MadameMarque
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Yes, certainly that's the G (G is for Graffenberg)-spot. The reason you're not finding it evident until after a woman is definitely aroused, is because it becomes engorged with sexual excitement. The reason others are talking about curving their finger(s) upward, in order to contact the G-spot, is because the woman is facing them, and they are pressing the inner anterior wall of the vagina, whereas you are positioning yourself behind the woman, as she faces away from you, and then pressing forward. It is common for women to have varying degrees of sensitivity, when stimulated directly on the G-spot, especially before it becomes aroused and after orgasm. Of course, people are very individual in their physical response. According to how the partners are positioned, there may be the additional benefit of clitoral stimulation, the labia, the mons - if penetrated deeply enough, the cervix may be contacted. If the woman is lying face down, legs spread, she's probably also getting clitoral stimulation against the surface she's laying on, as she moves her hips. The release of female ejaculation can feel similar to urination - although it is not urine - so if her bladder's empty, she may feel safe to relax the muscles that normally squeeze off the flow of urine. If a woman's bladder is empty and she relaxes the PC muscles during orgasm, then stimulation of the G-spot along with light pressure on the lower belly, often encourages ejaculation. Though, as M (BlkTallFullfig) seems to have noticed, it can get very wet and messy!
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