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Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 1:03:37 AM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I've got an offbeat fetish. I like being forced to serve a Butch Lesbian Domme. And I enjoy being forced to look and act like a very feminine woman to her.

It would seem to be a difficult situation to find, but I've been lucky to have met some Butch Dommes who were also into this.

I wanted to know if anyone else had this same type of offbeat fetish.
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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:35:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		How long does this Lesbian Butch Dominant have to apply this "force" before you do what you want to do anyway? ...




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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:42:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: softness

How long does this Lesbian Butch Dominant have to apply this "force" before you do what you want to do anyway? ...





Are you saying this is another case of the "do me's"?

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:45:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, the whole 'forced' thing annoys me.  I mean, if you want to do it, own it, rock it, say it loud and proud: It makes me hot for a butch Domme to sissify me and turn me into her little bitch!  Not my cup of tea but as long you and the lady are in agreement, it's all good.   
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(Who is also twitching at the probable improper usage of the term fetish)


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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:46:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		As long as I have my mind together, I'm thinking about what I love about it. But there comes a point where my mind crashes through what I want, I am totally somewhere else outside of my own mind and body. At that point it is no longer what I want or what I'm thinking. It is just happening. Once I'm out of the scene and back to normal, I can remember what happened and that's when I start thinking about what has just happened and I get my pleasure.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:47:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: softness

How long does this Lesbian Butch Dominant have to apply this "force" before you do what you want to do anyway? ...





I'd guess it's probably already happened.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:48:59 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		Okay. Let' call it a kink instead of a fetish.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 12:53:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do you see that your description of what's cool about it (And, it sounds as if it's really cool for you, so groovy) isn't about you serving her at all, though?  It's about you satisfying your kink which isn't a bad thing but, I would think, would perhaps be a reward for good service if you're truly on the s-side of the kneel rather than topping from the bottom or being a do-me bottom.  Not attacking, just pointing out facets that are standing out and hoping that you may understand why it's harder to come by with certain conceptualizations there-of than if you looked at it in its totality. 
  Davan
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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 3:32:23 PM   
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Yeah, the whole 'forced' thing annoys me.

but wait...is "forced" every REALLY forced?? 
i am like u...the term is getting to a bit worn for me...especially when someone clearly has a fetish/kink for something and says, "i want u to force me to xyz-fetish".


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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 3:44:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have seen this term "forced" so much and sometimes I've seen it used to the extreme in ways that could never happen.

Sorry to say "forced" when I meant to say "consensual simulation of force." I was just too lazy to spell out the full term.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/5/2009 4:20:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I have seen this term "forced" so much and sometimes I've seen it used to the extreme in ways that could never happen.

Sorry to say "forced" when I meant to say "consensual simulation of force." I was just too lazy to spell out the full term.


lol...i like that...another way of using "force"...
no apology needed... :)


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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/6/2009 7:20:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

How long does this Lesbian Butch Dominant have to apply this "force" before you do what you want to do anyway? ...





Are you saying this is another case of the "do me's"?


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I couldn't possibly comment.

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

It would seem to be a difficult situation to find,
(snip)
I wanted to know if anyone else had this same type of offbeat fetish.



I get feminised (cleaning is sooooo bad for a manicure) and then serve a Lesbian Butch Dominant every weekend. No "force" though .... I don't think its all that "offbeat" .. I think its pretty common.


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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/13/2009 3:26:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think this thread took a wrong turn too early. So I'm bumping it with my two opinions.

One, regarding forced acts, people should focus on the bigger picture. I dislike when a thread about how subs should behave in public gets sidetracked due to another pointless "sub v slave" (Supreme Court should get on that). "Consensual simulation of force" Thank you for that, Tsalveboy.

Two, I can appreciate this fantasy. The submissive creature in my head (which I force to endure terribly wondrous things to fuel my dominance) appreciates this gender bending turn on convention, while keeping a heterosexual* (just barely =P) dynamic in place. I too have a soft spot (You mean 'hard spot' HEY-O!) for women being "manly" with girls (here played by a crossdressing sub male). The relaxed masculine view which I'm familiar with (and am unfairly adding to Tslave's fantasy) is a refreshing change from the idea of a catty, feminine mistress. I know its a stereotype, but when I think "female domination" I get Michelle Pfieffer as Catwoman. (I know.. I'm sorry.. I'm sorry!)



*Heterosexuality is not really important, but I think it adds a little appeal to me, because I happen to be straight.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/13/2009 4:56:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Main Entry:
forced
Function:
adjective
Date:
circa 1537
1 : compelled by force or necessity : involuntary <a forced landing> 2 : done or produced with effort, exertion, or pressure <a forced laugh> — forced·ly \ˈfȯr-səd-lē\ adverb   hmmm, don't see the words, "like" or "willingly seek out" or "pleasure"---I'm with DK the whole "forced" concept when it's something someone wants to do or willingly seeks out chaps My Domme ass. I also don't know too many Lesbian Dommes who would react too favorably to the word "butch".  Maybe these are just a few reasons why you haven't found your dream wanking scenario yet.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/15/2009 11:35:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici
Main Entry:
forced
Function:
adjective
Date:
circa 1537
1 : compelled by force or necessity : involuntary <a forced landing> 2 : done or produced with effort, exertion, or pressure <a forced laugh> — forced·ly \ˈfȯr-səd-lē\ adverb   hmmm, don't see the words, "like" or "willingly seek out" or "pleasure"---I'm with DK the whole "forced" concept when it's something someone wants to do or willingly seeks out chaps My Domme ass. I also don't know too many Lesbian Dommes who would react too favorably to the word "butch".  Maybe these are just a few reasons why you haven't found your dream wanking scenario yet.

I'm pretty surprised this crap flies on these boards. So often I see people who seem to think it's up to them to decide what "forced" is. It's no different than humiliation and play-rape. Not such a hard theory to grasp now

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/15/2009 11:40:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Evertonic
I'm pretty surprised this crap flies on these boards. So often I see people who seem to think it's up to them to decide what "forced" is. It's no different than humiliation and play-rape. Not such a hard theory to grasp now


You should go here. It's a thread about resistance to the word "force" when not used to describe 100% involuntary actions.

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RE: Forced feminization to a Butch Domme - 4/15/2009 11:44:18 PM   
Evertonic


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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper


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ORIGINAL: Evertonic
I'm pretty surprised this crap flies on these boards. So often I see people who seem to think it's up to them to decide what "forced" is. It's no different than humiliation and play-rape. Not such a hard theory to grasp now


You should go here. It's a thread about resistance to the word "force" when not used to describe 100% involuntary actions.


I actually had just stumbled upon it, thanks for the redirect!

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