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New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 7:56:15 AM

susie

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On some of the chat sites I visit I am always amazed at some of the people that contact me. Most make me giggle, some annoy, some become good friends. Today was the best as I have been educated in the rules of bdsm. Perhaps I missed out on all the classes along the way because I never knew this:

" I think you need to reconsider who you are, if you are in a BDSm relationship, you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise. The rules of BDSm are clear about this."

So......... did I miss the big rule book somewhere along the line?
The guy must be some Master

I never thought chat sites could be so entertaining!

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 9:15:47 AM

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Shame, shame! You obviously don't have a copy of the Complete Rules of BDSM. This matter is covered on page 238 under Rule 963(b)(i). According to Rule 534(c), failure to know this means you get a flogging.

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 9:46:14 AM

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quote:

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Shame, shame! You obviously don't have a copy of the Complete Rules of BDSM. This matter is covered on page 238 under Rule 963(b)(i). According to Rule 534(c), failure to know this means you get a flogging.

Hey woopeee

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 9:50:49 AM

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Wait....theres a Rule Book??? *blushes*

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 9:56:23 AM

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If there's a rule book, does it provide guidelines for keeping score?

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:08:50 AM

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What I like about this rule is the lil loop hole with the woman part... okay to find another woman...(blue and red) But wth is with the reconsider who you are? (Weird green) I am sure that according the the slave book constitution... this could be thrown out in court... but must say I am not a lawyer.

" I think you need to reconsider who you are, if you are in a BDSm relationship, you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise. The rules of BDSm are clear about this."

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:11:29 AM

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i should love to find a copy of this rule book. Maybe it will tell me about the rules of how to "properly" address a "Dom" so that he doesn't get his panties in a twist when i don't call him Sir, Master, Daddy or Raven Lord Dragon Slayer of the Universe after five minutes of talking with him online...

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:12:52 AM

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:13:57 AM

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:23:05 AM

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The light dawns! So this is where the idea comes from that he can have many, and his sub can find a woman too.
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quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

" I think you need to reconsider who you are, if you are in a BDSm relationship, you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise.

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:25:21 AM

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I would of been like, thank you for so generously trying to show me the rules you work under, but it's my relationship and the only "rules" there are, are the ones we make for our relationship, not rules someone online tells me there is.

quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

On some of the chat sites I visit I am always amazed at some of the people that contact me. Most make me giggle, some annoy, some become good friends. Today was the best as I have been educated in the rules of bdsm. Perhaps I missed out on all the classes along the way because I never knew this:

" I think you need to reconsider who you are, if you are in a BDSm relationship, you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise. The rules of BDSm are clear about this."

So......... did I miss the big rule book somewhere along the line?
The guy must be some Master I never thought chat sites could be so entertaining!

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:26:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

i should love to find a copy of this rule book. Maybe it will tell me about the rules of how to "properly" address a "Dom" so that he doesn't get his panties in a twist when i don't call him Sir, Master, Daddy or Raven Lord Dragon Slayer of the Universe after five minutes of talking with him online...

Blimey is that what you are supposed to call them? Guess this guy didn't like it when I called him a "tosser with half a brain" then. Gotta get me a copy of that there rule book.

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 12:24:42 PM

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To be the devil's advocate...

If there is a unified ethics, then there is a unified rule book. It would provide the basic principles which govern ideal human interaction, less so specifics on how events play out.

Until humans decide on unified ethics, I'll continue in conditional statements.
If you feel a dominant and a submissive are equal, balanced parts of a system, then the freedoms of one extend to the freedoms of the other. If one has the right to walk out and leave, so does the other.

If the dominant has the right to seek out other fuckbunnies, and the submissive doesn't, they are not equal in this capacity, and hence, not equals in the relationship. One has more rights than others. (Which is fine, people can volunteer to be unequal with no ethical quandary - nor does it make any involved parties evil).

A less heated example, if the dominant has the right to sleep in until noon and the submissive must be up at 8:00 a.m., then those two are not equals in this capacity.

My point is that basic principles can be extrapolated to rules. The funny guy Susie quotes is right, in my eyes... He just should have made his conditional statement lucid and properly articulated. Here's what would have been more bland, but more accurate.

"Assuming you view D and s as equals, if you are in a BDSm relationship, then you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise. The rules of reason are clear about this."

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 1:17:36 PM

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Great thing about chatting on the internet, you meet all kinds. As for that rule book, I'm writing as fast as I can.

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 2:02:24 PM

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So that's why Master said I could have a girlfriend if I wanted one!!

All makes sense now

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 3:09:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

On some of the chat sites I visit I am always amazed at some of the people that contact me. Most make me giggle, some annoy, some become good friends. Today was the best as I have been educated in the rules of bdsm. Perhaps I missed out on all the classes along the way because I never knew this:

" I think you need to reconsider who you are, if you are in a BDSm relationship, you have equal rights, so if your master has rights to find a woman, you have likewise. The rules of BDSm are clear about this."

So......... did I miss the big rule book somewhere along the line?
The guy must be some Master I never thought chat sites could be so entertaining!

YOu missed the rule book

I have been hiding it in a hole in my backyard

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 4:16:47 PM

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i knew chat sites were entertaining, just didn't realise they were so enlightening too!

What a pompous twat, reconsider who you are indeed, i should coco! Who gave him the right to ride roughshod over the dynamics of others fer fuck's sake?

Yes, i have that equal right, it was negotiated between us from the get go, the rule book wasn't consulted at any stage, if it had been the table would have wobbled again, and we didn't need that.

< Message edited by pinkwind -- 4/13/2009 4:17:44 PM >

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 9:23:09 PM

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The Rule Book "Learn of the skilful. He who teaches himself, has a fool for a Master." ~Benjamin Franklin

http://www.knotbound.com/rule.htm

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/13/2009 10:32:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pompeii

The Rule Book "Learn of the skilful. He who teaches himself, has a fool for a Master." ~Benjamin Franklin

http://www.knotbound.com/rule.htm

Oh man, i know so many "Doms" who say that they have dozens of years of experience and yet it's only life experience and what they read in books. Grr.

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RE: New BDSM Rules - 4/14/2009 3:22:44 AM

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I showed my Miss the rule book, and she smacked me in the head with it!

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