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bandit25 -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 12:14:23 PM)

Exercises to improve flexibility.  We both love rope bondage!



heartfeltsub -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 1:06:38 PM)

Although i am not currently collared, the improvements that i am making to be a more well-rounded submissive for my eventual Master is in trying different types of BDSM play, and increasing my pain tolerance by playing with a variety of Doms who use a variety of techniques and also one HUGE sadist who is working on my pain tolerance and teaching me how to deal with the pain.



slavejali -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 3:25:13 PM)

I'm working on something subtle at the moment, obeying Master in the way he wants rather than how I think he wants, which means paying attention to the entire command, the details,  rather than just the outcome and working out myself how to get to that end result.



Evanesce -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 3:31:05 PM)

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I'm working on something subtle at the moment, obeying Master in the way he wants rather than how I think he wants, which means paying attention to the entire command, the details,  rather than just the outcome and working out myself how to get to that end result.


[:)]  And that can be one of the hardest things to do.  I used to struggle with that one, myself.  Still do, sometimes, because it's extremely difficult to break the habit of trying to interpret every word and listen to what's really being said, instead. 



slavejali -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 5:32:39 PM)

You're telling me, I just 2 minutes ago wrecked it again. Master asked for a coke, so being the good slavegirl I am I raced out and got one and being ever so helpful I opened it for him. He looked at me as said, "I wanted an unopened coke to take back to work."...ugh!!! I gotta stop filling in those gaps!!!



Littlepita -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 5:46:52 PM)

I’m doing lots of stuff to improve myself, which improves our relationship

First, we are both on a low-carb diets, so I am doing a lot of reading on that subject and avidly collecting and making yummy recipes so we don’t get bored and get off plan. I am also exercising for the first time in my life and getting the weight off. Then, he can dress me the way he wants and also I can have the stamina to do all those lovely, naughty things he wants to do to me.

I’m studying very hard to get my GED so that I can go to technical college in the fall and get my associate degree in Retail Management. Then we hope to open a store where I will be able to contribute financially to us and to see me into my old age.

Mostly I’m improving becoming His submissive. I haven’t ever been one in the D/s sense in my life and I have had to work on letting go of the way I was and embrace the new me. He owns more of me everyday and that makes us both feel very satisfied. [:)]



smilezz -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/11/2006 5:48:37 PM)

Further my knowledge in German/Russian languages.
Life Change in eating habits.


~smilezz~



RadioFlyer -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/13/2006 9:04:55 AM)

It seems to be a running thing in this thread, but my main thing I have improved upon for Mistress is indeed cooking.

I was a Mcdonald's whore before we signed our contract. I couldn't get enough of that shit.  But now I am no longer allowed to eat there (thank goodness) and she, as a very experienced (she calls herself a "food snob") cook has been teaching me how to cook and I am very proud at the progress I have made. I hope to be able to cook all her meals for her one day.

It's gotten so far as when I was out to eat with my family at a restaurant the other day, my sister said I should become a food critic. This really hit me. A former Mcdonald's junkie who now is being told he should be a food critic. How ridiculous!

-RF



pistachio -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/13/2006 3:55:30 PM)

You know what i would love to see? A support group for slaves/subs. A group where we could share all that we've learnt.
One sub might know a lot about sewing or cooking or guns and be able to help along another sub who needs to know those things but doesnt know where to start.
Sometimes i feel so overwhelmed with the amount of  things that i cant do or cant do well....and i just long for an understanding sub to take some time out to help me along.



Tapestry -> RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives (5/14/2006 6:12:37 PM)

What a great Thread!  Everything I do somehow helps to make me better for Master.  I work, in order to earn money to pay my bills and take care of my son.  I work on nutrition, health, and exercise in order to be at my best physically, mentally, and emotionally.  I strive to cook and prepare meals and foods that please Him, as well as dining out and trying all manner of new experiences with and for Him.  (I've learned to enjoy sushi, and eat with chopsticks.)  I've begun to learn about bread baking, since He enjoys fresh bread so very much!  I've begun learning about wine, enjoying going to local wineries for tastings, and serving wine with meals.  I've begun to learn a small amount about firearms, have enjoyed the shooting range, (yes I hit the target and since most of the shots went into the perp's groin area I felt fairly confident that I would have protected myself, my son, and Master!) [:)]
I've worked at learning about His beloved performance cars, and other features which make a car desirable to Him.  I've always enjoyed football, college and pro, so it wasn't hard to share that passion with Him, although cheering for His team in addition to my own was quite a sacrifice, but you know, anything for Master![:D]
Trying to stay abreast of current events, and able to hold an intelligent conversation is important, as well as sharing O/our sense of humor, O/our sexual intimacy, and being open to whatever He wishes.
But there is a "flipside" too.  There are things that I do, that aren't about me, or improving myself, but are done in order to care for Master and help Him to be all that He can be, and to be the best He is capable of.  Whether it's researching health issues and assisting Him in making good decisions and choices for His care, or taking steps to help Him improve His overall health through good nutrition choices, or physical activity, or psychological and emotional support, all are designed to benefit Him, and require me to learn and research and improve myself in order to be the pleasing and beneficial slave that He desires and deserves.



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