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azjojoba -> spanking close to anus (4/3/2009 11:56:35 PM)
I met a dominant woman -- not from this website of course. She is a novice to this sort of thing, and I don't consider myself that experienced either. She said she wants to spank me bare bottomed OTK which is very cool. She also said that in addition to spanking my entire bottom, she really wants to spank me close to the anus. I don't have a problem with that, and it might be kind of fun, but is also sounds sort of dangerous, especially with novices. Can some of you give us advice on how to do this properly? I was thinking the diaper position might be easier if she wants to spank me so close to the anus. Any opinions?

HeavansKeeper -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 12:39:07 AM)
A small headed crop would be more agile, but it requires a few practice swings (as all extensions of the body do). Soft leather is best, as rigid side/corners could scrape soft skin. Also.. Softer at first. Definitely a high-repetition/low force procedure. Kneeling fetal position, your hands holding the cheeks apart is very helpful for exposure. Also... Watch out for the fellas. The force of a spank might be harder than the CBT you're in for from a miss.

azjojoba -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 12:43:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper A small headed crop would be more agile, but it requires a few practice swings (as all extensions of the body do). Soft leather is best, as rigid side/corners could scrape soft skin. Also.. Softer at first. Definitely a high-repetition/low force procedure. Kneeling fetal position, your hands holding the cheeks apart is very helpful for exposure. Also... Watch out for the fellas. The force of a spank might be harder than the CBT you're in for from a miss. What's a CBT? Thanks for the tips.

WyldHrt -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 1:12:13 AM)
As noone else seems to be awake this late [:D] I'll answer your question. CBT = Cock and Ball Torture. That said, I'll let those more experienced... ahh... flesh out the answer for you (pun intended) [;)]

chamberqueen -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 5:15:40 AM)
If she is using her hand there should be no danger, and it can be done OTK by you spreading your cheeks for her. There is a different sensation when having different parts of your butt spanked and it sounds like she just wants to play with these sensations. As long as she's using something with a flat surface (hand, paddle, strap, etc.) instead of something like a flogger where it is hard to control exactly where all the tips would land, I see no obvious danger.

thetammyjo -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 7:11:04 AM)
It's not very dangerous unless she is Superwoman and very strong or using a sharp object. She isn't going inside of you after all, only the external part. It will be a very different intensity though so she should start slow and watch closely and not too it more than a few times in a row to start. If you do this correctly, striking the external part of the anus can help some people relax those muscles. I had a few partners who liked this before anal because it helped them relax which always seemed odd to me but then they were the masochists and it was their bodies so I can't why it happened only that it did.

LadyLupineNYC -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/4/2009 7:15:53 AM)
If you were a cat...it would be a problem. The small head crop is a great idea to really get into those small places. Also, a polite sub might offer to hold his ass cheeks apart to help facilitate her access; it will also give you something to do with your hands and something to grip if it stings too much [;)]. Also, the flight to med firm use of a leather flogger tips brushing against the anus and lightly on the balls (so there is just the threat of more pain) can be quite delicious, but would need more skill/practice.

azjojoba -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/5/2009 3:11:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chamberqueen If she is using her hand there should be no danger, and it can be done OTK by you spreading your cheeks for her. There is a different sensation when having different parts of your butt spanked and it sounds like she just wants to play with these sensations. As long as she's using something with a flat surface (hand, paddle, strap, etc.) instead of something like a flogger where it is hard to control exactly where all the tips would land, I see no obvious danger. She is going to use a hairbrush for most of my spanking. I think your advice is very good to use her hand for the anus part -- especially since we are both new to this. There is less chance of getting really hurt that way. I like the idea of spreading my cheeks to her, and I'm sure she would appreciate that too. It's got a delicious humiliation factor that is starting to make me look forward to this experience.

tornaway -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/5/2009 11:32:14 AM)
As in many forms of delight/torture/discipline , The do-er must be carefully versed in the using of various methods - so as not to to real damge to the do-ee. This is certainly no exception , and could prove to be quite delicious !

Politesub53 -> RE: spanking close to anus (4/5/2009 3:50:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC Also, a polite sub might offer to hold his ass cheeks apart to help facilitate her access; Polite by name polite by nature Ma`am, but this did make me wince when I read it. [8D]

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