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BKSir -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/20/2009 6:53:54 PM)

that would be "I think, therefore, I am.", yes?

If that's the case, a lot of people just simply "aren't". ;)




cpK69 -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/20/2009 9:26:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stella41b

Existensialism.

Simply google 'Jean Paul Sartre'.



If I am reading it right; been there. Thankfully, I made it back
Kim




DavanKael -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/20/2009 9:51:35 PM)

I know people who use all sorts of self-identifiers who state that they're happily single. 
I abhorr singleness but nowhere near enough to settle.  < shrug >
  Davan




SailingBum -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/21/2009 12:12:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

" How can you be a Dominant, when You don't have a sub, don't play and aren't seeking?"--I have My response, but I wonder if My response is a need to defend versus validate versus simply state: we are what we believe, irregardless...
 
what say you?


LOL I would not respond to the idiot that asked me that question.  I suspect their reasoning level was about of a 5 year old!  For discussion sake let's forget the fact that it is a personality trait.  If I were a laid off carpenter would I still be a carpenter???

I hope you response to them was.... Do not reproduce.

BadOne




LadySweetOrSour -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/21/2009 12:18:12 AM)

I've been married, I've been divorced, I've dated, I've been single. No matter what I have been in a relationship sense, I have always been me.

A relationship enriches your life in some way, but not being in a relationship is enriching in other ways.

Quite honestly, I don't need a label. I am just me. And I always will be me, regardless of marital status.




chezzy71 -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/21/2009 3:20:42 AM)

yes we are what we are..but i also feel that if we go extended periods of time alone,we lose touch with what you are until a spark of interest comes along in any form to resurrect who we are.it's the old out of mind out of sight routine and it can be easily out of mind for any number of reasons.




Goddess2002 -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/21/2009 3:31:01 AM)

When a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a noise?

Yes, Dominance is a way of being and is ingrained into an individual's character. One may not have a sub at the moment to act out Dominant behavior, but it doesn't change the essence of who that person is intrinsically.




subangi -> RE: You Can't Be This, If You Don't Have That (4/21/2009 5:40:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

[I hope you response to them was.... Do not reproduce.

BadOne

That is priceless... I love that response! lol




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