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lenasol -> Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 5:39:55 AM)
Good evening to you all~ I'm Peach, a nineteen-year old submissive who's new to the lifestyle... though I've had inclinations toward all bdsm entails for as long as I can remember. I've only just joined, and would love to meet people who'd like to share their experiences and tips for those trying to ease into the lifestyle. I'm still pretty closeted, I guess, but I'm hoping I'll grow more comfortable with this part of myself as I learn and gain new experiences. This is my first time joining any kind of bdsm-related site, so I'm not sure what to expect... but I'll try to enjoy myself while I'm here, and maybe help a few others enjoy themselves as well. Have a nice night!

Kaiel -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 5:44:05 AM)
Welcome peach!

DarkSteven -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 6:34:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lenasol This is my first time joining any kind of bdsm-related site, so I'm not sure what to expect... You can expect a flood of interest from a LOT of males here. Welcome to the funhouse. Just a quick comment - I reviewed your likes/dislikes list and it seems to me that you're mostly into service, not the kinky sex stuff. Nothing at all wrong with that, but most of the people contacting you will want the kinky stuff. Weed 'em out.

lenasol -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 6:52:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven You can expect a flood of interest from a LOT of males here. Welcome to the funhouse. Just a quick comment - I reviewed your likes/dislikes list and it seems to me that you're mostly into service, not the kinky sex stuff. Nothing at all wrong with that, but most of the people contacting you will want the kinky stuff. Weed 'em out. Thank you for the advice... yes, I've received quite a few messages already re: kinksexiness, and sent my polite declinations. :) A few messages have been quite helpful and friendly, much more so than I think I was expecting, and I am pleased of that! Only one rude message, out of all. Not a bad record, I think.

lizi -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 7:08:43 AM)
Welcome. As DarkSteven said...prepare for the deluge lol. I was quite unprepared for the level of interest I received and even hid my profile after a few days of having it up. That in itself, the crazy amount of emails from interested parties, was enough to throw me off balance in the beginning. I was new to the lifestyle as well as being new to CM and I just felt overwhelmed. Take a deep breath, look at things carefully, don't rush into anything, consider, read the message boards, keep things at a level you are comfortable with.....that's all I can think of for now [:)] Try to be true to yourself is the best thing I can tell you and it's hard when you don't have much experience at first to know what you want. People would ask what I was 'into' and I really didn't know what to tell them. Don't sweat it, you will figure that part out with time. You will literally meet people of every type- there is someone out there that's right for you. I had a few false starts and then found someone I am extremely happy with. Don't hesitate to cmail me if you have more questions or if something comes up later....good luck!

lenasol -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 10:48:51 AM)
I've never received so many messages without, well, doing much of anything to instill myself in the community. It's a little surprising, to say the least! However I have met one or two individuals who were quite helpful and polite. I may make my profile private, but for now I can always simply delete what I don't like. I probably will contact you sometime, lizi. Thanks for the advice! You may of course also message me at any time you'd like... I'm a fast replier! For now I'm going to lurk around the forums and read what I can before making any other posts(outside of here, I mean, it is my thread) myself. :)

ChainGoddess -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/23/2009 3:30:47 PM)
Hello Peach. Welcome to cm. Have fun, stay safe and most of all enjoy.

PanthersMom -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/24/2009 4:50:06 AM)
hi Peach, welcome to CM PM

SarahPie -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/26/2009 6:51:23 PM)
Hi Peach! I am new as well, and a sub! Just trying to navigate through the fakes is frightening enough, but hopefully not too many of the creepers find you, lol.

Turner999993 -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/27/2009 12:52:17 AM)
Hello Enjoy the ride! M/many here can be genuine and it seems some of the less pleasant stuff can rise to the top. I wish you well in your journey. Turner

Darkdawg -> RE: Fresh Meat. (4/27/2009 6:49:54 AM)
My adivice to you peach is too have fun but remember most of the men who contact you have no more real experience than you do ... find one who makes your clit twitch and go meet him in person.

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