SteelofUtah
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Joined: 10/2/2007 From: St George Utah Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There are times when apologies are more hypocritical than anything. If you think before mindlessly attacking, there is no need to apologise. And more than anything this ticks me off. I didn't attack you. NOT ONCE, I just didn't agree with the actions I preceived you were taking, if you preceive all those who do not agree with you as people attacking you then perhaps you might want to think on that. And you can't call hypocritical on something you didn't even bother to read. That's seems to be a little worse than hypocritical it seems to be a little "holier than thou" LadyH, I respect you, have up until this whole mess where it would seem you just want to believe that every "Male" has it in them to just ignore your position. Awful big chip to carry around and sad because it really isn't true. There is no Old Boys Network going on, not with me anyway, what there is is my opinion of what to do and your opinion not matching. I believe you do what you can when it happens and deal directly with the problem, I got, and STILL get the distinct impression that you want to get rid of this guy cause you feel it is your responsibility to. Where as I agree that action is required, I believe the action is to call the MAN on his mistakes and not call the community to attention of the man. Sure you never actually said that you were planning on doing exactly that but with the tone of your posts and the context within them it seems a good bet that if you had your submissives meeting that it would be at least in your mind if only in your mind about THIS GUY. I disagree with THAT process and I find That Process just as bad if not worse than what that guys is doing. I think it is worse because I don't think it's your place to save people from themselves by removing or attempting to remove or attempting to change something "THEY" wanted and had buyers remorse later. Perhaps you see this as another guy saying that the rape victim deserved it because she wore a mini-skirt, you would be wrong. I am saying that the really sad situation is that a grown person, grown people would continually put themselves in a position to be used by this guy. That is the real problem. Said my peace on this and I'm done now. My Inbox is always open and I read all my messages even if I am mad with the person who sent it. Steel
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