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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 1:24:30 PM

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Oh for heaven's sake! I totally missed what you were asking, Peon! I forget that you are not bombarded with endless commercials for Viagra and Cialis in the UK!

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 1:33:08 PM

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Don't worry. I was blithering away anyway.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 1:34:18 PM

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Oh, I'm programmed to skip over blithering!

This has been a dang funny thread, I must say...

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 2:03:55 PM

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Proper dommies don't say "dang", Lady Hib.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 2:15:21 PM

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I'm sure that for some people I am a less than proper dominant, since I not only like penetrative sex in the missionary position, get very annoyed if my enjoyment of the orgasm is interrupted by someone wanting me to tell them what to do, and enjoy watching a man have an orgasm but have been known when sizing up a sex partner to smile to myself as I note his small hands. Tsk. How un-domly of me. (grin)

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:18:08 PM

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manxcat wrote: ... today is "National Penis Day" in Japan! What wrong with ours? Why we don't have such an important day in the U.S. and the rest of the world?

Isn't Steak and Blowjobs day (14th March) good enough for you?

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:20:30 PM

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Tut. It's not 'penetrative' sex, Alexandria - it's 'enveloping' sex. A man actively penetrates a passive woman, whereas a woman actively envelopes a passive man.

(Or, at least, that's one method of finding one's way to seeing intercourse as female-dominant, if one needs to find such a method.) This has come up recently in SnowRanger's thread. Though I have to say, 'envelopes' still sounds a bit soft and wishy-washy to me. I like to think of a woman driving me into her - preferably digging her talons into my bum as she does so.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:23:37 PM

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LadyPact wrote: Two things you have to understand about that. Not everybody processes pain the same way, even if they are engaging in S/m. Painful stimuli doesn't necessarily give everyone an erection. Just like different kinds of pain will produce one when others won't.

Similarly, I'm often not hard when being penetrated anally but that shouldn't be taken as an indication that I'm not enjoying myself. With spanking, I quite often get soft at first, and then get hard again as I get into it.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:32:28 PM

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beeble wrote: The problem is that he has a preconcieved idea that any situation that involves his cock being in your mouth is one in which you are submitting to him. This probably means that he has other preconceived ideas about what dominant women should and should not do and isn't the sub for you.
PeonForHer wrote: I'm not so sure, Beeble. At one time I most certainly assumed that cocksucking was inherently a submissive thing for a woman to do. That assumption got uprooted with a pop the first time one particular woman who did it explained how it made her feel. People can change.

OK but the OP referred to potential subs `turn[ing] away in baffled confusion' when blowjobs were mentioned. Maybe they'll change eventually but if they're not even at the stage of even asking questions about the things that run counter to their expectations, that change is probably quite a while off.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:33:52 PM

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Hmm. I've often been spanked or whipped at BDSM clubs and got no reaction at all. I've agreed to have it done out of politeness, really - but I've not been able to feel much because there's been no connection between me and the spanker/whipper. As for being penetrated - well, full-blown, spectacular, orgasm without erection. 'Prostate-milking' doesn't do justice to what I've felt.

I don't basically care. It's all fun and I'll have an erection before, during or after - or indeed all three.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:41:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: beeble

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beeble wrote: The problem is that he has a preconcieved idea that any situation that involves his cock being in your mouth is one in which you are submitting to him. This probably means that he has other preconceived ideas about what dominant women should and should not do and isn't the sub for you.
PeonForHer wrote: I'm not so sure, Beeble. At one time I most certainly assumed that cocksucking was inherently a submissive thing for a woman to do. That assumption got uprooted with a pop the first time one particular woman who did it explained how it made her feel. People can change.

OK but the OP referred to potential subs `turn[ing] away in baffled confusion' when blowjobs were mentioned. Maybe they'll change eventually but if they're not even at the stage of even asking questions about the things that run counter to their expectations, that change is probably quite a while off.

beeble.

True. And the change might not ever happen.

I do think, though, that there's a certain mixture of philosophical and psychological views that helps one change one's mind more rapidly and effectively on certain, deeper sorts of assumptions - or prejudices. I just don't feel up to articulating the nature of that mixture this late at night. Too many snifters at my local again, I'm afraid.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:46:41 PM

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Fast reply...I have enjoyed the read and men may not want to admit it or not but pussy rules this world,I see nothing wrong at all with a dominate woman enjoy sex in any position she wants or giving a bj if that is what she enjoys doing..its her property so enjoy the ride,I know of one Dom woman that has no problem with telling me 'take a shower and get your bony ass to bed I want some cock; smile..Bounty

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 3:53:41 PM

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I forget that you are not bombarded with endless commercials for Viagra and Cialis in the UK!

I am in my email inbox Ma`am..... One wonders how they knew.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:14:49 PM

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Proper dommies don't say "dang", Lady Hib.

Quite correct. Proper Dominants say, "fuck Me now!"

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:21:00 PM

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Quite so, LP. However, both you and Alexandria need to be brought to task on the matter of skirts and dresses. Proper dominants never, at any time, wear either.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:22:50 PM

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HARUMPH! First he picks on my language, now it's my clothes?

I'll wear dresses whenever I like, dagnabbit! Have you not HEARD of "easy access"?

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:26:00 PM

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Quite so, LP. However, both you and Alexandria need to be brought to task on the matter of skirts and dresses. Proper dominants never, at any time, wear either.

What else would you expect a leather Mistress to wear? Pajama bottoms?

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:44:03 PM

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HARUMPH! First he picks on my language, now it's my clothes?

I'll wear dresses whenever I like, dagnabbit! Have you not HEARD of "easy access"?

No, LH, I don't think he has. I doubt very much if anyone has ever given him easy access.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:44:56 PM

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Perhaps he should wear a kilt.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/21/2009 4:46:36 PM

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Now *there's* easy access!

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