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Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:22:35 AM   
Want2BinBondage


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Status: offline 		Please don't judge somebody and block them from one or 2 e-mails to you... give people a chance. Too many people make judgements on others without knowing all the facts or jumping to conclusions! Just because someone may have pissed you off, or came on too strongly give them the benefit of the doubt..people change. Sometimes they send e-mails that they later re-gret.... Just don't block them hastily. Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!
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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:25:35 AM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		You only get ONE chance to make a FIRST impression.

If that first impression is "HI! I'm a Twit and have none of the same interests as you but feel that you should accept me anyway."

Yes you will get blocked because I don't have the time to even start explaining why you missed the bus.

Be well.

Steel

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:27:00 AM   
sirsholly


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Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!


i do not think narcissism is the issue here. If i get a c-mail that is out of line i am not going to give them the benefit of the doubt and hope they change for the better.

Perhaps they need to remove their head from their ass and realize first impressions/manners matter.


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:29:03 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: Want2BinBondage
Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!


Wrong. Nobody is as perfect as moi  .

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:30:04 AM   
SteelofUtah


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:30:35 AM   
kittinSol


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:30:46 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Here's My MO.  I do it every day at least ten times on this site.

If you have contacted Me and do not fit what I say I'm interested in by what I've written in My profile, I'm going to point out that fact in a return email, and then block you.  There is no need for Me to waste My time 'giving you a chance' when you are obviously not what I am looking for in the first place.


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:30:54 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: Want2BinBondage
Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!


Wrong. Nobody is as perfect as moi  .



My hair doesn't frizz in the humidity...so there


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:31:59 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: Want2BinBondage
Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!


Wrong. Nobody is as perfect as moi  .



My hair doesn't frizz in the humidity...so there



Frizz? Pah! That's for the commonest of mortals. Frizz is so far beneath me, I could digest it with my arse.

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:33:31 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: Want2BinBondage

Please don't judge somebody and block them from one or 2 e-mails to you... give people a chance.f Too many people make judgements on others without knowing all the facts or jumping to conclusions! Just because someone may have pissed you off, or came on too strongly give them the benefit of the doubt..people change. Sometimes they send e-mails that they later re-gret.... Just don't block them hastily. Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!


whoa.....just read your profile Dude....Married and looking for discretion.

Allow me to make a judgment here....


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:35:15 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

whoa.....just read your profile Dude....Married and looking for discretion.

Allow me to make a judgment here....





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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:36:15 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Good catch, Holly!

Gee, a married guy looking to play around behind his wife's back, and he's wondering why some people don't want to get into that.


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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:39:34 AM   
strangedesire


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Status: offline 		If I get an email from a twit, I usually just delete it without blocking them.  In a month or two, I'll have forgotten him (or her) and he'll have a chance to make a better first impression.  I see nothing wrong with choosing to block first and ask questions later, though. 

That said, OP, if people keep blocking you, you're probably doing something wrong in your first few emails.  Learn from your mistakes. 

Also?  If you talk to a domme, and she doesn't want to do "discreet daytime bondage sessions" with a married man, leave it alone.  Many women have pretty strong opinions about playing behind a spouse's back, and whatever "all the facts" are, trying to convince a woman you've never met to abandon her principles for you is somewhat tasteless.  

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:43:08 AM   
Bella1965


Posts: 285
Joined: 12/12/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		G'morning all:


quote:

ORIGINAL: Want2BinBondage
Not every one is as perfect as you seem to think you are!
Sounds like sour grapes to me. HINT: If you're married and looking for "discreet" play, chances are you're cheating on your spouse and most practitioners of the alternative lifestyle frown on this lack of honesty.

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah
You only get ONE chance to make a FIRST impression.
If that first impression is "HI! I'm a Twit and have none of the same interests as you but feel that you should accept me anyway."
Yes you will get blocked because I don't have the time to even start explaining why you missed the bus.

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
Perhaps they need to remove their head from their ass and realize first impressions/manners matter.
BINGO!!

I'll go a step further. If someone doesn't match my criteria, I'm not wasting my very valuable time to bother with a reply. I specify certain requirements. I don't deviate from them, for anyone, for any reason. I'm not here to be objectified into someone's fetishes simply because they've taken a fancy to my pictures or what have you.

My suggestion; bite the bullet, stop being cheap and go seek the services of a professional dominant and get your jollies off for sure.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...





Bella

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:44:48 AM   
SteelofUtah


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From: St George Utah
Status: offline 		What Kind of Details would we need?

My Wife has no genitalia and I don't want to get her feelings but still wanna get my rocks off?

I mean that would be the bare minimum that I would accept and even then I would still call you a douche for getting married in the first place only to want something more later and not be willing to have the guts to talk that out with your wife.

Doing things behind your partners back is just dispicable I doubt any amount of explaining would change my mind about that and from the comments already made on this thread I doubt I am alone on that fact.

Steel

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:47:19 AM   
LRODANDMASTER


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Status: offline 		IF U WANNA GET BLOKED FAST THE BEST WAY IS TO TYPEM A NOTE WERE YOU SAY KNEL NOW BITCH AND PUT IT IN ALL CAPS.

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:49:28 AM   
SteelofUtah


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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

IF U WANNA GET BLOKED FAST THE BEST WAY IS TO TYPEM A NOTE WERE YOU SAY KNEL NOW BITCH AND PUT IT IN ALL CAPS.

Dominant as I am that would make me all pudding like.

Give me more of your Mis-Spelled attempts at Dominantion and do with authority using the Cap Lock Key!!!!!

Steel .... But putty or clay for your creation.

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:58:55 AM   
camille65


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Steel .... But putty or clay for your creation.


Silly putty!



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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 9:59:50 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

IF U WANNA GET BLOKED FAST THE BEST WAY IS TO TYPEM A NOTE WERE YOU SAY KNEL NOW BITCH AND PUT IT IN ALL CAPS.


I love you, LROD.

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RE: Blocking profiles - 4/23/2009 10:06:35 AM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		My profile states the reasons why I block and delete. Those who fit those reasons will be blocked. Its nothing to do with anyone personally, except that they don't fit my needs. So really, I'm doing them a favor, because if they don't fit my needs, then I'm sure I won't fit theirs either.

Learn to see the block as a good thing. It keeps us both from wasting any more of our precious time on one another.

My profile states that I'm just here to talk, and that anyone asking to serve me, IM, PM, cam, talk on the phone with me etc. will be blocked. Take me at my word, but don't take it personally.

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