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RE: Fighting back for fun! - 2/1/2006 6:40:44 PM

justheather

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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It's reassuring to know that there is some feistiness (defiant spunk perhaps?) in all of us that surfaces from time to time.

just an observation and please excuse this slave if you feel she is being a stick-in-the-mud over such a happy thread, that is not the intent, but....however reassuring it might be to know that there are others that agree with you and/or indulge your desires~it is a misconception that there is a feistiness or defiant spunk towards Master in ALL of us, or the converse absolute that all on the other side of the slash find it a desirable or entertaining thing.

I agree.

This is not a dynamic I have explored or wish to explore with my dominant. I believe it would be antithetical to the core dynamic of our relationship. I think, though, that may stem from the strong D/s base we have, as opposed to more of an orientation toward sensation "play".

Even our S/m interactions are rooted in D/s and more often than not tend to materialize organically as opposed to "scenes" and in a case where he has planned something out in advance it is not something that we "negotiate". Perhaps these are reasons it simply would not fit in with our particular expression of kink.

And if I were ever in a position where I felt compelled to "fight back", which I can not imagine (dont want to imagine it either), but anything is possible I guess, I would guess that it would not be "for fun".

ps i just realized how "many times" i used "quotation marks" in this "post" and would like to clarify that I strongly believe that people should engage in whatever type of behaviors they find best expresses their kink and I did not intend the "quotes" as belittling in any way.
"Thanks"

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RE: Fighting back for fun! - 2/1/2006 7:35:00 PM

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it is a misconception that there is a feistiness or defiant spunk towards Master in ALL of us, or the converse absolute that all on the other side of the slash find it a desirable or entertaining thing.

I by no means meant to offer, suggest, infer or elude to the fact that every single person has experienced, desired, thought or acted in this manner. If this was how my post came across, my apologies, for this is not the message i desired to make.

I definately did not mention harboring defiant spunk towards Master. Simply that frustrations in our lives can at times wind us up a bit. If this fact is recognized, pending both sides of the slash are willing, what better outlet for these frustrations. If in the process of releasing said frustrations, something is learned, experienced, realized or discovered about ourselves, then i personally think it beneficial.

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RE: Fighting back for fun! - 2/1/2006 7:53:17 PM

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i flat-out asked my Master if He likes it when i resist, sometimes. He does enjoy it sometimes.

Sometimes, when He is tickling me, or biting or pinching, i do slap at His hands and try to get away. it is not always a conscious decision, it is instinct. Now, when He looks at me with the "So, that's how you want it?!?" look, i am pretty much in for a lot more torture. Sometimes He just pins me down and has His way. We are very conversationsal when playing (unless i am ordered not to speak), and we happen to laugh a lot... at least He does.

Yesterday, He had my legs pinned under Him, and was ticking me unmercifully. i swear, it was like He was riding a mechanical bull with how much i was bucking Him. *l* i have strong legs. And i never got away.

As He leaned over, pinned my wrists, and put a big ole bitemark on my breast, the conversation went as follows:

me: Owwwwwwwwww! [griping] Mean old Man!

Him: Oh? Well, I'll show you mean!

me: [As He is biting me all over my body... Hard] Ow! Oh! Sorry! Not mean! Ow! Ah! Please! No! Please! Quiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttttttt! Maaaaaaaasttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeerrrrr![There is some laughter interspersed, but mostly pain.]

Him: [Coming up to look me in the eye] Yessssssss?

me: Sweeeeeeeeeeetie Piiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeee

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RE: Fighting back for fun! - 2/1/2006 9:17:45 PM

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My BF and I do this all the time as we love rough sex. Usually I start it by slapping his face telling him what nasty perverted slut he is and it goes from there. After all the hair pulling, biting, slapping (I can slap him but he can't slap me. My rule

) kicking and holding down, we finish bruised, hair all a mess, rug burns on various body parts, looks like we've been thru the war but DAMN was it worth it. Try ripping off each others clothes that always gets my engine revved. I highly recommend it.

~Alexa

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RE: Fighting back for fun! - 2/1/2006 9:41:02 PM

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I agree with all the posts so far. It's a matter of what you like, just like everything else.

I think for me it's about getting that little boost of how much He wants me. Plus when He uses the "voice" I just melt. I rarely misbehave and need discipline so I don't get to hear it. I'd rather have some feisty playful sex to get that little "hit" of animal from Him than eventually be driven to misbehave just to get it.

Typewriter is super attentive so it's not that I'm attentioned starved, but can a girl really get too much attention from a Master she loves?
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