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Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 10:37:43 AM

RealSub58

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I was just thinking about where I usually find myself on the forum boards.
I sort of have pattern when I come. . . .
1. General BDSM
2. Ask a Master
3. Ask a sub or slave

I venture to the off topic areas or the health and safety forums when I am bored with the 3 above.

Do you have a pattern as a sub/slave?

I sometimes respond on "Ask a Master" and when I do I feel almost apologetic that I am not a dom as folk ask questions directed to a dom.

What about you, subs/slaves, why do you respond on Ask a Master and do you even come to Ask a sub/slave on a regular basis. I also see posters in the off topic discussions who I have noticed rarely post any where else.

It's interesting, to me, for sure. Maybe not anyone else.

Probably a sleeper, but I was thinking about it. Any takers?

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 10:42:54 AM

alianora

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I generally start reading at the top, and work my way down to the bottom; very rarely do I deviate from this.

As for why I post in some sections ( like the Ask a Master ); if a question interests me, I answer it, no matter who it is directed at.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:25:24 AM

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I don't post often, but I read every board from the bottom up.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:33:43 AM

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i usually come to ask a sub/slave from there i willi veture usually to ask a Mistress ask a Master. I usually only post in ask a sub/slave. if i think i can add something to the topic i would post in other fourms also.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:38:44 AM

camille65

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I post all over the place lol. At first I felt out of place in forums that were not directly related to my being submissive.. then I figured that was silly because there is no way that people here can truly know what I am!

I do try and stay polite but if I have a question.. I post it. If I think I may have something to offer, I post that too. I like not being limited to one section of the forums, if there were rules about not posting in certain sections I probably wouldn't stay at the site. I am curious about a lot of things, about differing views and experiences. There are a lot of things I don't know about and then there are my weird questions, things I can't exactly ask people I know but need an answer to. Like the one I am about to post in Health heh.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:42:31 AM

IrishMist

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I post everywhere; if a topic seems interesting, I post on it.
Generally though, I will always go to the Gorean boards first. I like talking to the young ladies there

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:48:01 AM

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I'm like shit...all over the place.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:49:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

I'm like shit...all over the place.

i am all over the place too Mike...but i prefer the "gum on the bottom of your shoe" analogy

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 11:55:22 AM

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I usually come to the boards to see if there are replies to something I have posted. After that I generally go to whatever interests me from the scroll at the top of the home page. It's a mild aggravation that the scroll sometimes takes me away before I've caught up on the postings of whatever thread I'm on.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 12:30:07 PM

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I start at the top and work my way down, I skip the gorean forum as it holds no interest for me, sometimes I peek into the poly forum but not often at all. I answer on any forum in which I have had experience and/or education in.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 12:46:16 PM

Bstardsbitch

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I, like others start at the top and work down, taking a brief look at gorean and poly lifestyles. Rarely will I add anything, but you never know what you can learn around these parts, even if the forum is not really me, such as gorean and poly.
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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 12:47:59 PM

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I go to the majority of the forums, excluding gorean and poly. If something interests me I will post.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 1:21:21 PM

Bstardsbitch

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The variety of people lol
I too have no interest in Gor or poly relationships, yet am often suprised at the thoughts provoked from either forum.
We're all different, yet the same................if you know what I mean lol
x

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 4:10:26 PM

whiteslavebitch

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RealSub58

I was just thinking about where I usually find myself on the forum boards.
I sort of have pattern when I come. . . .
1. General BDSM
2. Ask a Master
3. Ask a sub or slave

I venture to the off topic areas or the health and safety forums when I am bored with the 3 above.

Do you have a pattern as a sub/slave?

I sometimes respond on "Ask a Master" and when I do I feel almost apologetic that I am not a dom as folk ask questions directed to a dom.

What about you, subs/slaves, why do you respond on Ask a Master and do you even come to Ask a sub/slave on a regular basis. I also see posters in the off topic discussions who I have noticed rarely post any where else.

It's interesting, to me, for sure. Maybe not anyone else.

Probably a sleeper, but I was thinking about it. Any takers?

Yeah, that's pretty much my pattern when I log on. When there's not much new on the first three forums you have listed, I'll check out off topic, alternative lifestyles in the news, etc. I will respond to any post in any forum if I have something to add.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 5:23:56 PM

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I start here and then look through the general forum. Ask a Master less frequently, and the other forums usually only if a post in the scroll at the top of the page catches my attention or a search leads me there.

I've appreciated the D point of view on the few questions I've asked in this forum, so wouldn't think twice about replying there if I had anything to contribute.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 6:01:21 PM

igor2003

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I come into CM from the other side and read any Cmail I mught have and look to see if there are any new or interesting profiles to look at. From there I just watch the screen scroll by and if there is a topic that catches my attention I will look into it. I ususlly choose to avoid Gor, Poly, and Ask a Mistress, though will still look into them if the topic sounds interesting. I'll answer most any topic if I think I have anything pertenant to say.

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 6:04:08 PM

Missokyst

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I read and post on
General, Ask a Master, Ask a Submissive/Slave, and occasionally Health and Safety.
I read Alternative Lifestyles in the News and sometimes off topic. I only post in Off topic if a post that got my attention was moved to that spot.
I never touch Poly or Gor. LOL well.. not after accidentally wandering in there one day. Some things you just KNOW are not for you!
Kyst

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/16/2009 6:44:22 PM

chamberqueen

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I am currently a slave but used to be a Domme. I like to check out the Ask a Mistress section because I still have valid advice I can give.

My normal order is:

Ask a Master (because there are often interesting topics)
Ask a Mistress
Ask a Sub
Ask a Switch
Poly

I answer under all categories because I like to be helpful. Subs will often post on the Master or Mistress board looking for an answer to a burning question, and frankly I think that sometimes subs/slaves understand each other better than a Master or Mistress that does not know their background. (That is only a generalization, but I have seen that slaves can do wonders for each other because of their understanding of the depth of what is being given.)

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/17/2009 4:55:01 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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fast reply

i stay away from 2 sections here - Gor (don't understand them and their ways ...nor do i want to) and Poly. otherwise and depending on my mood, i'm all over this place. these days i'm the reading the politics/religion section

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RE: Which forums and possibly why - 4/17/2009 5:28:38 AM

Kana

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General BDSM
Ask a Master
Ask a Slave
Ask a mistress (don't ask me why, maybe it's my inner voyuer)
And the occasioanl pop in on random polls and stupidity

Plus, and I hate to admit it, I am a victim of advertising.
If I'm on the other side and I see an interesting topic I am sure to click on it and check out the thread

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