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The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 7:33:05 PM   
SweetlySexy


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Status: offline 		Hello, i have been given a task by my Mentor/Dom and was wondering if any of you could please give me some feedback.
I have been told to ask the other subs on here what their worst:

1)  punishments were
2)  tasks             "
3)  excitement...what turned you on that you thought wouldnt?  What turns you on the most?

Thank-you all for Your replies, it will help me alot as i step into my new life. 
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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 7:47:34 PM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: SweetlySexy

Hello, i have been given a task by my Mentor/Dom and was wondering if any of you could please give me some feedback.
I have been told to ask the other subs on here what their worst:

1)  punishments were
2)  tasks             "
3)  excitement...what turned you on that you thought wouldnt?  What turns you on the most?

Thank-you all for Your replies, it will help me alot as i step into my new life. 


1.  Worst punishment is when he takes my books away from me.  I'm addicted tor reading so this is an awful punishment.

2.  I don't mind washing clothes, but hate folding and putting them away.

3.  Sorry, I don't share those kinds of things. 

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 8:03:47 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		That's an interesting assignment you were given and I am sure that you will get a wide variety of answers.  I prefer not to share specifics but I can tell you the best piece of advice I've learned about going into a task that you are unsure of.  The fear up front is often many, many times worse than the actual act - especially if you have time to think about it.  That is where true trust in your Master comes in, knowing that he would never want you damaged physically or emotionally.

For me, no punishment is good because it means that I messed up.  I am a perfectionist and I tend to beat myself up emotionally when I have made a big enough mistake to need to be punished for it. 


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 8:44:21 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		for me the worst punishment is being ignored, left out, alone.
for the worst task that would be having to write on how i messed up and why it was wrong.
for me i get the most excitement from my M'Lady being happy and excited

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 8:51:36 PM   
BeIgnited


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Status: offline 		Out of curiosity what is it you're hoping to learn (or that your Mentor/Dom is hoping to teach you) from the responses?

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 8:53:18 PM   
catize


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That's an interesting assignment you were given and I am sure that you will get a wide variety of answers.  


Actually I was thinking its an interesting way to get wank-fodder. 
I’m cynical like that.


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 9:04:27 PM   
peppermint


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 9:23:27 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

quote:

That's an interesting assignment you were given and I am sure that you will get a wide variety of answers.  


Actually I was thinking its an interesting way to get wank-fodder. 
I’m cynical like that.



eh, it's not that interesting, I've seen better ways of getting wank material :)


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 10:11:13 PM   
SnowRanger


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/18/2009 11:30:19 PM   
kuriouswitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetlySexy

Hello, i have been given a task by my Mentor/Dom and was wondering if any of you could please give me some feedback.
I have been told to ask the other subs on here what their worst:

1)  punishments were
2)  tasks             "
3)  excitement...what turned you on that you thought wouldnt?  What turns you on the most?

Thank-you all for Your replies, it will help me alot as i step into my new life. 


1) worst punishments are; lectures, corner time, being "banished" to my mat for the night instead of being allowed to sleep in Master's bed
2) Worst tasks; laundry and a few other things that I dislike but are a bit more personal.
3) Excitement; traveling to see Master, the rest only Master and i need to know.

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 1:36:42 AM   
antipode


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as i step into my new life


I guess you stepped out already, no profile.. amazing, these one-way-traffic folks. I'll give what you give: nuttin'

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 3:44:49 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetlySexy

Hello, i have been given a task by my Mentor/Dom and was wondering if any of you could please give me some feedback.
I have been told to ask the other subs on here what their worst:

1)  punishments were
2)  tasks             "
3)  excitement...what turned you on that you thought wouldnt?  What turns you on the most?

Thank-you all for Your replies, it will help me alot as i step into my new life. 

First, welcome to the Forums.... :-)
 
And now it's all down hill from here....  What you have is a clueless "dom" too full of himself to admit he doesn't know shit about handling a sub so rather than be honest and upfront about it or leave his sacred basement and go experience life himself, he instead assigns said sub to go do research for him, thus creating the illusion he's in charge of you, afterall....
 
I'll take a wild stab and say you've never met him real/life?  I s'pose I could answer your questions but I'm just not in the habit of educating frauds in how to manipulate sincere but naive subs.  But you should stick around here; you'll learn a lot....
 
Focus.

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 3:52:27 AM   
masmiss


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And now it's all down hill from here....  What you have is a clueless "dom" too full of himself to admit he doesn't know shit about handling a sub so rather than be honest and upfront about it or leave his sacred basement and go experience life himself, he instead assigns said sub to go do research for him, thus creating the illusion he's in charge of you, afterall....
 
I'll take a wild stab and say you've never met him real/life?  I s'pose I could answer your questions but I'm just not in the habit of educating frauds in how to manipulate sincere but naive subs.  But you should stick around here; you'll learn a lot....
 
Focus.

Amen.


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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 3:57:53 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: antipode

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as i step into my new life


I guess you stepped out already, no profile.. amazing, these one-way-traffic folks. I'll give what you give: nuttin'

Ok, gimme a hint....  Exactly how is the presence of an active profile relevant to a question asked in the Forums?  Us regulars know it's an itch you can't scratch (you've posted these gripes before), otherwise if it was relevant, you wouldn't reply at all.
 
And speaking of not replying when called, you've got form there, too!  But *I* have a profile if you're game this one time....  *wink*
 
Focus.

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 6:17:06 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		We aren't in a punishment dynamic.
He isn't so sophmoric to try to think up things for me to do that I dislike intensely and therefore resent him for assigning and that wastes my time which could be spent doing better things.
Nor is he so clueless about my reactions that he needs someone else to figure out what he needs to do to arouse me.

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 6:27:00 AM   
Domin8tingUrDrmz


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Status: offline 		1.  It would probably be best for you to think about which things would seem most punishing for yourself, and share them with him.  It isn't punishment if you enjoy it.  But, punishment doesn't have to be corporal - instead, it can be discipline - a method of teaching you not to make the same mistake.  Therefore, if he chooses to make the discipline 'fit' the crime, you will more likely learn not to repeat the same mistake.  Other people's punishments might be fun for you, other people's fun might be torture for you.

2.  See number 1.  Replace the word punishment with the word task.  And edit the context to meet the situation.

3.  See number 2.  Replace the word task with the word excitement/arousal.

The hard part is being honest with yourself and sharing that knowledge with him. 

Good luck.


< Message edited by Domin8tingUrDrmz -- 4/19/2009 6:28:33 AM >

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 7:13:55 AM   
barelynangel


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Worst punishment is when he takes my books away from me. I'm addicted tor reading so this is an awful punishment.


My mom use to do this to me lol. I was grounded from reading. It was priceless the first time i told my teacher, i could no longer do my homework cause my mom grounded me from reading.

grins, i was a brat like that lol.

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 7:20:48 AM   
InTonguesslave


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Status: offline 		just asking, but why is it important to have an active profile - i mean, in the case of this one, she has a Master/mentor, so she isnt here to meet anyone, she's just here to pick up some ideas.

and, yes..., being ignored is the worst, next to the crop which i hate with a massive passion
filing in forms is the hardest
being indescreet in a woodland, its kinda tucked away but people do walk through it from time to time, scary but fun

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 10:35:31 AM   
RealSub58


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ORIGINAL: BeIgnited

Out of curiosity what is it you're hoping to learn (or that your Mentor/Dom is hoping to teach you) from the responses?

 

Completely agree !!
Ya know .... this has been discussed many times...
find the search key.... but then without a profile and
this is the first post under the screen name .......
 
me thinks fishing stinks

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RE: The Worst and the Best...... - 4/19/2009 11:24:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BeIgnited

Out of curiosity what is it you're hoping to learn (or that your Mentor/Dom is hoping to teach you) from the responses?


a question which will never be replied by the OP

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