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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 5:28:53 AM)

fast reply

i received a message from a "dominant" in Turkey before ...the message full of flattery and flowery prose until the end it read "if you do decide to visit here, you're not returning home. i'm going to kidnap you" - blocked and deleted pile.

OP, i hate to say this - you're a bloody mess.

i've sort of followed your threads here and there and i must say - step off the submissive-cloud 9 frenzy ...time to breath in some reality.  from what i've gathered, you haven't met this guy sweeping you off your feet ...he lives in a country thousands upon thousands of miles away which doesn't leave you much of an escape route (unless your hotel room is inside the airport) if things go sour ...now there's talk of ownership and play with others....

slow the fuck down

take a deep cleansing breath

now blow it out

(repeat if you have to)

you need a reality check and start questioning yourself seriously about this "dominant", yourself, your needs/wants and your present situation.

no charge for the advice



LaTigresse -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 6:35:50 AM)

When I first read the title of the thread I thought it was about someone being dominated by poultry, then I read and find that it is only involves the intelligence level of poultry.

Maraa, perhaps you do not see how your threads and posts come across. Because it honestly reflects less common sense than Chicken Little. I have to say that my best advice to you would be to read, re-read, and continue reading, what Sambaanslilgirl has written. Forget crazy men in foreign countries and focus on getting your own head screwed on straight. If what you write is any indication, you are an accident waiting to happen.



kiwisub12 -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 8:08:27 AM)

agree strongly with above.       Why would you throw all your eggs out of the basket over a man you have'nt met, who wants a poly relationship where you are the procurer of girls (isn't there a name for that???).   

What do you have in common with this man? What are his hobbies, what sort of food does he like, how many brothers and sisters does he have -  what exactly do you know about him - other than you have difficulty communicating with him.
He comes from a completely different culture with attitudes to women that are way different from the ones you grew up with. You might use a little caution in regard to jumping into a life with him.  Or in other words - use a little common sense!!!!



kaleidoscopeeyes -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 8:26:36 AM)

I'm pretty sure that guy has cmailed me before, and just like sambasmanslilgirl, I put him in the block and delete pile. Think about it -- who in their right mind would advertise for a woman they don't even know to come live and work for him? And who in their right mind would respond to an ad asking for that right off the bat? He sounded extremely sketchy, and like others have said, you need to step away and take a breath of fresh air -- and cut communication with this so-called "Dom".



SassySarijane -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 9:10:18 AM)

After following the OPs previous threads, I know better than to offer anything. It'd be ignored as it wouldn't be what she wanted to hear. So all I got is this:

Hope you eventually wake up to reality and it's not too painful when you do. Have a great life.



YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 9:25:03 AM)

This dom, from Turkey, sounds like an a-hole. You seem like a very sweet girl, take a step back and re-read all of the past conversations with them. If you've had them in messenger you most likely have them saved in the archives. Read them again. And again. And again. Anything that doesn't add up, grill him until you get satisfactory answers and Google him. Since you seem so hell-bent on making this work i'm sure you're going to do all of this but, in order to save yourself the headache and massive amounts of aggravation and insults which he's sure to hurl at you, drop it and move on.

Trust me, you don't want to become jaded like me. Don't fly all the way to Turkey to meet with him because you may never come back. Don't allow him to insult you just because you are a sub. You don't deseve that. Just cut your losses, and move on to find someone who does deserve you.



hamster11 -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:13:41 AM)

when i first read the title i said "hell yeah! every thanksgiving i beat that bird into submission".



pixidustpet -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:23:34 AM)

just for future reference, Maraa....

calling this male a "Turkey Dom" is pretty insulting.  he's a person from turkey, NOT a turkey.  he's Turkish. 

even though from the description, he's someone i'd not be listening to for the length of one c-mail message.

kitten, tossing her two cents worth in



maybemaybenot -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:46:46 AM)

In Maara's defense, English is not her first language. I highly doubt she meant to insult anyone.

                             mbmbn 



RealSub58 -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 12:13:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Must resist...[8|]

Must[sm=banghead.gif]



[sm=banghead.gif]  ......will resist  [8D]



maatsubJ -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 12:41:46 PM)

[sm=offtopic.gif] People really need to stop s"troll"ing into threads to correct grammatical mistakes if you get the point then leave it alone, if not ask for the OP to clarify. see easy.  The OP is not a native speaker of English (lucky her lol) so it's probably messy going.  I of course also believe the OP might need to committed, but that's another topic entirely. 



Lockit -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 3:19:39 PM)

So does this new thread about the drama of your life with your dominant in Turkey, suggest that every time the two of you argue... you create a new thread, that will get responses that you won't listen to anyway? 

I don't find the problem with the dominant... nope.. not at all.  You already know what I think of him... the problem here is that you allow this, continue this and like sharing your drama.  Anyone who does this shit... continues this shit... well... what can I say except... where the hell is the wall everyone is slamming their head against?



KatyLied -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 3:23:36 PM)

quote:

i received a message from a "dominant" in Turkey before ...


I think many submissives have received that message.  The majority don't fall for that sort of nonsense.



maybemaybenot -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 6:37:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

i received a message from a "dominant" in Turkey before ...


I think many submissives have received that message.  The majority don't fall for that sort of nonsense.



What's wrong with me ?  I never get messages from Nigerian scammers, Turkish doms or doms that want to lock me in the basement for a month at a time. I must be doing something wrong. [:(] Why aren't the good ones interested in ME  ? What about me ?

                        mbmbn



marysdream -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 6:44:40 PM)

you on liners lol amaze me..really seek out help before you are 80 yrs old ....pretending to have a life on line!
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LadySeakirk -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:25:31 PM)

How many RED flags do you need.
In just ONE of your many posts I count 5. 
You say your openminded. Then open your mind and see that sleeping days means he is with his WIFE (not always), no Phone means He has a WIFE. lives at work and ONLY talks to you from work means he has a WIFE. you keep saying how AGGRESSIVE he is...again HOW MANY RED FLAGS DO YOU NEED ???? 



corsetgirl -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:44:28 PM)

Please step away from the computer! Seriously, turn off the computer and go to local munches or play events. Try meeting real people instead of online doms who live far away and inflict dramatic mind games. Block, delete and ignore this turkeydumbinant.

Oh yeah, save your money and travel somewhere else that will be fun for you. Just my [sm=2cents.gif] advice.



SurrenderForMe -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/5/2009 10:51:58 PM)

My opinion.  He's an asshole user.  Dump him.

If he is unable or unwilling to answer a question clearly, he is probably scamming something.
Anyone who insults someone rather than address the issue is an asshole.
Good luck



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/6/2009 3:33:31 AM)

See my advice on your last thread. I can't recall it exactly, but I'm sure it was some version of "dump the loser and go get some self-esteem so that you won't keep getting yourself involved in these stupid scenarios".

It still applies.



akisha -> RE: Turkey Dom.. (4/6/2009 9:45:49 AM)

[sm=offtopic.gif]

Ok I might be totally off base here but I've noticed a couple things.

All of the OP's threads are ONLY started on weekends. "hmmmm"

All the threads are full of juvenile drama[sm=jerry.gif]

Can someone that is almost 40 really be this stupid?? Have this little commen sense? So total inept in life experience and have absolutely no basis to fall back on??


I know I'd never broadly advertise on a web board such a range of ......ummm unmature senarios[sm=AttentionWhore.gif]

Taking everything into consideration...... My conclusion is this is not a 37 yr old adult but some bored teenager left home alone alot on the weekends.

Just my thought anyway. Maybe I'm just trying to not believe someone almost 40 doesn't have the commen sense that God gave a cricket.



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