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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 9:07:24 PM   
IrishMist


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Only if I can use them on you, hun...


/gets an unholy gleam in her eyes



ok...I guess I should be serious huh? Darn...

to answer the question

pain, pain, pain, humilation, pain, objectification, pain, pain, degradation, pain, pain and pain

I think that covered it all



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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 9:36:33 PM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU -- bondage, pain, objectification or ???

Cum cum now... Inquiring minds want to know?!!






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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 9:39:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course there is another area of fun, that is to be playing with a couple where the guy is restrained standing legs apart and naked and make him watch his wife or partner naked on her knees giving a head job to another male and later offering herself and being fucked by at least one male (more is better and even better when a couple of girls are added).

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 10:03:57 PM   
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Of course there is another area of fun, that is to be playing with a couple where the guy is restrained standing legs apart and naked and make him watch his wife or partner naked on her knees giving a head job to another male and later offering herself and being fucked by at least one male (more is better and even better when a couple of girls are added).


Mister IronBear...you give sadistic a new meaning lol

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 10:30:19 PM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU -- bondage, pain, objectification or ???

Cum cum now... Inquiring minds want to know?!!






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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 10:59:32 PM   
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How's that LA?

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 11:10:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

pain, humiliation, begging for something I really don't want..but then, (sometimes) finding out I do, but even if I don't just loving it because he does so much...degradation, objectification...fear...helplessness...the way my pain/fear/whimpers excite him....oh boy...uhm...stuff like that...

How's that LA?




OK... You're just trying to impress me at this point aren't you -- c'mon... fess up?!! hee hee hee


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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 11:17:04 PM   
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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/27/2006 11:20:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to say it's the power for me. I love the feeling of having my Sub begging, crying and willing to do anything I want. I also love it when I can just take my pleasure (read rape) with her and not worry at all whether she enjoys it or not.

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 12:04:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is like fine dining with many courses. It starts with conversation and discipline while she stands nude before me. I set the tone for the main dinner by running a crop or leather slapper over her while I tell her exquisite things. Maybe a little spanking next over my lap, but all the while, it is the words teasing, humiliating, commanding and exciting her. It is like the first taste of a good wine.

The main course is served with my suede flogger on her back, ass and legs leading to her rapture. In her now, obedient and accepting state, we taste the other delights of crops and canes. The sex comes like the desert when you are so full and feeling so good that you wonder how you can take anymore…but you do. My sex is not vanilla pudding though. It is a fiery tasting thing that often combines use of the slapper and cane while she frantically motions at the waiter for more.

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 1:10:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: la90066


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

pain, humiliation, begging for something I really don't want..but then, (sometimes) finding out I do, but even if I don't just loving it because he does so much...degradation, objectification...fear...helplessness...the way my pain/fear/whimpers excite him....oh boy...uhm...stuff like that...

How's that LA?




OK... You're just trying to impress me at this point aren't you -- c'mon... fess up?!! hee hee hee




Well....really didn't want to be so honest but...yanno, you've just got a way about you...

*g*

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 1:10:55 AM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU -- bondage, pain, objectification or ???

Cum cum now... Inquiring minds want to know?!!


Whatever works for you - and your partner - consentually (even if they have given up consent).

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 5:26:04 AM   
Jewelry


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Status: offline 		I'm not a true masochist. Pain is not a big thing for me. The only enjoyment can be found in His response to it. If I can see His excitement than it can be a real turn-on. I'm more into the mental domination, humiliation, objectification, helplessness, power exchange.

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 7:15:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves

Winchester ????? As in saddle gun? Now that's one I haven't heard of..........sexually.

Really? Gun play is definitely out there...

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 7:18:34 AM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU -- bondage, pain, objectification or ???

Cum cum now... Inquiring minds want to know?!!






All of the above...

Be well,
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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 7:26:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

pain, humiliation, begging for something I really don't want..but then, (sometimes) finding out I do, but even if I don't just loving it because he does so much...degradation, objectification...fear...helplessness...the way my pain/fear/whimpers excite him....oh boy...uhm...stuff like that...

How's that LA?

Sounds like me except for the pain bit. :) I hope you get a lot of those things.


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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 7:36:45 AM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU

Proper spelling.

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 8:04:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

pain, humiliation, begging for something I really don't want..but then, (sometimes) finding out I do, but even if I don't just loving it because he does so much...degradation, objectification...fear...helplessness...the way my pain/fear/whimpers excite him....oh boy...uhm...stuff like that...

How's that LA?

Sounds like me except for the pain bit. :) I hope you get a lot of those things.



Thank you uhm...the other LA...*lol* (me too!)

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 9:16:19 AM   
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Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU -- bondage, pain, objectification or ???

Cum cum now... Inquiring minds want to know?!!






Basically all of it...sometimes at the same time, sometimes one at a time at different times. Depends on his mood.

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RE: What Puts the "X" in Kinky Sex??? - 1/28/2006 9:28:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: la90066
Ok folks... What put's the "X" in Kinky Sex for YOU

Proper spelling.


OH SHIT... I just noticed that -- DAMN! (says the anal retentive)

hides head in shame...

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