I'm not much for wearing clothes at home anyway.  But within a D/s dynamic, different degrees of nakedness is more about setting the right headspace than any other consideration....
 
During a scene, I'm usually dressed while I'll have the girl wearing no more than heels.  But then there's the grey areas....  If we're just relaxing around the home, I'll likely be wearing very little to nothing but I think it quite sexy if she's wearing a bikini or T-shirt and panties etc (I do like to see legs, regardless).  But that can change in a blink if I feel the need to assert authority - I'll suddenly feel uncomfortable undressed while she'll be spending a few hours fully exposed and talking in "yes, Sirs" and "no, Sirs".
 
The rules on nudity are too fluid to ever formally articulate.  Basically, she takes her cues from me and whatever she's wearing (or not) is probably fine until I decide otherwise.
 
Focus. 



kuriouswitch -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 7:10:20 AM)

the only times i'm really allowed clothing is when i'm working, running errands, or if i'm sick (i'm allowed my sicky p.j's then) or if i'm on my cycle, underware is allowed.  so for me being naked is an all the time thing. it just is, some days i don't like it cause i get cold but that's what blankets are for. so usually for our plays i'm naked already, i like that though it makes it more intense when he can touch and tease any part of me. i do like being undressed by him though when i get home from work.



CreativeDominant -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 7:54:12 AM)

I like having some clothing on at almost all times unless I am in bed.  I prefer the submissive to have on less than I do but that does not have to equate to full nudity.  I like sexy, trashy, classy lingerie and sometimes I like just a thong and lacy bra.  Full nudity from a submissive is really great for some scenes but not all...in some scenes, what is going on is enhanced by a certain type and/or amount of clothes.



porcelaine -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 7:57:02 AM)

it depends on the activity. i'm usually half clothed when alone and admittedly i've grown accustomed to it. however, if we're alone i would be willing to shed my clothes. but, in front of others i'd probably be much more hesitant. i haven't shed my shyness as of yet. but of course the 'idea' sounds darned hot. they usually do. [;)]

porcelaine



CollaredLisa -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 10:57:18 AM)

Hmm.... I am usually naked all day unless we get visitors, go out or it's just too cold (blanket).
At first that was pretty embarrassing and I was incredibly shy about it, but by now I wouldn't want it any other way.
I agree with the OP, it is a feeling of freedom - and I enjoy being looked at in that context.



StormsSlave -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 11:40:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin

What is it about being naked, do you prefer to be naked in your bdsm activities or clothed?

Do you like being seen unclothed by others ?

To me, I feel it is an expression of freedom, freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities, and perhaps a little exhibitionism.

Any thoughts ?



99% of the ppl I know I have zero desire to see nakie.  Those folks that "flaunt" their body in <semi> public areas.  I'm thinking make the world a better place and put your clothes back on, cuz the rest of us are losing our lunch!!!

Seriously that is why God made clothes.  So I wouldn't have to wonder why you have 3 belly buttons.

BadOne



lmfao!!!!  [sm=lol.gif]  My thoughts exactly.



EchoMirage -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 4:03:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: antipode

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freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities


I am always in my entirety, actually.



I'm completely in my entirety, though only part of the time



kallisto -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 8:10:43 PM)

It depends on the activities and what is wanted and required of me at the time.   I think clothes can be provocative and erotic with one activity and then be a complete hinderence in another.    Being naked in front of your (Dom for me) is as physically honest as one can get. 



twisteddoll -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 11:01:23 PM)

I'm not really shy of being naked.  I just like clothes.  I think they're pretty.  I like dressing all slutty in private.  I feel like... those costumes can be really expensive so I should wear them as often as possible. =P



Vanityfull -> RE: Naked (4/1/2009 11:42:31 PM)

i live in saskatchewan canada which has one of the coldest winters on earth and it lasts a good 7 or so months, so being nude is plain retarded most of the time. when weather permits i generally dont wear a shirt around my home becuase i feel damn sexy without one, i wear pants mostly becuase i have a roomate, that and i find baggy jeans very comfortable

i have done a strip dance for a lova before and found it alot of fun, and being nude when someone is dressed gets my subyness tingling. i am definatly not an exabitionist tho and stay fully dressed in public... unless im fucked up and dancing to some bad techno but that doesnt count.



DominantlyCaring -> RE: Naked (4/2/2009 12:57:46 AM)

girls girls... have to be naked .. otherwise where is the submission?



shorn -> RE: Naked (4/2/2009 4:33:37 AM)

It isn't up to shorn. shorn likes to dress up and shorn likes to be naked in unexpected places.

Most of the time shorn is in corset, but the farm is very private and guests either know or are told it is clothing optional, and the hot tub is nude only. Of course the family vacation spot my grandfather owned only required skirts or shorts at the dining room table, all else, except Grandmother, was nude. The kids usually ate outdoors.



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