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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 3:42:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Would you consider cloning yourself into male form???? None of the subs I've talked to are even remotely interested in what I like and what I believe, all they care about is that I'm a "Mistress" and want to know what I'm going to do to them <sigh> How nice that you care so much about your Master!!!!! bravo!!!!!

I think Veronica has the "male form" down pretty well.

"None of the subs I've talked to are even remotely interested in what I like and what I believe"

And this takes you by surprise?

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 3:48:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: And I think this is uncalled for. He responded to the question, and added the disclaimer that his was not the typical situation. I find your response just RUDE.

Don't worry, I'll write to Amnesty International if Veronica gets drafted into stud services against his will. The thought of him getting / giving any sexual attention to a woman is truly terrifying, with all the psychological scars he might experience in the throws of love and passion.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 5:17:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: And I think this is uncalled for. He responded to the question, and added the disclaimer that his was not the typical situation. I find your response just RUDE.

Don't worry, I'll write to Amnesty International if Veronica gets drafted into stud services against his will. The thought of him getting / giving any sexual attention to a woman is truly terrifying, with all the psychological scars he might experience in the throws of love and passion.

his soul is filled with passion, his heart yearns to love--his mind rules--for no one has broken his walls--look but see, listen but hear, touch but feel--for what v is--is no different than elements of all and each of us---

I am often humbled in his presence as I learn of submission, drive, pain, regret--

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 7:32:44 PM

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funny tha ti find this post after thinking my thoughts today. im starting to eat right, now that i am able to. im also looking into taking violin lessons so that in free time i can play nice songs for my Master, Sir and sister. O/our future life together would be a nice quiet one, so i thought what would be better than to have sweet music to entertain them!

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 7:45:21 PM

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Yes, and you're taken too!!! A lotta good that does me ;)
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but but but

me sowwy....honestly i am...
me didnt mean make You feel bad?

was just teasing....

he he

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 7:47:01 PM

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psychological scars he might experience in the throws of love and passion.

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people only love me when they want into my wallet.
and passion is for those dime paperbooks women read...thinking all guys look like fabio...

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 7:49:17 PM

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look but see, listen but hear, touch but feel--for what v is-
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he he snicker
i am like a shaolin monk..
look, you cannot see, listen, you cannot hear, reach, you cannot touch,...i walk through walls and disappear into a puff o' smoke,...

wow
i'm good, huh?

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 7:51:51 PM

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I think Veronica has the "male form" down pretty well.
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yeah
that's 100% prime grade USDA BEEF!~
that's why they call me the U.S. Male...........thats m a l e son...........

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/28/2006 11:26:33 AM

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I've also learned how to pick out fine cigars in the past year and have brought him some which he was very surprised he liked so well since I don't smoke them myself

If for whatever reason this relationship doesn't work out, don't be suprised if the scent of a cigar that he smokes often causes a physical reaction or "scent memory". The scent of a Meduro or especially a punch cigar can still send me into space years later.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/28/2006 11:49:16 AM

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I've also learned how to pick out fine cigars in the past year and have brought him some which he was very surprised he liked so well since I don't smoke them myself

If for whatever reason this relationship doesn't work out, don't be suprised if the scent of a cigar that he smokes often causes a physical reaction or "scent memory". The scent of a Meduro or especially a punch cigar can still send me into space years later.

I'll keep that in mind. :-) I'm hoping that 9 years together and the fact that I still react to his kisses.. ::and um.. he reacts to mine:: means that we're in the running for some longevity.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/28/2006 2:42:14 PM

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For Master and I it's not so much about improving via specific skills (though I pride myself on cooking, entertaining etc). He focuses much more on mental self-improvement. Each night when we go to bed He asks me what I've learned today. Whether it's that I felt beautiful, learned the joy of helping others, found myself to be brave in a new way, did well at my job or in school...it's always a step closer to personal wisdom. For each well developed answer I get a much desired swat on the ass. That sweet sting and the heat that follows are all the reward I need and looking forward to them motivates me to be a better person all day long.
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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 6:29:02 AM

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this slave thinks that all beings should constantly strive for improvement. But a good slave especially so. there is not really any such thing as 100% perfect, so there is always room for improvement & slave should work on areas that it's improvement in would please Master most. In this slaves case there is much room for improvement.
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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 6:33:57 AM

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In the past, I improved my knowledge on FOOTBALL! LOL

I work to improve myself daily so......

Eating properly.

Keeping up with current events.

Yoga and working out.

Becoming a better cook.

etc.........

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 7:54:08 AM

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I have never thought about what she could do which 'benefits' me as much as what she could do to improve herself...the reasoning being that if she is more complete, more whole, more aware...then she is more prepared to be with me, for me, serve me...so I would need to be honest and recognize that yes, that does benefit me...
I tend to guide towards a better understanding of self, motivations, spiritual development, letting go, etc...
I also appreciate when she makes an honest effort to know about my interests and takes the initiative to learn about them...conversation is important to me. I do tend to like to know where her interests lie so I can help direct her towards sources of better understanding. I also feel, if she has talents in certain areas, as well as goals etc, if she works on developing or fulfilling those dreams so she is more complete, then she has more to bring to us...

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 7:59:32 AM

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I am working on internal things, and have been for a few months: self-confidence, self-esteem, maintaining a higher level of calm in my life, reframing how I think about certain things. It's been a great experience for me.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 8:24:17 AM

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Wow…how lucky you are to have partners who are interested in growth! So many people go through life just existing…never taking the time for reflection, learning, enjoyment.

One of the things I do that’s not yet mentioned, is keep my home and yard as close to a private retreat as I can. I try to keep my home comfortable, serene; a place to look forward to entering. While I don’t have a partner…this benefits me but I imagine another could see the worth in this endeavor.

Thank you for a delightful topic!

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 9:56:53 PM

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What do you do to improve yourself which benefits your Master/Mistress?

Hmmm... Only a few things really stand out as being of benefit to Him as well as myself.

1. Study nutrition and healthy meal planning in order to minimize calories and maximize health benefits

2. Work out at least 1 hour every day in an effort to shed about half of myself

3. Take piano lessons, that I might entertain Him and His guests one day. He actually enjoys listening to me practice (even when half the time I'm spouting, "Damnit, Denise! Get it RIGHT!).

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 10:04:54 PM

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Since I am uncollared I do not improve myself for a particular person, but I do work on improving myself until I do find someone that I want to make that commitment to. I have educated myself and continue to try to do this on a daily basis. I also exercise and try to be more spiritually aware. I should concentrate on cooking more.

I plan to go to graduate school and would like it if this pleased whomever I hook up with. I would especially like it if I felt I was filling my mind to please that person one day... I tend to like dominants that are into intellectual conversations and that will push me to be more than I am today. It is a side benefit of a submissive nature, always wanting to meld ourselved into something more for our One...lol

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/10/2006 10:42:05 PM

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When I was with my (now former) dominant, he enjoyed foot massages. I bought a book and studied the techniques so that I could give him the best massage. I talked to others and learned about extra touches like warming flat stones in the microwave to place between his toes. The massage became one of our cherished rituals, a time for us to talk as I tended to his feet, a challenge to see if I could get him so distracted with what I was doing that he couldn't complete a sentence. I would buy different oils and lotions to see which ones he liked best.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 5/11/2006 11:56:55 AM

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