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a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 11:07:19 AM

tommer

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Hello,

i was wondering how i should introduce myself in my profile. As a novice, i am learning all of the time. I desire to be a Mistress's slave, but can i consider myself a slave without being trained, or without being owned? Technically i am a submissive?

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 11:17:10 AM

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You may call yourself whatever you wish, but if you have little experience I would recomend you start with submissive. I think if you use slave right off some dominant will assume you are ready for more hard core stuff. Better to start with them expecting a little less and delivering more than the other way about.

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 12:22:35 PM

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Thanks atypicalsub, very good advice.

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 3:34:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tommer
Hello,
i was wondering how i should introduce myself in my profile. As a novice, i am learning all of the time. I desire to be a Mistress's slave, but can i consider myself a slave without being trained, or without being owned? Technically i am a submissive?

Be true to what you feel you are. I won't get into another discussion over whether or not you can be a slave without being owned or trained but each Dominant is going to train you to his/her preferences anyway. If you want to be a slave, then say you want to be a slave but have little or no experience. Honesty is far more important than a label.

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 3:36:14 PM

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I think the phrase "I'm a submissive who aspires to be a slave" has a good ring to it.

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/7/2009 3:42:14 PM

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A good clue is finding out what is worn under clothing. If it appears that the genitalia are worn then you are dealing with a slave.

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RE: a submissive or slave? - 4/8/2009 7:01:27 AM

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I don't think slavery requires training, unless you're speaking of training yourself to relinquish a major part of your ego, and live for your owner. YMMV, M

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