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What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 7:43:05 AM   
dennidson


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Status: offline 		After reading a thread in the General BDSM section on dress codes in clubs started by Sodsta, it got me wondering what it is that you like your sub/slave to wear. I imagine your answers will be quite varied. I always dress in what I suppose could be considered as a mainstream style but I would of course be willing to wear something else should the occasion call for it.
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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 8:09:11 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm really resisting the temptation to post the same link that I did in a thread yesterday.

A person should wear what the situation dictates.  If it's a club, like what spurred the idea, it's a good idea to see if the place has a dress code.  If it's out to dinner, some places are fancier than others.  Work, school, the public library, well, don't just wear your boxer shorts.

Personally, I don't care if a person wears jeans or business suits.  At home, we dress casually.  Not quite t-shirt casual Myself, but I don't fuss when the males wear theirs.  As long as the clothes are clean, well kept, and neat, I'm satisfied.




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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 8:55:26 AM   
Kaiel


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Status: offline 		My boy dresses according to the environment W/we are in... during play times and our private times... he's naked! **ummm humm just like I like him**

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 9:08:37 AM   
MsDDom


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Status: offline 		i must agree with the above to posts...it is simple, whenever or wherever we go, he will adhere appropriately to the environment or special occasion.

like Kaiel, he is bare and exposed behind closed doors...


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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 10:47:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		He wears whatever I tell him too and behind closed doors, when its just the two of us...he has on nothing but his collar.  YUMMY!

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 7:44:19 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		It depends on the setting, and round the house it depends on the season. We don't keep our house heated high enough for running about naked, but it's a poor slave who won't strip on command or wear the clothes altered for his Mistress's easy access to what she wants out.

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 8:00:50 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		I've got all kinds of costumes and slinky little outfits- he enjoys being suprised by it on occasion.... today I did the whole dirty nurse thing... left my scrubs top on and threw on a belt, fishnets, and some boots... wee!

I cannot really stand most mens fetishwear though... it seems the guys always buy the things in 3 sizes too small.


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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 8:36:04 PM   
FullfigRIMAAM1


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Status: offline 		Dressy casual...   Or boxer shorts to bed...  Or a cute nightie when I feel like looking at that, or nothing when I demand that.    M

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 11:04:50 PM   
LAgirlsub


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Status: offline 		What do you ask your female subs to wear? Do you demand they dress in a certain way just for you? (oh such as a dress or something else you want). I'm asking because I'm most often in jeans and a babydoll T with cute sneakers or sandals. I'm just not LA glam and I feel like I'm not being myself if I have to wear certain clothes. Of course if an occasion, event, whatever called for it, sure. But just as my regular clothes, it's not me.

So do you have particular requirements for the women you like to dominate?

Oh and I have to comment on my picture. I have a reason why I posted a picture of me in a dress. I bought it (and ended up returning it) because of the online dom I spoke with who wanted me - demanded - that I must have a dress. Well, she never saw me in it and something just felt appropriate for me to post it here. At least all of you can now see a picture of me in a dress (a very rare event). It was just a quick photo but for some reason, it makes me happy posting it here.

< Message edited by LAgirlsub -- 4/6/2009 11:11:27 PM >

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 11:08:43 PM   
FullfigRIMAAM1


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Status: offline 		The honest answer is, just the way you are dressed in the avatar (very hot pic), or dressy casual...    However, I should mention that, while I can apreciate beauties like yourself (and a few others on the boards ), I only play to get to the sex, and I'm 99% heterosexual at this point unfortunately.     M

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 11:16:37 PM   
LAgirlsub


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Status: offline 		Then I'm even all the more complimented. Thank you. It truly is a rare situation that I'd be in a dress even though honestly, I'm fortunate I have the kind of figure that certain dresses fit well (small but curves in the right places). You actually think the picture is hot? Wow. I guess I don't easily see myself that way. Cute I get, it's sexy I'm hoping for...

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/6/2009 11:23:55 PM   
NormalOutside


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Status: offline 		Great question! What do I like my sub to wear? Depends on the sub, depends on my mood, depends on where she will be, who she will be with, what she will be doing, what the weather is like, and several other factors.

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/7/2009 12:09:08 AM   
dennidson


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Status: offline 		I know my question vague in the sense that I didn't specify an occasion and everyone's opinion would of course be different, but that was actually my intention. I was looking for a wide range of views and opinions.

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/7/2009 4:03:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dennidson

After reading a thread in the General BDSM section on dress codes in clubs started by Sodsta, it got me wondering what it is that you like your sub/slave to wear. I imagine your answers will be quite varied. I always dress in what I suppose could be considered as a mainstream style but I would of course be willing to wear something else should the occasion call for it.


Depends on what and when we're talking about.  If we're talking at a club, I want them in something vaguely appropriate (dark, fetish, and/or dressy) and attractive on them.  This can be anything from leather and fishnet to a suit.

If they're weeding my lawn I want them in something that is comfortable and doesn't mind if it gets dirty or ripped.

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RE: What do you like a sub/slave to wear? - 4/7/2009 6:46:39 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		whatever the situation dictates.

if he's going to a dinner-business meeting / visiting a construction job site, he wears the proper business casual attire.

if he's alone in the hotel room and/or with me, he's wearing the sexy black lingerie.



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