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Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 11:44:31 AM

nobody2u

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I have just ordered & I'm awaiting delivery of a CB6000 chastity device.

I want to experience what it's like wearing a device for intially short periods of time. My main concern is my will power really there is nothing to stop me taking it off after 5 mins as I'm not involved in any sort of realtionship with a dominant partner that could keep hold of the key.

Reading some chastity websites I have seen ideas of putting the key in a block ice or posting the key to yourself to prevent from giving myself an early release. Is there anybody else out there in a similar position I would appreciate if they could share what methods they use to prevent them from releasing themselves.

Many thanks
Mark

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 1:32:22 PM

FIT2BRESTRAINED

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i post the key yo myself at a mail box that doesn't pick up til about 3:00 pm. i usually get it at about 1:30pm the next day.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 2:16:23 PM

VeryNastyDom

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There are electronic keys that are computer programmable. They only permit the lock to be opened at certain hours. If you have a friend that you can trust, give them the software. In an emergency, the key can be reprogrammed via the infrared port on your cell phone with a call from the friend.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 2:24:03 PM

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There are electronic keys that are computer programmable. They only permit the lock to be opened at certain hours. If you have a friend that you can trust, give them the software. In an emergency, the key can be reprogrammed via the infrared port on your cell phone with a call from the friend.

You now have my absolute attention. Do you know the name of these keys, or where to easily find them perchance?

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 2:59:52 PM

Lockit

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Personally I like the ice idea. lol.. I can picture him with a big block of ice with key inside... can't use the microwave and has to sit and wait for the oven to do its job... in a panic... but then I am a tiny bit sadistic! Hell if a guy wants out... a hammer will do. lol That ought to cure the problem.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/2/2009 10:02:56 PM

YoursMistress

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Mailing the key sounds absolutely wicked. Just be sure not to do it over a holiday weekend.

yours

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/3/2009 3:36:32 AM

GoddessTeaze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nobody2u

I have just ordered & I'm awaiting delivery of a CB6000 chastity device.

I want to experience what it's like wearing a device for intially short periods of time. My main concern is my will power really there is nothing to stop me taking it off after 5 mins as I'm not involved in any sort of realtionship with a dominant partner that could keep hold of the key.

Reading some chastity websites I have seen ideas of putting the key in a block ice or posting the key to yourself to prevent from giving myself an early release. Is there anybody else out there in a similar position I would appreciate if they could share what methods they use to prevent them from releasing themselves.

Many thanks
Mark

Hello mark,

First of all, you want to control your clit, which I
read in your question here. Which is always a good thing
of course, and I like the subs who will do that
even when they haven't got a Dominant to serve yet.

So this means, control, self control !

I'm not for cages, one bit, because I always
tell My sub he has a choice , either to rub/cum,
or to obey Me, and make sure he doesn't
come without permission.

Now you want to do this with a cage,
which takes allot of temptation away,
and in My eyes, is a truly shame.

But each to their own of course !

But when you've bought this cage,
you STILL need to make sure that the key
is hidden?? Why is this?
Can't you trust yourself,
is the will to wank and cum so deeply
that you lack such a self control?

Or is it the kick of not being able to
open it for whatever reason.

I always picture this: what if you're in an accident
and they've gotto cut open your pants..

Then what?

I admire a sub who doesn't need
any device.. to show that they've balls,
and don't need to wank every minit
because they can..

But that's just Me.

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/3/2009 4:21:45 AM

GotSteel

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https://www.lockedinsteel.com/?Cat=118&CatName=KeySafe A keysafe that allows others to have control of your key over the internet or for the user to set how long it will be locked.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/3/2009 9:48:06 AM

nobody2u

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze
But when you've bought this cage,
you STILL need to make sure that the key
is hidden?? Why is this?
Can't you trust yourself,
is the will to wank and cum so deeply
that you lack such a self control?

Thank you for your comment GoddessTeaze. Yes at the moment I do lack the self control that is required for chastity without the use of a cage. This would possibly change if I were to have a dominant person in my life, as I would have someone to strive to please & serve. I see the cage as a chance to experience having control taking away. Hopefully in the future I will be able to have the control required, as I want to be submissive as lifestyle choice rather than just a fetish.

Thanks
Mark

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/5/2009 2:42:58 AM

BKSir

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel

https://www.lockedinsteel.com/?Cat=118&CatName=KeySafe A keysafe that allows others to have control of your key over the internet or for the user to set how long it will be locked.

Ooooh, I do like that idea :)

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/5/2009 9:30:08 AM

stella41b

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try a song...

When it's locked in its box
Hold your hands up high
And don't be afraid of the pork
At the end of the pork there's a red end
From where comes the sweet silver stream of the sperm
Hold on, through the night
Hold on, through the night
And your dreams be chaste and pure
Hold on, hold on,
With hope in your heart
For you must never touch your bone
You must never touch your bone

Hold on, hold on
With hope in your heart
For you must never touch your bone
You must never touch your bone..

original by Gerry and the Pacemakers

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/7/2009 1:23:43 PM

uncollaredmalenj

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You could put the key in a bottle of water then put it in the freeze once it is frozen put on your chasity device.
Or as someone else mentioned mail it to yourself.

But IMO wearing one for the first time. You should build up to it rather than dive into wearing it for a long time.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/7/2009 7:03:23 PM

slvemike4u

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Self chastity......isn't that what happens when you slip on ice and sprain your wrist?

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/9/2009 8:01:42 AM

softness

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Buddy up with a key holder.
Invite keyholder over to your house for dinner.
Leave the house for a given amount of time so keyholder can hide key to chastity device somewhere in the house.
Pre-arrange a time/date where the location of the key will be revealed to you.
In an emergency, call keyholder and ask.
Self chastity. Done.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/9/2009 8:06:49 AM

colouredin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

in an emergency, call keyholder and ask.

I so have the idea of what would cause an emergency masterbation in my head now

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/9/2009 8:41:20 AM

InTonguesslave

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just to be a blow hard for a mo - but i wouldnt take a chance on the postal system - you might find youreself locked up in there for a very long time, or worse, you might have to get a locksmith in. just a thought.

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/9/2009 11:26:29 AM

WonderNotWander

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quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

just to be a blow hard for a mo - but i wouldnt take a chance on the postal system - you might find youreself locked up in there for a very long time, or worse, you might have to get a locksmith in. just a thought.

Sorry, I had to laugh. All I could see in my head was the Robin Hood Men in Tights movie. Where Robin is trying to get past the chastity belt, and suddenly yells out "Call a locksmith!!"

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/10/2009 5:30:34 AM

softness

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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

in an emergency, call keyholder and ask.

I so have the idea of what would cause an emergency masterbation in my head now

baby ... I just saw the trailers for Xmen 4, Crank and Fast & Furious .... I'm dialling 999 as we speak *lays back and fans self*

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RE: Self Chastity - 4/10/2009 6:04:23 AM

subtlebutterfly

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*thinks hard*
*thinks very very hard*
*thinks to the point that my brain starts cookin*
nah...those chastities so aint my thing..besides I could resist the need without chastity

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