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dreamerdreaming -> RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation (4/10/2009 4:53:07 PM)
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Since my two major kinks are control and humiliation, I sometimes wonder why so many people here just don't seem to "get" it. I had a lot more patience with that when I first joined CM a few years ago- YKINMK, after all. Different strokes for different folks. But lately there's a thread started by one of you just about daily, or at least it seems so.
Is the search feature here really so hard to use? Its up at the right corner of the screen, on the boards.
Any of the previous threads will tell you that its very individual. What may be yummy humiliation to my slaveboy may be a hard limit for someone else.
I refer you to my journal, for specifics about mine and my slaveboy's taste in humiliation, for example.
Also, I make a distinction between humiliation and degradation. My kind of humiliation is done to lift up my boy- never to put him down. There are those whose kink is degradation.
Bottom line: get to know your sub and what kind of humiliation if any, they like.
For some people, any kind of humiliation at all is a hard limit. Humiliation should be specifically tailored for your individual sub, otherwise it won't work, and may backfire.
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