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dacovale -> so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 4:17:13 PM)
Or not even new enough to be new, how does one go about finding mistress and getting to the point of discovering to just what tune of kink it is you dance? How do you find your local hangouts or places where your most likely to cross pathes with the possibly like minded. The most social things I seem do are volunteering and that obviously won't get me very far.

SomethingCatchy -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 4:24:26 PM)
You're about an hour from Tampa and you're asking us to point you in the right direction? I suggest doing a search for BDSM munch groups in your area, but that might be a bit too easy.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 4:28:56 PM)
Sometimes I honestly wonder how I hooked up with anyone, back in those days Before The Internets.

dacovale -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 4:46:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy You're about an hour from Tampa and you're asking us to point you in the right direction? I suggest doing a search for BDSM munch groups in your area, but that might be a bit too easy. I'm quite clueless I assure you dear, my apologies but what about tampa should I know that I don't? Been there to help a model friend of mine clothes/makeup ... and make sure she wasn't bothered, big city, terrible traffic, great spaghetti but is it popular for BDSM?

CarrieO -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 6:58:09 PM)
Google is your friend... http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgsflorida.html

SnowRanger -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 7:10:03 PM)
I am with Lady Hibuscus. Munches and PEP (with all of it's subsequent incarnations) meetings were great. However, the internet has been my best tool.

dacovale -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/19/2009 7:31:36 PM)
thank you all very much for your replys on the subject

stella41b -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/21/2009 5:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dacovale thank you all very much for your replys on the subject Just remember to keep the Satnav on.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/24/2009 7:20:22 PM)
Check femdom magazines, online femdom directories, online personals and classifieds, free sites like GoddessClub.com for loads of helpful advice and tips, and local bdsm stores for events. Hope this helps.

MissEnchanted -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/25/2009 7:16:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves Check femdom magazines, online femdom directories, online personals and classifieds, free sites like GoddessClub.com for loads of helpful advice and tips, and local bdsm stores for events. Hope this helps. Your self-promotion really irks me sometimes! There are a TON of links to FREE sites to connect with good people who hang out as kinksters and do all kinds of fun things together. My local group has been a life-saver and I plan one play party a week. This is free and subs and Dommes get to experience, practice and do vanilla things together. OP: look around, find a local group, ask them if they are a good group for beginners. http://www.google.com/search?q=tampa+bdsm+groups&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a This will cost you nothing to join....and experiences that thrill and satisfy that need you have to serve. Have a great time! Me

slavelash -> RE: so if your new to the life, where do you go (4/25/2009 3:48:01 PM)
It was the Internet that proved to me i wasn't "sick" like society said. i remember a few years back when i first did research in the early Internet days, i was shocked to find how many people there were out there who felt JUST LIKE ME! It was a freaking release i'll never forget!

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