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LadyHibiscus wrote: Do any of these "extreme dominas" exist in real life?

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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

I think people that have seen me post know I don't flame on the boards, I don't know if it's fact of the early morning hour and I can't sleep to my allegies being bad, and I apologise in advance to all that read this, but I read your post, which prompted me to read your profile, well as much as I could stomach any way, and all I can say is you're an ass.

Just who do you think you are?  You string some poor girl along, blaming her because you don't have the balls to break up with her (because she throws herself at you and is so nice), and oh yeah, "she's" insecure, then you meet a Domme, who you probably wasn't honest with in the first place regarding your situation, and you blame her, for you two not being together, because you said "she" was insecure, mainly because she didn't take charge and help you cheat and fix your life,  um....how about she didn't follow through with you because you HAVE A GIRLFRIEND???

Reality, you just don't want to be alone, so you want to overlap women.  As others have said it's all about you and what you want and screw everyone else, you couldn't care less who you hurt as long as you are taken care of.   You b.s. and say you can't break up with her because she's so nice, no...you don't break up with her because you don't want to be alone, because of said "perfect" Domme came along, I'm sure those long lost words would come spilling out of your mouth.  And how dare you blame those women because "you" are not happy.  You know who has to make you happy?  YOU. 

If you are not happy with your girlfriend, grow a pair, and let her go so she can find "her" TRUE one of her dreams....yes sweetie, other people besides you have dreams.  And what is all this bull crap about true, genuine, real....lemme guess, anyone that won't do exactly what you want is not those things?

THEN do research on actual Domme/sub situations, if you can live with it, go and find a Domme who "you" can compliment.  If you just wanted to be regarded as a total piece of crap, the I would suggest a pro, they do not get emotionally attached.   I would not have someone in my house, and in my life in any role, be it slave, parent, D/s, vanilla or whatever that I didn't respect and trust. 

And believe it or not, somewhere in that self absorbed body you do have feelings or at least I hope so....say you are with a Domme for a while, you can't tell me you won't get attached, but guess what? if she didn't respect you and treated you like a piece of furniture after a while you get tired of that furniture and want to redecorate...she would kick you out, no warning, no place to live, then where would you be?  And you can't tell me by that time you wouldn't have feelings for her...then I guess just too bad huh?  I've talked to subs/slaves before, they have been with Dommes five years or more and one day they are just told to pack and get out.  And these guys were in a loving relationship with their Dommes, but for one reason or another the Domme decided they didn't want the lifestyle any longer, so they are just uncerimoniously kicked out...and usually with no explaination.

If you want lack of respect....you have it in abundance here.  You want to be a man, take charge of your life and realistically find a mate for yourself, then do just that.   Get out of your situtation, become free and clear.  Then get out of the mirror and admiring how "handsome" you are, find some humility, rewrite that sorry profile of yours, and mean it....and find someone.

Slaves/subs are strong men.  Confident in their path that they chose to take.  Not some wimpy wishy washy doormat, that can't think for himself.  You have to get your life in order and not depend on someone else to do it for you.  Bottom line, YOU have to stop being insecure and clean up your mess before you can start a new relationship.  YOU have to fix your life before you can bring someone else into it.

"climbs off soapbox"........I"m going back to bed.  Sorry again folks for the tirade, guess I'm just not a morning person....lol

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ORIGINAL: hurtmeloveu

There are not many of you out there. You do not turn your dominance on and off.

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ORIGINAL: hurtmeloveu

\. My question is, does a woman such as you respect a man more who goes out and works for a living over one who is your full time slave? I am particularly interested in a response from the harsher, female supremist type dominatrixes. My reason is ultimately that I would one day wish to serve a woman like that. Does she even have any respect for the slave or is he totally to be used. Remember please that I would be very interested in a reponse from a very harsh dominatrix.

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i think people need to get real. i mean does anyone with a rational mind choose not to work. i d say very few. most are not given the choice. its the same old story when times get tough the workers are ditched from their jobs. they dont choose to be ditched. they are. By unscrupulous employers
just my two cent
kevin

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Just... wow, DJ. 
I suspect that your post might disappear, but I hope the OP reads it first. While not "nice", it's what needed to be said.
Well done.

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Just... wow, DJ. 
I suspect that your post might disappear, but I hope the OP reads it first. While not "nice", it's what needed to be said.
Well done.

I hope to hell that post stays *claps*  it needs a standing ovation, not removal.

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lobodomslavery wrote:
its the same old story when times get tough the workers are ditched from their jobs. they dont choose to be ditched. they are. By unscrupulous employers