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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 2:12:17 PM

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I'm assuming that the OP is referring to all the ads on CM's main page... am I wrong?

That's right, the main page, the sign on page, and the ones embedded in profiles.

I think the pictures are pretty hot, and as noted too, extreme. To me they depict a kind of scene based (bondage, public, exposed, etc.) technologically applied orgasm method. Its depersonalized, somewhat depersonalizing, and authoritarian (and sometimes group authoritarian.)

Put another way, its the opposite of both one-to-one intimate sex and "relationship" sex. Its industrial.

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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 2:38:16 PM

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The pics themselves don't excite me, but the scenario they represent does. Visual porn rarely does it for me, I'm more a text porn sort.
I do like the fantasy of forced sex and humiliation, I don't like it in reality (okay.. I do like a certain amount of forced sex

but not humiliation).

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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 4:04:53 PM

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I like women. I like being helpless and forced into difficult but perfect situations. Those pictures get me wet as hell. Actually just thinking about them... I'ma call my domme right now.

and I thought those were just men who thought that way

I feel so weird now.

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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 4:18:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

To me they depict a kind of scene based (bondage, public, exposed, etc.) technologically applied orgasm method. Its depersonalized, somewhat depersonalizing, and authoritarian (and sometimes group authoritarian.)

Put another way, its the opposite of both one-to-one intimate sex and "relationship" sex. Its industrial.

Ahhh... perhaps for some of the pictures, but generally that's not how I see them. Nothing about depersonalized sex or public exposure interests me.

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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 4:24:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
Collarme is now loaded with tons of femsub pictures; girl bound, and a magic wand stuck between her legs. I suppose the depiction is one of "forced orgasms" and helplessness. There are also doses of humiliation and public exposure spiced in. I know this porn is tailored to the male imagination, but is it strictly limited to male fantasy projection?

Is there any correlation between these pictures and real life? Do you get excited by these pictures?

My impression is that the magic wand, if not properly handled or controlled --- would be more an annoyance than a positive stimulation.

Personally, I choose to believe that women can cum in less than 27 seconds with mechanical devices....and love you all the more for it...even if you're not there. (Particularly if you're not there).

I choose to believe that if I last 53 seconds....that a woman (who truly cares for me) see's that as my being more concerned about her future and that I'm being "efficient"....not selfish....because I have lots of other shit to do....and that I'm ultimately doing it all for her.

I presume that if a woman says to me "Lookie....my breasts are not quite what they were when we first met....what do you think about me getting breast implants?", my response of "HELLYEAH!!!! I can't wait to see what they look like....when can I play with them?" would not be construed to mean anything other than "HELLYEAH!!!! I can't wait to see what they look like....when can I play with them?"...and any other comment such as "honey, you look as beautiful to me as the day we first met" should be looked at with the same derision and scepticism that any man would give if he overheard that same comment second hand in any bar.

(Just my thoughts.....)

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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 6:19:58 PM

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I am guessing you mean the advertisement pics, op? Occasionally one catches my eye but most are rather contrived and the ones that have electrical effects placed in them or herky-jerky movements for fucking machines are just creepy.
Not sure about the violet wand. The hitachi magic wand is like a jackhammer.
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RE: Have to Ask the Femsubs - 4/2/2009 6:34:11 PM

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i rarely read female profiles or profiles in general, so i'd have to admit the images have little impact on me. now if there's movement and vocal feedback you might get my attention.