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LaTigresse -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:05:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: yesiwillgladly

Re:  The isssue of what Domme would get out of a 24/7

A clean home, a maniucured lawn, massages, a clean bathroom, a fun compnaion to go out with, a toy to show off to Her friends, a travel partner, a good cook, .....


The issue is, you are in essence trying to sell yourself. If you are lazy, not taking care of your own stuff properly, no woman is going to think you will consistantly do it for her.

I know I certainly do not want to have to stand over my sub/slaves to get them to do what they already know they are supposed to be doing.

If you need motivation, think about it as though you are a house you need to sell. It needs to be show ready at a moment's notice. Have it include your home, yourself, your fitness, and your personal hygiene. Get involved in activities that would be an asset to a woman, something like learning to cook really well.

As cold as it sounds, you are trying to sell a product, you. Right now, that product looks wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too Do-it-yourself, to be attractive to most women. We have our own stuff we have to take care of, raising you to be a grownup is not going to be something most will find appealing.




yesiwillgladly -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:10:22 AM)

Re:  motivation

If I am working on my faults, then  how is that not wanting to be better person?




Kaiel -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:13:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: yesiwillgladly

Lashra:

Thank You for replying.

My follow up:  No one is perfect.  I have a laziness issue.  I am motivated to work on myself.
I want to do good, but the structure is not there.  So, I was looking at changin the structure i am live in to get out of laziness....and 24/7 seems like a structure that brgins out the best in me.


IF you really wanted to please your Domme, you'd be motivated at home too! I wouldn't tolerate a lazy sub/slave... takes too much energy and I wouldn't find it attractive at all. (Luckily, I do not have this problem with My boy)  If I am motivated , I expect that my subs/slaves are too!




angelwithhonor -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:14:26 AM)

......this was a headache post......hope it helped him........




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:18:17 AM)

So he also sends this message out to FemDommes randomly off the forum as well.

MsKitty's boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK
Who also just explained to this guy that it's not realistic to think that a Woman would even WANT to boss him around dressed in Leather all day because he's lazy. See? It's about his fantasy....clearly.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:19:07 AM)

The quick reply to the op is:
Laziness doesn't require a domme and a 24/7. One can't change a person when they don't want to change themselves.
You just want somebody to make you stop being lazy, because you can't bother putting the effort into stop being lazy yourself.

and your name...yesiwillgladly GOSH how contradicting can that name be??




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:25:10 AM)

Sorry...this is really supposed to lead to this guy's fantasy about a Leather-clad Woman standing over him and consuming all of Her attention. Seriously...I SO wish I could post the question he just sent to MsK's profile. I REALLY do.

boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK




Kaiel -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:26:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Sorry...this is really supposed to lead to this guy's fantasy about a Leather-clad Woman standing over him and consuming all of Her attention. Seriously...I SO wish I could post the question he just sent to MsK's profile. I REALLY do.

boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK



I'd say you busted him anyway... maybe it's a cut and paste??? LOL




LadyHibiscus -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:28:01 AM)

Well shoot, we figured that anyway, BoiJen!  But cmail his post anyway, I am desperate for a laugh!




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:29:58 AM)

His question here isn't the same leading question he sent to Ma'am's profile. The leading question put it right out there that he thought he might "cure his laziness" if a Domme were to "boss him around while dressed in Leather"...and only asked if it were "naive" to think that. Funny enough...he messages a Domme in Tampa...the other side of the state from here so my guess is that he didn't even bother to read MsKitty's profile before sending the message....wanker much?

boi
future ruler of the Universe serving MsK




Andalusite -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:30:51 AM)

Laziness isn't a feature or a kink for most Dominant women (or just about anyone else, for that matter). It's good that you recognise that this is an issue for you, but I'd suggest addressing it before getting involved with anyone.




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:32:12 AM)

C-mail sent

From,
the wanker nailing boi
future ruler of the Universe serving MsK




LadyHibiscus -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:35:13 AM)

And replied!  [:)]  If we were computer engineers, we would be on the road to riches right now, srsly...




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:36:00 AM)

Right?

XI just knocked down his other thread.

boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK




yesiwillgladly -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:36:02 AM)

Andalusite:   That is very true.  It makes me feel approved.




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:40:40 AM)

I love that he thinks if he ignores these messages about his motivation, that it doesn't have an impact on how this thread will be received.

boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK
who didn't get a reply to the c-mail response that I sent him...wonder if that's because he didn't get told what he wanted to get told?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 8:45:05 AM)

I SO needed a gigglesnort to start my work day, and I have one.  It's all good!




stella41b -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 9:11:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: yesiwillgladly

Re:  The isssue of what Domme would get out of a 24/7

A clean home, a maniucured lawn, massages, a clean bathroom, a fun compnaion to go out with, a toy to show off to Her friends, a travel partner, a good cook, .....


Throw in optimist as opposed to realist.




Lockit -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 11:34:38 AM)

LOL... Dude you posted your question and one minute later posted again wondering if things were working correctly... wanting your answer because it was important to you.  You admit to being lazy... but I have to add impatient and unrealistic to be impatient because your answer wasn't there the moment your question was out of your mouth.

Snap to it domina's... I want attention now!  That works well...

Then you want a dominant to force you to change... your way.

What if I want a lazy slave and won't expect you to do much of anything but sit and look pretty?  Would you still get a thrill?  Because that is about all you would get from your calling the shots with me.  Nothing.




BoiJen -> RE: laziness: how to get a sub to not be lazy; does it require 24/7 (4/7/2009 11:51:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit
I want a lazy slave and won't expect you to do much of anything but sit and look pretty 


I'd be so fucking happy if Ma'am came home one day and said this to me.

boi
Future ruler of the Universe serving MsK




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