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MHOO314 -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (1/31/2006 9:09:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MysticalPhoenix

One (of the many) reason why I like CM better than that other bdsm personals site is that nobody has yet sent me a picture of their penis.

Phoenix


Well that was like doing the voodoo curse backwards--watch it the flying circus is about to begin!




cloudboy -> RE: A Question (1/31/2006 9:32:12 PM)

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a site centered around BDSM, but the subject of the site is not sex


Hmmm, I wonder........is that a distinction without difference? (excluding no strings housework)




foxglove716 -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (1/31/2006 9:41:45 PM)

First off there is a world of difference between a nude photo and a cock shot. To me, a nude photo is a display of ones whole body and their whole sexuality. A cock shot is only emphasizing their immediate sexual desire and nothing else. Maybe Ironbear is right when he suggested advertizing. The men that do this probably watch those pornos where the man walks in, shows his cock, and the girl is practically cumming at the sight of this, and so the guy thinks this is the usual response. Bottom line, men are visual creatures.




RavenMuse -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (1/31/2006 10:00:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MysticalPhoenix
One (of the many) reason why I like CM better than that other bdsm personals site is that nobody has yet sent me a picture of their penis.


Thats quite some testimonial[:D]




perverseangelic -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (1/31/2006 10:15:06 PM)

I go semi-nude 'cause I like how the pictures look ;)

That and I tend toward fetish-y pictures for this site. They are genearally less clothed than I'd walk down the street in.

I use these pictures on other sites too though./




candystripper -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 2:39:05 AM)

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Now Candy, *I* sent you a nude photo.

Of course it wasn't of me.

Petruchio


Runs to email and looks..but then..why if it's not You?

Only kidding; please do not send this stuff to me. i blush.

candystripper




candystripper -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 2:43:28 AM)

Quivver! Where is your nudie?

BTW, lovely but rarely nude fetish pics are at www.deviantart.com.

Enjoy.

candystripper




Quivver -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 4:43:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Quivver! Where is your nudie?

candystripper



Candy... LOL, would you like it emailed!!???!!
[:D]
Q




DesertRat -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 7:00:43 AM)

Semi-nude (shirtless) here. I do it because I want a potential partner to have a pretty good idea of what I look like. Also, I'm comfortable with my appearance.

Considering where we are, this seems an odd question.

Bob




Sensualips -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 7:16:51 AM)

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Can someone tell me why some Men (and women) display themselves in pictures as nude or semi-nude?


Is this really sincere question or an excuse to point out how many nude photographs one is receiving and complain about this? I mean, that is fine if it is just a gripe...but I am not sure why this would puzzle a person that has a sexy photograph of a woman in a corset showing cleavage as her avatar?

- Sexuality is often a key component of wiitwd and photographs may reflect that.
- Some people are exhibitionists and like the reactions to their photographs
- Some want what they look like unclothed out there, so the recipient can make a determination on if they are physically attracted to them up front (if that is important to the recipient)
- A minority of profiles actually require a nude or semi nude picture for consideration and state that, thus giving the impression this is acceptable overall
- They think it might turn you on and lure you in
- They have a nude or semi nude picture they think really flatters them and want to show it off
- For shock value or to prove they are "serious"

I dunno, I can think of many reasons. I rarely get nude photographs so I don't see it as a huge issue I guess.






IceyOne -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 7:17:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: candystripper

May i please ask a question? Can someone tell me why some Men (and women) display themselves in pictures as nude or semi-nude?

Thank You.

candystripper



Maybe because they are extremely comfortable in their body, and have no qualms about showing that confidence.




Crazytwice -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 9:18:04 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sensualips


Is this really sincere question or an excuse to point out how many nude photographs one is receiving and complain about this? I mean, that is fine if it is just a gripe...but I am not sure why this would puzzle a person that has a sexy photograph of a woman in a corset showing cleavage as her avatar?




I was thinking exactly the same thing but didnt quite know how to put it.
Thanks for putting my thoughts to page, Sensual.




Arpig -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 9:51:29 AM)

Myself, I do not have a semi-nude picture of myself purely out of consideration of those of you who may have just finished eating[;)]




justheather -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 9:53:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

I dunno, I can think of many reasons. I rarely get nude photographs so I don't see it as a huge issue I guess.

Nobody sends me nude pics either.
Not that Im complaining.




candystripper -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/1/2006 11:13:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Sensualips


Is this really sincere question or an excuse to point out how many nude photographs one is receiving and complain about this? I mean, that is fine if it is just a gripe...but I am not sure why this would puzzle a person that has a sexy photograph of a woman in a corset showing cleavage as her avatar?


I was thinking exactly the same thing but didnt quite know how to put it.
Thanks for putting my thoughts to page, Sensual.

Crazytwice


Nope; i really wanted the info. TY everyone.

candystripper




Petruchio -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/2/2006 2:49:15 PM)

Four or five years ago, I got a number of photos from a woman which kept getting more and more graphic. What I found odd was that she was anticipating a relationship, but sending photos of her sucking some other guy in public.

Oh, sure, I want that image in my mind.





sultryvoice -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/2/2006 6:15:29 PM)

I don't want to see someones genitals in the first picture. I want to see the person...clothed! If we hit it off and develope a relationship, then I want to see it as much as I can. Whether it's a sex site or not..why put it out there. You can easily send it in an email personally when appropriate. Some men just shouldn't show their dick..I would be ashamed of it! LOL!!!

Respectfully but in good humor...
sultry




Sensualips -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/2/2006 6:30:55 PM)

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but sending photos of her sucking some other guy in public.

Oh, sure, I want that image in my mind.


So...you didn't like the photos?

What if I sent me going down on a girl? Would that help?




Petruchio -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/7/2006 6:16:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

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but sending photos of her sucking some other guy in public.

Oh, sure, I want that image in my mind.


So...you didn't like the photos?

What if I sent me going down on a girl? Would that help?


(laughing) It was that photo of the naked goat that put me off!

Hmm… Let's see… How's this… A photo of going down on me! Ah yes, that would work! Yum.




IronBear -> RE: A Question about Presentating Yourself (2/9/2006 6:02:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

First off there is a world of difference between a nude photo and a cock shot. To me, a nude photo is a display of ones whole body and their whole sexuality. A cock shot is only emphasizing their immediate sexual desire and nothing else. Maybe Ironbear is right when he suggested advertizing. The men that do this probably watch those pornos where the man walks in, shows his cock, and the girl is practically cumming at the sight of this, and so the guy thinks this is the usual response. Bottom line, men are visual creatures.


You may be more right than you immagine foxglove. I hear a large number of stories from the people I'm talking to, or more accurately, listening to as a counsellor. It appears that, and I've heard this from quite a few youngish guys themselves, that all a woman wants is a large hard cock and she will fall into a leg spread possition or at least come beggig for sex. This myth is one I grew up with and has been handed down in our male culture for generations. Not once have I heard anything about forplay or even wanting to spend time pleasing a woman. Most of the well ghung young bucks appear to believe they are God's gift to women. Ok that is also part of growing up and in that sence is fine, however when they start to believe that the immage they have of themselves in the dunny is in fact reality and thus it is likely that they are the ones who want to display their One Eyed Trouser Snake (I've even seen pics of guys Pointing Percy at the Porcelane to impress ladies).

Just consider those who want to show you the only part of them which may have a brain in it's head, as poor delusional buggers who can't organize a fuck in a brothel and need you applause.. If you like what you see, have pitty and send money(Monopoly Money is good) rather than embarased comments that way they can at least be income earning cyber whores....




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