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SnowRanger -> A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 6:34:46 PM)

Hello A/all,

Sometime back there was a question about vaginal penetration as a part of female dominant sex play.  The question was more geared to whether or not mistresses found it important; however, it seemed to spawn a discussion of whether "penetration" was a dominant act.

With that in mind, I'd like to propose a new term for your consideration... envelop or envelopment.  This has been a stratagem for conquest since Hannibal.  I recall a Cheech and Chong skit (T.W.A.T Tactical Women's Assault Team) that illustrates my point.  In this skit, the vagina "beats" the penis.

Rather than say that, "He penetrated her."  We could say, "She enveloped him."  I realize the truth that the mistress is the one commiting the dominant act.  I just think that we need a different word to express it.

Just a thought,
Mike
SnowRanger




LAgirlsub -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 6:44:59 PM)

SnowRanger...interesting idea. Personally I'm all for it.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 6:45:11 PM)

What's wrong with "I fucked him"?





DavanKael -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 8:22:21 PM)

Well, dreamerdreaming, when I say "I fucked him", usually there is a strap-on involved but yeah, that would work for the more standard forms as well.  :> 
Enveloped has nice artistic flair. 
  Davan




DomineK -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 8:55:42 PM)

I'm a fan...

Also good:

"I used him for my pleasure"
"I had my way with him"
"I rode him"
"He was my fuck toy"
"I used his cock to get myself off"
"My slave's cock belongs to me, why wouldn't I use it?"
"He had no choice but to stay hard as I took him"




Vendaval -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/9/2009 9:40:19 PM)

I took a pony ride!




HeavansKeeper -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 2:58:46 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DomineK

I'm a fan...

Also good:

"I used him for my pleasure"
"I had my way with him"
"I rode him"
"He was my fuck toy"
"I used his cock to get myself off"
"My slave's cock belongs to me, why wouldn't I use it?"
"He had no choice but to stay hard as I took him"


While I'm all for women making semantics reflect the role they took in sex, I'm specifically turned off by the term "she enveloped him" (Same goes for engulfed). While I have no problem with crudity (as seen beautifully above) those two "en" words give me terrible mental imagery. "Enveloped" makes me think of a goo-monster absorbing a male and digesting him. Engulf... Well lets just say "She CLEARLY gets around" comes to mind. But I'm the sort of guy who rolls his eyes at any woman who refers to her vagina as "my flower". Ugh. God I hate high-school poetry.

I find the whole issue of semantics about how the sex happened to be quite fruitless. It's like when people specify "No.. I dumped HIM.

If I know a dominant woman and she is discussing vaginal sex, I assume she had her way. It goes without saying.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 6:28:56 AM)

SnowRanger, I've been using that imagery for years!  Nothing like bringing up atavistic visuals of the vagina dentata, either... [:)]




malloves69 -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 6:29:37 AM)

she fucked me good with her strapon works for me [:)] gawd knows she did and it felt great [:)] after she was done fucking me out went the strapon and in went her fist [:)] that first time she slides in and enters me with her fist i just love that feeling [:)] and once shes inside my prostate is totally at her mercy until shes done milking me ...see she loves watching me drip out cum from my cock from her touch as she massages my prostate [:)]who am i to stop her ? love strapon play and being fisted [:)] have fun enjoy mal




YoursMistress -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 6:33:03 AM)

If you want to take the "penis" out of "penetrated", so to speak, perhaps the word you're looking for is "vagitrated."

yours




DelilahDeb -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 12:20:13 PM)

She surrounded him. She seized him. She clenched him.

You haven't been reading nearly enough of the better and hotter romance novels. [;)]




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 3:16:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming
What's wrong with "I fucked him"?
Because they never know if you're about jump on them or come at the them with the big strap on.  

quote:

SnowRanger  
Rather than say that, "He penetrated her."  We could say, "She enveloped him."  I realize the truth that the mistress is the one commiting the dominant act.  I just think that we need a different word to express it.
Just a thought,
Mike
SnowRanger
I like it Mike...   Of course I never objected to phuck when I said it either, but I'm flexible like that. [8D]   M




DVsFox -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 7:54:33 PM)

I just think it's a little sexist to assume that just because the penis penetrates the vagina, that it's some sort of scary thing that we have to rename.  It kind of inadvertently gives too much power to phallocentric thinking.  It implies that there must be some sort of truth to penetration being inherently dominant(though I know the OP doesn't believe that).  It's a well-meaning idea, I just don't really agree with it personally.

That being said...  It's certainly cool/interesting that there are so many euphemisms out there. :-p

DV's Fox




dreamerdreaming -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 8:03:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DVsFox

I just think it's a little sexist to assume that just because the penis penetrates the vagina, that it's some sort of scary thing that we have to rename.  It kind of inadvertently gives too much power to phallocentric thinking.  It implies that there must be some sort of truth to penetration being inherently dominant(though I know the OP doesn't believe that).  It's a well-meaning idea, I just don't really agree with it personally.

That being said...  It's certainly cool/interesting that there are so many euphemisms out there. :-p

DV's Fox



Exactly, thank you. "Fucked" is unisex.

Works for me.





SylvereApLeanan -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 8:07:50 PM)

~FR~
 
I'm partial to "I fucked him" or "he serviced me" depending on whether I did the deed myself or gave directions for it to be done.  Either way, I'm always the one in control.  I don't need euphemisms to maintain my dominance.




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/10/2009 8:16:22 PM)

quote:

I just think it's a little sexist to assume that just because the penis penetrates the vagina, that it's some sort of scary thing that we have to rename.  It kind of inadvertently gives too much power to phallocentric thinking.  It implies that there must be some sort of truth to penetration being inherently dominant
Good point!   [:D]  M




masmiss -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/12/2009 6:42:41 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

~FR~
 
I'm partial to "I fucked him" or "he serviced me" depending on whether I did the deed myself or gave directions for it to be done.  Either way, I'm always the one in control.  I don't need euphemisms to maintain my dominance.


Coudn't agree more.  Whether I "fuck" or direct to "be fucked".  I'm in control.




SunNMoon -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/12/2009 7:49:29 AM)

I always go with, "we fucked" or "we had sex." If I have to be a little more direct I use "I fucked him." But then again, I like the word.




Lockit -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/12/2009 10:52:52 AM)

For the most part I don't care what you call it... just do it! Now! Now works for me...




MissEnchanted -> RE: A new word for the FemDom vocabulary (4/15/2009 9:13:52 PM)

Snow Range,

Envelop e.... I like it!
Brings to mind things that fit juuuust right. [:D]




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