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tazzygirl -> RE: is extreme bad? (4/1/2009 2:41:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: yesMaster247
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ORIGINAL: antipode
As to how "normal life" gets accomplished, I don't understand your question, this would mostly consist of "not normal" life, I should think, can you elaborate?
i mean like bills, my family (who does not live near by), a job things like that
thank you all for replying i am very grateful
i see nothing wrong with this desire. i do see pitfalls. if its gained over time, then im sure you can feel with some certainty that trust is established, that he does know what is best for you, and you both are willing to go into that kind of micro-managed state.
however, the pitfall would be someone who has abusive tendencies. there is a reason why almost everyone will say, never allow someone to cut off connections with your family/friends. thats because, initially, you dont know each other, trust isnt established. giving up everything in the beginning can cause just as much harm.
my advice....take your time, explore each other... suggest a time table of things you desire to be managed by the dominant. always, always err on the side of caution. the potential hazards, in my opinion, arent worth the twinge between your thighs. you can start off with small things.. such as when you get up, what you will wear, what chores and when dinner is to be ready. once those are established, then you can go into jobs, friends, finances. your family should be the last territory given over.
then again, im sure some will disagree with me.
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