MasterDarkSadist -> RE: Examples of 24/7...descriptions of 24/7 (4/8/2009 4:22:56 PM)
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Preface: Everyone has to find what works for them, with regards to how they operate on a daily basis. What I describe is only how I operate when I have a collared slave. It may or may not be how you operate once you have become acclimated to living it (if you choose to). I give my slave general responsibilities; dishes, laundry, etc. I make sure that they are not so onerous that she won't be able to do them, but I make sure to have her serve me (the girls I tend to be with are highly service oriented, yours may not be). Some other things I do are (and this is my whole thing; a slave is just that....property); she has a curfew, is responsible for letting me know her whereabouts if she is not at home, I have ultimate say in who she is accompanied by, how much money she has to spend, correcting incorrect behavior, how she dresses, when she wakes up/goes to bed, etc. This might all sound like it is hugely micromanaging, however again, the girls I would take as a slave thrive on such structure. Most are submissives (which is not a bad thing), not slaves (IMHO). Many dominants would not enjoy owning a slave, as they don't want to be responsible for someone on the level owning a slave requires. I guess what I am saying is this; know thy self! If you don't know who you are, and haven't conducted a deep degree of introspection, then you need to take a step back and really decide who you are, and after you figure that out, decide what kind of girl to pursue. You cannot make a sub a slave, and you can't make a slave a sub. It is a core personality, and neither of you will be happy if you do try to alter that. Furthermore, you have to realize that what the above posters have said is very true. Most of your time will appear very vanilla, only with a higher degree of power exchange. It isn't all fun and games, and it isn't all glamorous.
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