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Being served by a few slaves - 4/17/2009 10:02:45 PM   
subslut2409


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for your interest.  I must admit that this topic is a fantasy of mine, and I'm partially looking for validation of such things.

I've fantasized about serving a dominant female alongside a few other slaves for a while now.  I'm sure there are many scenarios involving one Domme and a few slaves, but from what I've read on here, it seems like a mostly submissive desire rather than a dominant one.

My question is, Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well?  It would seem to me that being served by a few slaves would be fun for her, but I've read enough posts to know that my idea of what dominant women desire is way off from reality most of the time.  If this isn't something many dominant women like, what is it about this scene that is undesirable?

Thanks again for the input.
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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/17/2009 10:18:36 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		This one is a double edged sword.  No matter how I put it, I leave myself and others open for more discription of the fantasy.  Shut up Lockit!

Slave's can be a lot of work... I see a nightmare of what is expected by all those slaves!  It's not like they are all going to clean house, repair the car, garden and all that.  I see more of them surrounding me in a hell of fingers and moving lips trying to polish me... euwww spit... and me wanting to swat them away like flies.

Now if it is a beach, they serve food and drink and fan me with palms, keep the flying critters off me and massage on command and then all go away except the one I might like to play with later... okay.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 5:54:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit


Now if it is a beach, they serve food and drink and fan me with palms, keep the flying critters off me and massage on command and then all go away except the one I might like to play with later... okay.


*claps*  I LIKE that one Lockit

As much as I would like more than one slave, logistically, I don't have the room here. 

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 7:50:12 AM   
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My question is, Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well?


For me, the answer is -yes-. I do best with some variety, and, frankly, some people are better at some things than others. I believe strongly in encouraging peoples' development in the directions that best suit them, so, to me, it is a no-brainer to have a variety of servants, particularly developed in their own specializations, along with some newcomers and generalists to round out the scope -- This scenario, for me, also leaves the door open for greater exploration of the possibilities that exist within service/authority dynamics. Of course, I also don't see myself as a permanent fixture for anyone, so I suspect that the pool of individuals willing to be both part of a group -and- willing to accept that there will be no romantic or permanent station assured for them is abysmally small. *smiles* I'm willing to accept that graciously, and acknowledge that this means that my preferences will likely remain in the realms of fantasy as well.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 9:53:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subslut2409


I've fantasized about serving a dominant female alongside a few other slaves for a while now.  I'm sure there are many scenarios involving one Domme and a few slaves, but from what I've read on here, it seems like a mostly submissive desire rather than a dominant one.

My question is, Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well? 



Honestly, I don't know if it is humanly possible for one Woman to exercise prudent, competent management over more than 2 or 3 male servants at once.


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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 10:21:02 AM   
MadameMarque


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Status: offline 		I hope to have several men serving me.  I don't know about them all being slaves.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 10:59:36 AM   
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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 12:32:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subslut2409
I've fantasized about serving a dominant female alongside a few other slaves for a while now. 

My question is, Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well? 


Yes. 
 
I would love to have a huge Victorian house with a fully equipped dungeon and a staff of slaves to maintain it and the grounds, and to cater to my every whim.  There would be one slave or switch who is an "alpha" to keep everything organized and oversee the daily chores of the others.  The "first slave" would report directly to me and also be my personal assistant. 
 
Of course, in this lovely fantasy, all the slaves would be under 35, MENSA material, drop-dead gorgeous, and exquisitely masochistic.  But hey, a woman can dream, right?

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 12:36:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I've had more than one submissive or slave it was not rare for them to all be together with me at once or a few of them with me at once. Whenever they are with me, the expectation is that they will be serving in some capacity. What that capacity is, however, varies widely and most of the time does not look like an erotic fantasy because it is not sexual in nature.

Two slaves doing yardwork together is them serving me together.
Two slaves folding clothes is them serving me together.
Two slaves going with me to a munch or a convention is them serving me together.
Two slaves watching tv with me and fetching me more water when I want it is them serving me together.

Did your fantasies include that sort of stuff? That's everyday life in a 24/7 or TPE dynamic.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 12:55:46 PM   
Kaiel


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Status: offline 		I have had more than one slave at a time... however, only one was live in 24/7, the other was at My home several times per week. It worked well for a while, but eventually jealousy reared it's ugly head and one of My boys had to be dismissed.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 6:03:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ever have one of those topics that you wanted to answer sooooo bad, but knew what would happen to your CM mailbox if you did?  LOL.


Gulp....indeed!!!

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/18/2009 8:40:14 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i know of many who have more than 2 submissives and it worked well. for your fantasy does it last more than one night or is it for a long term thing. in that it is more a poly situation. in that there are many things to consider in that A/all of the participants have to be willing and accepting of each other.jealousy is a hard one to deal with. just think of any team of office staff and you get to see some of the complexity's of it, but while there are more considerations there are many returns as well. my M'Lady would like to have more than one sub in Her poly family, who and how they serve is something that would have to be worked out.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/19/2009 8:13:30 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Milady loves it.  There are tasks both mundane and sexual that one man can't do alone.  She likes the sensation of drowning in massaging hands and worshipping tongues.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/19/2009 10:07:11 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I am pondering rebuilding my little family, and I always think about compatibility when I talk to a new man.  Will they get along?  Do they like the same things?  It's hard to manage, even  though my guys are often doing the kind of thing Tammyjo's are---accompanying me places, helping me with tiresome tasks, that sort of thing.  Group scenes are fun too, but not the bulk of life.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/19/2009 11:56:54 AM   
MsDDom


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quote:

Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well?

...yes, and I am upfront about this desire as well.  While I am not looking for 5 to 10 boys, a comfortable number for me is 2 to 3.


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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/19/2009 6:02:25 PM   
DelilahDeb


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Milady loves it. There are tasks both mundane and sexual that one man can't do alone. She likes the sensation of drowning in massaging hands and worshipping tongues.


Agreed, slavekal. My favorite fantasy for self-indulgence (with a few adjustments to my prefs). Also, my subs have different skills mundanely to offer me; while my dungeon prefs are served differently by different subs.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/19/2009 6:50:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		My husband and I have agreed that what we really want is a quad composed of him, me, his girl, and my boy.  His girl agrees; there are things that I want a boy to do that either she is not oriented towards or is not able to do, and she understands that while I love her very much, it is much more of an elder wife to younger wife thing. We both know who is boss between the two of us, though.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/20/2009 6:04:29 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Recently, a long time friend of mine in this scene expressed a desire to serve Ms. Mlicious.  After many reassurances that our friendship will not suffer, I believe he is ready to take that plunge.  He bought her a very nice gift from her wish list before he went on vacation.  I hope that when he returns, he takes his place beside me in serving our lady.  There is so much more we could do for her together than I could do by myself.  It would make things a lot easier, anyway.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/21/2009 11:30:17 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		The difference between the fantasy and reality make the difference.  If mulitple men think of service and polishing my nails and getting their kink on with my feet and see nothing but sexual service... yeah right... then no thank you, not in this life time.

As for a poly family... I think about it and see some things in that as very appealing.

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RE: Being served by a few slaves - 4/21/2009 2:26:36 PM   
Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: subslut2409

Thank you all for your interest.  I must admit that this topic is a fantasy of mine, and I'm partially looking for validation of such things.

I've fantasized about serving a dominant female alongside a few other slaves for a while now.  I'm sure there are many scenarios involving one Domme and a few slaves, but from what I've read on here, it seems like a mostly submissive desire rather than a dominant one.

My question is, Is this something that dominant women actually desire as well?  It would seem to me that being served by a few slaves would be fun for her, but I've read enough posts to know that my idea of what dominant women desire is way off from reality most of the time.  If this isn't something many dominant women like, what is it about this scene that is undesirable?

Thanks again for the input.




I am curious why your profile doesn't state that you are seeking a Domme?

It states sub/switch women?




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