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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 2:29:36 PM

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Ultimately is that productive? She needs help Vincent, what you are doing is making things worse for everyone. kazza suggests you both keep your distance from each other until you leave.

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 2:31:40 PM

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if you re-read how i responded to your original posting, i dont believe i made any suggestions that could be construed as disrespectful
I certainly never told you you didnt have the right to post your opinion,,,,this is america and i will defend your right to say whatever you feel
i was merely pointing out that, if you find my postings boring, silly,too fantastic to believed,etc, perhaps your best course of action is to simply ignore them
however, while i do believe you have the right to say what you feel, the internet seems to have given people the impression it's perfectly acceptable to flame, degrade,denigrate,or otherwise put others down because they are safely away from public scrutiny, safely hidden behind your keyboard
i might make a suggestion,,before making a derogatory posting in the future, ask yourself this very simple question...
"would i make this very same statement in front of a roomful of people?"
in many cases, the answer will be "yes,i would"..in other cases the answer will be "no i wouldnt"

edited because, upon re-reading, i realized my current emotional state had caused me to make some serious grammatical and spelling errors

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 2:56:12 PM

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kazza,,of course you are right,and my intellectual side is already beginning to swing my emotional side towards the right way of handling this situation........but i am a bastard through and through,,,sometimes it gets away from me, ultimately i regain control

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 3:00:39 PM

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That's good to hear. Remember that you always have the option to walk out of the room.

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 3:07:31 PM

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exactly right,,,walking away from an idiot is usually the best way to handle the situation

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/5/2009 5:35:07 PM

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*smiles* walking away instead of making things worse is even better....

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/6/2009 5:02:59 PM

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You know, OP, life is too short and too precious to purposely hurt people who are in emotionally fragile states.
You, apparently, don't have an addiction problem. That is wonderful.
Your friend does.
I'm assuming she helped you out at times when you needed it, as well.
I'm not suggesting you make yourself an emotional or physical punching bag, but to wish ill of those you are closest to, only seems to bring negativity back on yourself.
I understand that you are angry, hurt and upset, but it sounds like this person needs your friendship (even if you're not living together) and support.
If you can't do that, then just move on, without anger, recrimination or regret. Let her go and live her life, and you live yours.
When you take joy from another's sorrow...you sow the seeds of bitterness.

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/9/2009 7:34:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

You know, OP, life is too short and too precious to purposely hurt people who are in emotionally fragile states.
You, apparently, don't have an addiction problem. That is wonderful.
Your friend does.
I'm assuming she helped you out at times when you needed it, as well.
I'm not suggesting you make yourself an emotional or physical punching bag, but to wish ill of those you are closest to, only seems to bring negativity back on yourself.
I understand that you are angry, hurt and upset, but it sounds like this person needs your friendship (even if you're not living together) and support.
If you can't do that, then just move on, without anger, recrimination or regret. Let her go and live her life, and you live yours.
When you take joy from another's sorrow...you sow the seeds of bitterness.

I wish you both well.

point well taken, and youre right.....in hindisight i was very angry because she blindsided me, but the past is the past..the latest news is she is no longer a factor in my life,,,,she announced monday, 4/06,at approx. noon, that i had until that evening to be out of her house or she would have me arrested...so, at around 7:00pm i was pulling out of the driveway with everything i own in a U-Haul , and as I was getting behind the wheel her parting words were "it's a good thing you're leaving because I got tired of waiting...the police are on their way".....so now I'm in Orlando, I'll be checking in sporadically until life gets back to normal....for all the people who were following this little soap opera, just thought i'd drop a note and let you know how it worked out, in case you were interested

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RE: do we have any health care professionals here? - 4/9/2009 12:36:06 PM

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i hope things get better for you, it's hard to start over. Especially being ripped from one situation and thrown into an unknown one immediately following. Best wishes. *hugs*

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