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75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 4:25:13 PM   
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The wedding business is feeling the pinch in the recession and at the same time, divorce rates are down.


"Love in the time of recession"
- Allison Louie-Garcia


" The $60 billion a year wedding industry is hurting as much as the rest of the economy, according to a recent Bloomberg article. And with couples spending an average of 24% less on tying the knot than in '07, they are scaling back on everything from the number of guests to meal selections to flowers. A recent survey done by David's Bridal entitled "What’s on Brides' Minds" reports that 75% of weddings are being downsized in order to save money.

Sandra Chavez, who is getting married in September in Pleasanton, Calif. told Fox News:

"I would be embarrassed to spend thousands and thousands of dollars when people are losing their jobs, homes, cars etc. We understand that this is just one night."
But what happens after that night? The recession is making its mark on marriages, too ... but in somewhat surprising ways.

It's not surprising that a slumping economy puts a strain on most marriages; it's common knowledge that financial stress is one of the top causes of divorce. But according to a recent article in Yahoo! Finance, 37% of matrimonial lawyers report seeing a decrease in divorcing couples during economic downturns. The reason, the article posits, is because getting a divorce is the "worst thing you can do financially."


"Attorney fees and court costs compete with setting up a second household as the largest expense in a divorce. A simple divorce can cost $5,000 to $25,000 in attorney fees and court costs while the average complex divorce runs $20,000 to $100,000, says Bruce Hughes, an attorney and certified public accountant in Tustin, Calif." "

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ynews/ynews_bs304

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 4:35:15 PM   
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weddings have gone way out of proportion as far as the money spent on them and the "can you top this" mentality when it comes to planning.  why spend all that money only to start life together broke?  hell some folks are still paying off the wedding after the ink on their divorce decree is dried.  why bother?  a small wedding, a small reception, pocket any cash to start the nest egg and pray for the best.  as for the divorce rate, it's cheaper to stay together. 
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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 4:44:08 PM   
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Too true.  I know couples who were still paying off the wedding a few years later, and already heading for divorce. 

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 4:53:14 PM   
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I never had a 'proper' wedding because I don't want all of the pomp and frills associated with one. I'll take a clearance dress over a new one any day (was $160, got it for $22 at Dillards in Orleans years ago) and it has to be purple...LOL!

No fancy cake, no candles and flowers. I will get married in my style and will not have to put myself into debt for a day of thrills and frills.

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 5:26:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

The wedding business is feeling the pinch in the recession and at the same time, divorce rates are down.


"Love in the time of recession"
- Allison Louie-Garcia


" The $60 billion a year wedding industry is hurting as much as the rest of the economy, according to a recent Bloomberg article. And with couples spending an average of 24% less on tying the knot than in '07, they are scaling back on everything from the number of guests to meal selections to flowers. A recent survey done by David's Bridal entitled "What’s on Brides' Minds" reports that 75% of weddings are being downsized in order to save money.

Sandra Chavez, who is getting married in September in Pleasanton, Calif. told Fox News:

"I would be embarrassed to spend thousands and thousands of dollars when people are losing their jobs, homes, cars etc. We understand that this is just one night."
But what happens after that night? The recession is making its mark on marriages, too ... but in somewhat surprising ways.

It's not surprising that a slumping economy puts a strain on most marriages; it's common knowledge that financial stress is one of the top causes of divorce. But according to a recent article in Yahoo! Finance, 37% of matrimonial lawyers report seeing a decrease in divorcing couples during economic downturns. The reason, the article posits, is because getting a divorce is the "worst thing you can do financially."


"Attorney fees and court costs compete with setting up a second household as the largest expense in a divorce. A simple divorce can cost $5,000 to $25,000 in attorney fees and court costs while the average complex divorce runs $20,000 to $100,000, says Bruce Hughes, an attorney and certified public accountant in Tustin, Calif." "

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ynews/ynews_bs304


My ex is a wedding coordinator (her new husband is also in the industry).

It hurts me to know she's suffering any kind of financial pain (but I will get over it................okay....I'm over it now).



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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 6:10:08 PM   
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This is great news, and hopefully the trend will continue for a few more years....why?.....cuz I have two daughters who (as it currently appears) will be getting married in the next 2-3 years.  

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 6:28:03 PM   
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thank goodness i have all boys!

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 9:25:07 PM   
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quote:

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A simple divorce can cost $5,000 to $25,000 in attorney fees and court costs while the average complex divorce runs $20,000 to $100,000, says Bruce Hughes, an attorney and certified public accountant in Tustin, Calif." "




       Still cheaper than lawyers for the defense...

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 9:33:39 PM   
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I think it is so STUPID to have these over the top weddings to one up each other. Also take into account if you graduated from college and are paying off your student loan and to also spend ludiricrious
amounts of money on a wedding. The dress alone is only worn for what 2 hours or more. It is never used again unless your daughter wants to wear it in the future...

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/17/2009 9:44:43 PM   
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       Traditionally, isn't the bride's father/family supposed to pay for the wedding?  A lot of people had way too much of their savings in the stock market.

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/18/2009 4:38:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne
I will get married in my style and will not have to put myself into debt for a day of thrills and frills.


Hubby and I spent about $200 on our wedding, including the license, rings and dinner for the wedding party (my daughter, her friend, and my then-infant grandson).  I wore my favorite jeans and sweater.  Hubby wore his fancy cowboy shirt.  We took a long lunch hour on a Monday and went back to work for the rest of the day when we were done.  The court administrator who performed the ceremony was so danged thrilled about it.  Apparently no one gets married on Monday morning, so this was a treat for him.  That made it a lot more fun for us, too.  The ladies I work with were appalled that we weren't making more of a thing of it - we didn't tell anyone about it, just went and did it - so they ordered a cake and put together a little reception for us the following day.  It was really wonderful. 

This really was everything I ever wanted in a wedding and more.  When I was a teenager, my friends were dreaming about big white dresses with long trains and fancy receptions and luxurious honeymoons.  I did not see myself in that picture at all.  I was dreaming about a quickie wedding in Las Vegas.  I don't care for gambling and big-city stuff much, so this lunch-hour wedding was absolutely perfect.


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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/18/2009 5:11:10 AM   
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MmeGigs, TheEngineer and i got married on a monday morning, too. 

neither of us bought new clothes, although we did dress nicely for that trip to the courthouse.   no reception afterwards, just a drive from texarkana to baton rouge.  and for some silly reason, the fact that we *are* married is a lot more important to us than the cost of the ceremony and all its trimmings.

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/18/2009 5:43:59 AM   
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If I had it to do over again, I would skip the wedding and go to Jamaica.    I could have used that $3,000 for the retainer fee for my lawyer in my divorce.
Divorce equals equity where everyone loses big.
 
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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/18/2009 9:59:40 AM   
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never had the wedding i wanted with my ex however with my pet, i'm planning a intimate ceremony and small dinner reception for August 2010.

to cut costs, i'm keeping my guest list small and picking a date that's on a Sunday.  i've discovered having it on an off-day (Friday or Sunday) saves you some money than having it on a Saturday with many venues/hotels.

a lot of wedding vendors especially in video/photography are slashing their "normal" prices

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RE: 75% of weddings being downsized - 4/18/2009 10:18:35 AM   
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Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. 

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