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califsue -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/26/2009 5:33:41 PM)
I went to my first munch alone but had been in contact with the hosts so when I came they had an idea who I was. No kink gear as the one I attend is in a family restaurant. Although we meet in the banquet room there are two glass windows and people can see through as they use the restaurant facilites. The waitstaff knows what the group is about so that is not a problem.

spicysugar1 -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/28/2009 6:17:43 PM)
I attended my first munch alone too. Yes, it was intimidating to walk up to a large group and hope like hell it was the right one before asking "is this the munch?" It was worth it though, the people went out of their way to be friendly, and welcoming. I was so happy to have found the correct group that first time...as it turned out, there was also a bible study group that met in the same location on the same night!

ohsocheekyslave -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/29/2009 4:08:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spicysugar1 I was so happy to have found the correct group that first time...as it turned out, there was also a bible study group that met in the same location on the same night! Oh my - now that could have been interesting!!! Good for you venturing on your own first time.... am definitely going to head to one soon..... Yay!

RavenMuse -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/29/2009 9:35:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ohsocheekyslave am definitely going to head to one soon..... Yay! Well next Sunday is the London Alternative Market in clapham, larger than a munch but still a good introduction for someone just entering the scene and building their confidence before stepping up to things like clubs and playpartys. Are you feeling brave? [8D]

girlivy -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/29/2009 10:08:25 PM)
Totally understand about the Munches... This one lived 7 minutes from the Orlando Munch, and only took a mere 3 months of knowing Before attending! Some suggestions from this ones experience... Check out if the have a yahoo group or anoither and start intro there. Specifics on goings on, etc etc Are there any public dungeons there to attend with another for classes on assorted subjects on?? Do some rescearch on the place that the munch is held at, the throw in a ittle CS and dress accordingly.. Every location vairies as to garb worn... i'm excited for you in your new experiences! Enjoy! quote: ORIGINAL: ohsocheekyslave So... here's the deal! Have just split from Master.... and well you know what it's like, He becomes your world and then that world you knew is no longer the same and quite frankly feels a little empty... yes i have my friends outside of this lifestyle but well... you know what i mean! Anyway, i'm certainly not ready to go seeking and jumping into anything new, but i would like to make some like minded friends and have often thought about rocking up to a local munch... But the thought of walking on through that door on my own is downright petrifying... so i was wondering if anyone had been to there first munch on their own? how did you pluck up the courage? how did you know who was munching (pardon the phrase) and who wasn't - i'm assuming that it's not necessarily everyone in full kink gear? What was it like? Questions questions! Thanks in advance cheekyslave

RealSub58 -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/30/2009 9:26:41 AM)
Gosh Darn, deceptive OP titles are soooooo consternating . . . . . .I was gonna ask for a cranberry martini with the *munchies provided ~~ ~~* *You know, provide company to commiserate with? [:-]*

ElectraGlide -> RE: Munching Alone? (4/30/2009 9:34:18 AM)
I went to my first several munches alone. I was nervous at the first one, but things went smooth real fast. I looked forward to talking with the people at the following munches. Munches normally have a host, contact the host before going. The host will make you feel comfortable, knowing that it is your first munch.

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